Don't tell your children to start early education. Children's education has a great influence on their growth. Therefore, there are many ways to start parenting, with different skills and different gains. Let's introduce the nursery camp below. Don't tell your children to start early education.

Don't tell the children to hurry up, teach 1 to interrupt the rhythm. At the China Science and Technology Museum, 4-year-old Xiaoxiao ran around tirelessly beside the motion transmission device, turning the handle to watch the ball go forward, fall, rise and fall again ... The mother on the side walked around impatiently: "What's the point of playing with an old man?" If you play again, there will be no time to play with others!

"I'm not sure, I left with my child, but the child has been struggling to turn back ..." Every time I see my 2-and-a-half-year-old daughter awkwardly and slowly lifting a small spoon for dinner, I can't bear it. Although my daughter can finish her meal slowly, I really can't stand her slow pace, so I just picked up a spoon and stuffed it in her mouth, which became the norm.

"Rebecca said that he knew it was wrong," but only when I saw the food my daughter ate did I feel at ease. "This kind of urging or even hands-on scene is no stranger to most parents, right? I always hope that children will act according to their own ideas and their own rhythm.

In fact, the life rhythm, physiological rhythm and life rhythm of adults and children are very different. Children have their own rhythm. For them, the most comfortable, smooth and powerful thing is to conform to their own physiological rhythm.

If the child's life pace is too fast, it will affect the body's hormone secretion and cause physical and psychological harm. Children who are often disturbed in rhythm generally have the characteristics of precocity, irritability and poor patience, or on the contrary, they are slow to respond, self-suppressed and overly dependent on certain things.

The first kind of children learn to please others and give priority to their own wishes, but the second kind of children feel that they are "bad children" because they can't meet their parents' requirements, thus losing confidence. "In both cases, children lose the foundation of self without exception." French child psychiatrist and psychologist Christine Flavigny lamented.

Don't say "hurry" to children. Don't say "hurry up" to children. It's good to slow down. Education itself is a slow and meticulous work and a subtle life process. The change of children is extremely slow and subtle. It needs the precipitation of life and careful cultivation.

Unfortunately, the fast-paced development of modern society makes us lose our "slow" life gradually, and also makes us lose our "slow" ability in the process of educating our children.

Once, parents told their children that the mantra was "Walk slowly, be careful to fall down" and "Eat slowly, be careful to choke". Now, what children hear most is "eat quickly", "do homework quickly", "play the piano quickly", "sleep quickly" and even "play quickly".

Is "fast" really important for children? Is "slowness" a child's shortcoming? Is "fast" or "slow" more meaningful to growing children?

In fact, it is not difficult to find that when we say "fast", we don't start from the characteristics of children's physical and mental development at all, but force them to wind up and let them do mechanical movement like a machine with gears. At our urging, the children eat, draw and play ... It seems that the faster they do it, the more worried we are.

In the future, parents may wish to change the word "urgent" to "slow down and take your time". Tell children that there is enough time, don't worry, as long as they are serious, they will be able to finish and do well.

When eating, tell your child to "chew slowly and eat the fragrance of food"; When drawing, it is suggested that children "don't write in a hurry, close their eyes and think about what to draw and how to draw"; When playing games, allow children to "play as many times as they like" ...

Over time, children naturally develop a good habit of being serious and calm.

Parents always want their children to act according to their own ideas and at their own pace. In fact, the life rhythm, physiological rhythm and life rhythm of parents and children are very different.

Children have their own rhythm. For them, the most comfortable, smooth and beneficial thing is to conform to the natural physiological rhythm. If this rhythm is disturbed, it will run counter to the child's nature and even cause physical and psychological harm.

Education is a long process. As parents, it is imperative to slow down the pace of life with children as much as possible. Slowing down is not just stopping to catch my breath, but feeling and feeling around me, discovering, imagining and thinking.

Let's slow down and take snails for a walk.