1. If the state provides professional training for parents, I am very supportive and necessary in the contemporary era. There is a saying that this is called parenting education. Although there is no online training for parents, I personally study actively as a parent meeting, which is very beneficial to children's education and their own growth. At present, some hospitals have lectures on maternal treatment. I think this is the embryo miniature of parenting education, which is of great significance to scientific parenting.
2. Since I learned the knowledge about family education, I feel more and more that parents really need skills and need to keep learning in order to better cultivate their children. The so-called nurturing grace is this truth. The first module of active discipline is that parents should know themselves correctly before learning how to raise their children. Various communication skills, daily life, food sports, and time management are all modules worthy of our continuous learning. I want to master these skills, and at the same time, I can apply them to other occasions.
3, training posts, let parents receive education, let parents know more about their children's world, read their hearts, make less detours on the road of parenting, and make less parenting tragedies in reality. In fact, there are no bad children and stupid children, only parents who can't educate. Parents are the best teachers for children. In the long run, it can promote the development of human civilization.
If economic conditions and time permit, you can go to a professional institution for training and study. Raising children is not a trivial matter.
If you need a lot of time and economic ability, it is not recommended. In the process of taking care of children, it is also a process of summing up experience and learning slowly.
Everyone, metropolis, has experienced the role of parents, but also has several roles, such as the other half of husband and wife, parents' children, and people in the workplace ...
It is never too old to learn, whether it is professional training or amateur self-study, it is a learning process.
I don't think it's necessary. If parents know something about educating their children and develop good habits and personalities, they will avoid various problems in their children's growth; If the early education is scientific and the foundation is well laid, there is no need to consider whether there is a tutor or an exam. It can be said that at present, 90% of parents are still "eager to dig wells" in educating their children; What's more, it is the behavior of "drinking poison to quench thirst"-doing everything in an extreme way, and finally regretting it. It is difficult to understand that raising cattle and pigs in modern society should be scientific, so why not raise children scientifically? Wang Donghua said, what products in the world should have the highest production technology? Of course, it is the production of "people", but this is the only position that does not require training. I call on parents to learn to be parents and learn to be parents.
It has been said that happiness is the same, but unhappiness has its own misfortunes, one of which is childhood misfortune.
So some people say that a happy childhood benefits a lifetime, and an unfortunate childhood cures a lifetime.
So do parents need to be trained to work? Need! The answer is yes.
Qualified parents give their children a complete childhood, and excellent parents give their children a happy childhood.
Case 1:
Unconsciously recalling the case of killing the mother of a Peking University student in 2065438+2006 is still creepy. Apart from the extreme and vicious nature of the Wu children, aren't parents invisible boosters for their children to embark on the road of crime?
If Wu's mother could find the child's abnormality as soon as possible and help the child get rid of it in time, maybe the tragedy would not happen.
Case 2:
This is a very old story. Before he died, the condemned man asked for his mother's milk again. As a result, the condemned man bit his mother.
If the mother indulged and sheltered the child unprincipled, the child would not die on death row.
Experience summary:
We can see from two cases that the parent-child relationship can be bad to the point of irretrievable.
Children cannot be completely innocent, but parents are their first teachers, their role models and their guides. ...
When the child's transverse branches are inclined, parents can correct and guide them;
Parents can help their children when they are confused and helpless;
Parents can encourage and bless their children when they make progress. ...
As parents, we should have correct values, bear the responsibility of raising children, learn the skills of raising children, and earn the cost of raising children.
However, many parents only care about their children, don't communicate with them, ignore their growth needs, and raise them in a simple and rude way, which doesn't make the parent-child relationship grow healthily. ...
When parents always say that they are disobedient, when parents prefer boys to girls, when parents only pay attention to their studies. ...
Destroying children's happiness not only affects children's life, but also destroys the happiness of a family, and even has a worse social impact.
In a word, the country is strong when young people are strong, and the country is rich when young people are rich. The foundation of making a teenager strong and rich is a pair of qualified parents, so personally, parents need to be trained and hired.
Hello! I think parents need training too much, so it is necessary!
There are many reasons:
First of all, we need to learn the right way to love children.
Children are the crystallization of our love. But some families, since having a baby, have no peaceful life. Don't parents love their children? Not necessarily! It's just that she lacks the right method. Parenting is really a science. If we know many things in advance, we won't be flustered, anxious and helpless. It's embarrassing that so many parents and children hurt each other ... in fact, it's just the wrong way.
Second, children are here to help us grow up.
Some injuries caused by family background can only be seen, blessed and repaired after having children. We also have the opportunity to travel light, grow up with our children, and stay with us all the way.
Third, children are independent individuals.
Children come into this world through us, but they don't belong to us completely. He will naturally be separated from us when he grows up. Nature has its law of growth, and so does human beings. Now many "Ma Bao" are not independent because they don't want to grow up, and their wings were cut off at a very young age.
Children are the hope of the family and the future of the motherland! May you be safe!
Very necessary! In particular, many traditional methods of educating children are wrong in theory and practice! Even many of them are defined as common sense, which is also wrong!
For example, how to make children obey? This is not right. Why should children obey? Who do you listen to? Who is right enough to have to listen?
Also, how to keep children from playing games? This is also wrong. Who can not play games? Parents often play mahjong and sing karaoke. Parents have no ability to make their children conscious, so they control and restrict their children's contact with games. This is more harmful to children's mental health! !
When you control and restrain your child, you feel that you are good to your child and you love him! This is also a misunderstanding! Loving children is unconditional and unreasonable, and you can't ask for a lot in the name of love! Children don't think it's love, just feel too tired! !
So for the next generation, the next generation, we still have to continue learning! Because parents are copying their parents now. So, in the future, your children can copy you directly! !
Need.
Just like when I gave birth to a doll myself, I never thought about how to raise a child scientifically. Now that I think about it, I feel how stupid the idea was.
At that time, I just wanted to ask my in-laws to help with the children. I must be experienced. Even if I don't know, someone helps me. But I don't know how many hidden dangers have been buried.
I don't know how long it will take. How to bathe the doll is better, so that the child often catches cold.
I don't know if my baby is full when breastfeeding. I don't know when and how often to feed. As a result, the baby was malnourished due to food accumulation, and actually only grew eight taels that month.
I don't know how to check the doll's temperature, and I don't know how to wear clothes to make him weak.
I was hospitalized for pneumonia three times before I was one year old. Three days to catch a cold and two days to take medicine. I am sick for two thirds of the year.
What the elders don't know is that children love to get sick. In fact, after his illness, they all tried to take care of themselves.
These are the consequences of not learning how to raise children in advance.
Babies are often sick, and elders are always worried, and they can't let go of their hanging hearts from time to time.
Old people are more worried about their children's illness. First, I feel distressed, and second, I find it difficult to bring. So they will choose more careful care.
If a child with a treasure mother and a treasure father enters kindergarten, many people will have the idea that it is more troublesome for children to enter kindergarten and often get sick. I seldom got sick before.
That was before, and I was always taken care of carefully. Add clothes as soon as it gets cold. When it's hot, take off your clothes and wipe your sweat immediately, and eat when you're hungry. ......
24 hours a day is to meet the demand in time. Lack of physical exercise to improve resistance.
We all know that it's easier to strengthen your physique by being a little warmer, exposing your feet and losing a piece of clothing.
But when we don't have correct and standardized parenting knowledge to communicate with our elders.
Our feet are cold, our clothes are wet, our hands are cold but our backs are warm. These are all factors that make us quarrel with our elders from time to time.
Disease is the fuse.
Parents are the first teachers of the children. Teachers need professional teacher qualification certificates. Do parents need similar proof? My answer is that if there is the best, there is no need to force it.
Is the certified teacher really a competent teacher? The answer is not quite. Cases like "Teacher xx is a temperament student" have also happened, and there will be some examples of teachers being lazy in the teaching process.
As a teacher, apart from professional knowledge and skills, it is important to have a heart that loves and respects students, as well as an independent personality, such as emotional management ability, problem-solving ability and innovation ability. Teach students in accordance with their aptitude and pay close attention to every student.
In addition to teachers' professional ability, some other transferable abilities cannot be proved by a certificate alone. Therefore, it is still necessary for teachers to practice and integrate in order to know whether this teacher is a good teacher.
As parents, it is no exception. It is best to get professional and scientific parenting knowledge, but the most important thing is whether you can love your children enough, face problems independently, manage your emotions well, and be gentle and firm.
As novice parents, what we do is perfect and unrealistic, like "How can a driver learn to drive from the beginning?"
In the face of children's "cars", we want to drive well, and we need to calm down and learn to operate slowly.
So, I don't think it's necessary to take the exam or not. The important thing is to be able to raise children with your heart, to grow up in mistakes, and to keep learning. It is the most difficult indicator of parenthood.
I'm @ Mom, the treasure mom with small ears, and I hope I can grow up with you on the way of parenting. I also hope my answer can help you.
Hello, everyone. I'm Mei's mother. She is very cultured. I am very happy. Let me also discuss this issue.
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Do you think parents need training? What is the reason? I've seen this problem before. Many jobs in society need training and induction, and you must have various licenses to be allowed to work normally.
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There are many parents in this world, and there are also many parents to be parents. But there are not many parents who are really well-trained and ready to be parents, basically none. First of all, there is no professional training institution. In terms of women and children, some places have conducted limited training for parents. The content is not rich enough, but mostly refers to the matters needing attention after having children, and says little about how to be a parent.
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Can parents be good parents if they don't study? If everyone can be a good parent, where do many children with learning disabilities come from? It is really necessary to cultivate parents. The behavior of parents directly affects the growth of children.
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There is no institution to train parents, so our parents can take the initiative to learn and educate themselves. In particular, the cultivation and development of children's early behaviors, personality characteristics and habits require parents' personal teaching and guidance.
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Special attention should be paid to the intellectual cultivation and potential development in early childhood (the important age can be set at 0~6 years old). What will a child's life be like? This was decided in a short time in his first few years. If parents don't master parenting knowledge, there are no ways and means, which will cause irreparable losses to their children.
Because parents' education methods are flawed or simple and rude, they have not played an exemplary role, and even some parents spread bad habits and bad habits to their children, which seriously affects their healthy growth and the formation of correct outlook on life and values.
So do you think parents need training? I think it is necessary. I hope the school that trains parents will appear in our society as soon as possible. I also hope that young parents can take the initiative to realize the importance of educating their children, seriously study the knowledge, methods and means of parenting, and give their children a creative and rich parenting environment.
In the process of children's growth, it is necessary for parents to consciously participate in family education and training.
When the child was born, we all worked without a license and didn't know how to educate. We treat them with what we think is "love", but unconsciously, our children appear "inferiority, selfishness, addiction to games, weariness of learning" and so on. Especially in adolescence, there are constant contradictions with parents, and parents are very painful and helpless.
The problem of parent-child relationship is precisely to alert parents to the necessity of participating in family education and study. Only by understanding the laws of children's physical and mental development at different stages, giving and growing according to needs, improving children's emotional management ability and effective communication ability, operating a harmonious relationship between husband and wife, and demonstrating their strength with their own examples in a warm family atmosphere can we lead children to grow up healthily. How to give children healthy love can only be obtained through study.