Don't think it is so easy. If you have a job before giving birth to a baby, and after being a stay-at-home mother, you can give your baby almost all the time, instead of going to work to make money as before, there will be a sense of gap between the two, and the sense of gap in your own value recognition will be entangled in whether it is worth it or not, and you will sacrifice another growth point of your life-work. Every job is not simple and can reflect a person's value, but what kind of courage does a mother need to give up her job and become a full-time mother in order to take better care of her children?

Stay-at-home mothers should first shift their focus and let themselves unswervingly implement this decision. You spent more time with and taking care of your children in the first few years, and this influence will even appear in the distant future. This sense of accomplishment is undoubtedly beyond any job.

You might as well treat a stay-at-home mother as a job and give yourself a sense of mission, so that you can do better. Usually, in order to take care of children, you can read some parenting books to expand your knowledge. I think this is also very effective.

I have a friend. She is the mother of two children. It can be said that she is a successful stay-at-home mother. I once asked her that it is hard to bring up two children. How can she do this day after day? She told me that she had another trick besides her natural love for children. She agreed with her family to have a fixed outdoor time of one hour every day. She is a beauty lover and can only make up her baby temporarily. She will use this free hour to stay in the bathroom, put on beautiful makeup, fiddle with her hobbies, and then take off her makeup. She said that this can not only discharge negative psychological energy, but also relax herself.

Yes, to be a successful full-time mother, mentality is very important. Sometimes bears are naive and want to explode in situ. We also need to learn to find an outlet for our negative emotions, cultivate our hobbies, and don't give up being a better self in order to take care of our children.

In fact, the method I just mentioned for my friends to adjust their mentality is not available from the beginning, but also a wonderful method to find out the contradictions that broke out after the baby was born.

When she gave birth to her first baby, she once told me about the bitterness of being a full-time mother. Apart from the daily hardships, she feels that she is a competent mother, wife and daughter-in-law, but she does not have herself. Every day is a cycle with no end in sight, just like a spiral staircase. When she got to the next staircase, it was the same, endless. She is worried that such a day will make her not herself. However, after that, her family also realized this problem. After constant running-in, she learned to adjust her mentality and be a successful full-time mother without losing herself.