There is nothing to do at home. Would you like to help take care of the elderly who have been ill in bed for a long time for free?

If you are an office worker, would you like to work overtime for your boss for free every day?

Any occupation is to support the family, and there is no need to push it to the moral high ground.

Before asking questions, ask yourself if you are willing to do these things.

Do as you would be done by. What you want is your own business. Don't ask others to do it.

It takes energy and time to do anything. Why squeeze the teacher's time for children?

Free, how dare you say?

There are only two people in this world who will do things for you for free, and that is parents. Besides, don't ask others for free.

You ask the teacher to make up lessons for your children for free, and the teacher doesn't cook? No food? No laundry? Do not do housework? Teachers don't have old people and children to take care of themselves?

What do you do, a teacher? How dare you make such a request?

To say the least, the teacher gave your child free classes, which delayed the teacher's normal rest time. Would you accept it with a clear conscience?

At present, I am helping a child to make up lessons for free. Not only is it free, but almost every time I make a bowl of noodle soup or fried dumplings to pad my stomach. My husband often drives him home to avoid wasting time by subway. But I only do this to this child. Because at present, among so many students I have taught, this is the only one worthy of my initiative to spend so much time and energy on training, even if there is no return. I want to say a few words about this 16 year old child. Please compare yourself with the questioner. If your child can do it, I am really willing to tutor your child for free.

First of all, to put it simply, I am currently teaching Chinese in a high school. This boy 16 years old has a sister. His father has worked abroad for many years, and his mother is busy with work and taking care of his young daughter, so she has little time to take care of his studies. However, he got straight A's in every subject at school. At the same time, he is a member of the school tennis team and the main debater of the English debate competition, and has made great achievements in the mathematical and physical competitions. However, his only weakness is writing. I think it's because he doesn't read enough extracurricular books on pure China literature, so I take him into my office or my home once or twice a week to recommend reading and train his writing skills.

Second, children themselves are modest, polite, respect teachers and always have a kind and grateful heart. He will often take care of my children when I am cooking noodles or answering the phone, tell them stories and teach them to draw robots. After dinner, he will quickly clean up the dishes and help me clean the kitchen, although I have never asked him to do so. He is very considerate of his mother. He will make complementary food for his sister. He also wrote an article about how to make cod broccoli puree and carrot omelet for his sister. In order to accompany his sister to the early summer education class, he gave up reporting to summer camp with his friends. Although his mother repeatedly suggested that he could pick him up by car after the tutorial, he refused because he didn't want to keep his mother busy and would rather squeeze the subway home by himself every time.

Thirdly, the student signed up for a French class at the weekend and paid the tuition with his pocket money. His mother didn't even know about it until more than a semester later. This is the first time I have seen a child willing to use his pocket money to enroll in extra-curricular cram schools. He has repeatedly offered to pay for my Chinese cram school with pocket money and lucky money, but I insisted on not accepting it. It's not that I'm noble-all the other students I tutor charge by class, but that I'm really moved and shocked by this child. I really envy his mother! I often pray in my heart that when my child grows up, he will have half of his self-discipline and excellent academic performance, and I will be satisfied!

If I ask you, as an adult, your neighbor is a disabled person who needs help, will you take care of him for three meals a day for free?

Teachers are also ordinary people. She can be tireless in class, and occasionally she can tutor her children for free after class. If your child's grades are not good and you want to find a teacher to make up lessons, the teacher has his own business, his family and his children. If all the children are not ideal, he can find a teacher to make up lessons for free, so a high-class teacher can't sayno. But most teachers will choose to be ordinary people.

Parents who can ask such questions should also reflect. If it were you, would you make up lessons for free?

I am a teacher and don't want to make up lessons for my children after class. I don't want to say free or paid.

1. I want to talk about national regulations

The state explicitly prohibits in-service teachers from making up classes with pay. I don't think I need to take such a big risk for a child like you. I love my job. And there are so many remedial classes in society, you can go to the remedial classes to help your children.

I have a family too.

During working hours, for the sake of students, I am not afraid of hardship and fatigue. As long as it is good for students, I am afraid I will take time to tell a topic to my children after class. It's nothing. The time after school is my own, and I have a family. I also want to have my own private space. I hate people who ask me questions after school, especially when something happens. You said that parents are embarrassed not to answer the phone, and you should tell the children questions no matter what you are doing. It's really uncomfortable Once I traveled abroad, I was embarrassed to give lessons to my children on the phone.

3. The word free is dazzling.

The teacher gives lessons to the children and helps them with their homework. It is normal and necessary for children to do this during school hours, but why sacrifice their own time to make up lessons for your children free of charge after class? The point is "free". Although we are teachers, we can offer "free". I really don't understand.

4. Don't put the problem on the teacher as soon as the students have a problem.

Part of the reason why students don't study well comes from families, which can't provide children with a suitable learning environment. Parents only see their children's poor grades and don't analyze the reasons. When parents see their children's poor grades, they criticize, discourage and guide them. Many times, they use a "stupid" to define children.

Therefore, if it were me, I would definitely not make up lessons, let alone make up lessons for free.

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