Ten months of pregnancy alone can make a person physically and mentally exhausted. After the child is born, one should take care of the extremely fragile newborn baby, give them early education, worry about the baby's milk powder and other problems, then find a school for the child, teach them the truth of being a man, and be nervous about whether they are bullied outside.
When children work, they will start to worry about their future life, urge them to fall in love, find a partner and get married. When children get married, they will start to worry about when their children will give them grandchildren. There is an old saying in China that a child aged 100 will worry about being 99. It can be said that as long as a woman gives birth to a child and becomes a mother, her body and spirit will be affected by the child.
The most unacceptable thing is that white-haired people send black-haired people. A lady named Sheng Hailin in our country, her only daughter was born in 1980. Because of the one-child policy, she only gave birth to one child and was loved as the apple of her eye since childhood. Finally, my daughter grew up and got married, and Sheng Hailin and her husband retired. The family's life has been on the right track, but the accident came quietly.
It is difficult and dangerous for a 60-year-old woman to have children, but fortunately, Sheng Hailin finally succeeded in giving birth to twins. What followed was the financial pressure of raising two daughters. Although Sheng Hailin's pension is more than 10 thousand yuan, it is still not enough for today's high prices, so Sheng Hailin began to fly all over the world to give medical lectures to make money.
Sheng Hailin was heartbroken at the news of the death of his only daughter. She is almost desperate, and she can't even find a reason to live. She misses her daughter day and night. Later, she wanted to have another daughter to make up for her loss. After persuading her husband, Sheng Hailin began to look for various channels, such as adopting children from relatives and welfare homes. Finally, I failed to do it. In order to reunite his mother's dream, Sheng Hailin chose IVF.
It is difficult and dangerous for a 60-year-old woman to have children, but fortunately, Sheng Hailin finally succeeded in giving birth to twins. What followed was the financial pressure of raising two daughters. Although Sheng Hailin's pension is more than 10 thousand yuan, it is still not enough for today's high prices, so Sheng Hailin began to fly all over the world to give medical lectures to make money.
However, there are not many teenagers, and her husband is ill in bed because of a stroke, and the burden of the family is all on Sheng Hailin. In order to make money, she often can't accompany her children and is often not at home. Although she felt sorry for her daughter, she had no choice. This day has passed 10 years, and now Sheng Hailin's lecture has been changed to online, and she can finally accompany her children to take care of her husband.
However, Sheng Hailin did not want to relive the hard work of that decade. If she could choose again, she would definitely not insist on having a baby ten years ago. The pressure on elderly women to raise their children is really too great!