This kind of confrontation often ends in the roar and abuse that parents can't restrain. However, children may not understand what they have done wrong.
In fact, educating children is not as difficult as imagined. As long as you master the correct ways and means, you will find that it is so simple to make children "obedient"!
Today, Bian Xiao teaches you how to talk and communicate with children correctly through several common examples ~
It's late, and the child doesn't want to sleep.
Children are watching TV or playing with toys. No matter how hurried their parents are, they don't want to go to bed.
Misrepresentation:
Decibel gradually rising roar: it's so late! Go to sleep quickly! Are you deaf? !
Correct statement:
Baby, it's time to go to bed in five minutes. Do you want to brush your teeth or tell a story first?
(2) Children dally.
I have to go to kindergarten or early education class in the morning, but the children are not in a hurry and don't cooperate with you to get dressed or something.
Misrepresentation:
Why are you so dawdling? ! It's late, you know? ! Hurry up!
Correct statement:
Baby, we're going out in 0/0 minutes. Do you want mom to help you put on your coat now, or do you want to wear it when you go out?
Children often say "no" or "don't"
Misrepresentation:
Listen, mom is doing it for your own good. What did you know when you were a child? If you don't listen, I'll hit you!
Correct statement:
You can say "no", but can you tell your mother why you don't?
(4) When a child accidentally breaks something.
Misrepresentation:
How could you be careless! I told you not to do this. You don't listen. Look!
Correct statement:
It doesn't matter, everyone makes mistakes, and so does mom. Let's clean up together ~
⑤ When children don't want to say hello.
Taking children out to meet colleagues and friends, children are unwilling to say hello anyway, and parents are often embarrassed.
Misrepresentation:
Why are you so rude? Is it so hard to say hello? !
Correct statement:
Baby, mom thinks you're unhappy. What's on your mind? Can you talk to mom? Mom is worried about you.
6. Children don't want to share toys.
Misrepresentation:
Learn to share and play for children!
Correct statement:
Baby, mom wants to discuss something with you. Can you play for 5 minutes first, and then play for other children for 5 minutes? Or give him other toys to play with for a while?
All landowners children cry to achieve their goals.
Misrepresentation:
Cry! Cry again, and I won't want you!
Correct statement:
Calm down first and have something to say. What do you want to say to your mother?