After the baby is born for a few months, we often give her toys to play with when her hands can grasp things. She always looks around curiously with a toy, studies it over and over with her hands, and even puts it in her mouth.
We all look very interesting and think that the baby's cognitive ability must be improved, just as the toy manufacturer said. Then we continue to buy new toys to adapt to the development of children.
Later, my father and I became very busy at work and didn't have time to pay attention to buying new toys. It wasn't long before the baby got tired of playing with old toys. Taking advantage of the gap that grandma didn't pay attention to, he climbed to the TV and picked up the remote control, and studied it with great interest.
Grandma came out and saw it. She was afraid that she would play bad, so she quickly gave up drinking, took the remote control away and took her back to the toy area. The baby will naturally cry.
We didn't take this matter to heart, until one day I went to a friend's house to play. Her child was three years old, which was the age to be moved and learn.
But when I came in, I found that there were not many colorful toys in her house, but many daily necessities were scattered everywhere. Take a closer look, there are candy boxes, chargers, alarm clocks, hand cream, used lotion bottles and even a broken hair dryer. Her children are absorbed in playing with these things.
Seeing my surprised expression, my friend smiled and explained, "We don't buy toys for our children very much. We think those toys are fake, not real. Moreover, there are many small objects in daily life, and children are very interested in seeing them, so we simply scrub and transform the objects in life for children to play with, so that they can get in touch with the real world and the children have a good time.
By the way, we will also explain to him the purpose and usage of this item and how to pay attention to danger. Later, children actually know the things of life very well and know not to touch dangerous things.
Once grandma opened fire to stew soup and left the kitchen. Too much soup overflowed. When he saw it, he immediately went to us and pointed to the kitchen to babble. We found it in time. "The friend a face of gratified expression.
After listening to my friend's words, I can't help but be deeply inspired.
Nowadays, there are various toys on the market, with bright colors, good sound and light effects, exquisite structure and very attractive. However, these are not true after all, and you won't get anything by taking the time to thoroughly study this toy. Plastic pots are not pots after all, and toy phones with sound and light can't dial the signal after all.
Educator Montessori once said: Adults prepare all kinds of expensive toys with little educational significance for children in an attempt to attract children and prevent them from interfering with adults. As a result, not only did it fail to attract children for a long time, but it became the root of children's emotional frustration.
In fact, toys provide children with an environment without content, which can't make them concentrate, because it has no purpose and can only make children fall into the wrong path of illusion.
You have built a fairy tale world for your children with countless toys, which will only isolate them from the real world. After all, children live in the real world, with rules and injuries.
The more we cherish children, the more we pull them away from real life. The more dangerous they are, the less they can understand the real world. Knowing the real world earlier can avoid injuries and accidents earlier.
Nowadays, all kinds of news reports frequently see children falling into wells, scalding or being cheated, and everything is extremely correct. Some of the children in these news are still very young, and some are teenagers who should be able to distinguish things.
Children's weak safety awareness and ignorance of the real world need to arouse parents' vigilance. This is largely because children are too immersed in the virtual world created by adults with only toys and less contact with real life.
I found that no matter which child I know, I can basically see many toys now. Parents are very distressed about their children. Other children do, and they don't want their children not to.
I didn't have any toys when I was a child. I hope I can make up for them. On the other hand, it is also to learn from Nina Li Chi. Toy manufacturers claim that these toys have various superb functions, such as intelligence, early education, hand-foot coordination and so on. This makes parents who firmly believe that they can't lose at the starting line more determined to pay for their children.
Under such circumstances, children seem to like toys more and more.
For example, my neighbor's children are four or five years old and there are many toys at home. He also likes to play. He can study at home alone most of the time, and he must bring his beloved toys to kindergarten.
The family thinks it is a good thing that he loves reading, and also thinks that children should live in a childlike world. However, what they have neglected is that they are too immersed in the virtual world built by toys and don't touch the real society.
Nowadays, it is rare to buy toys for children, but like friends, choose something a little safer in life for children to play with.
She can learn more about our living environment by studying the structure of this object carefully and mastering its purpose. Seeing that we adults use these items, she will be happy to join in. Go out to play, not afraid of life, full of interest in the world.
Give children real toys, and children will accept the real world. Therefore, the most authentic toy for children is the truth in our life and the best love for children.
About the author:
The article begins with Tang's novel Parenting. Welcome to follow us. The author came back after stepping on a leaf, born in 1985, Ma Bao, with a master's degree in literature, and a number of platform columnists, who have long been concerned about children's education and psychology. Advocate science education
(This article comes from: Baidu Baby knows Tang Xiaoxiao)
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