Autumn September (school season) is coming, and a group of lovely children will walk into a brand-new big group with their attachment to their parents and curiosity about the new environment.

For the lovely children who go to kindergarten for the first time, it will be a great challenge, and it will also bring different degrees of tension and anxiety to their parents.

I remember when my children first went to kindergarten, they ate breakfast quietly in the classroom in a strange environment, without crying or making trouble.

Before going to kindergarten, the child went to the local child care center at the age of 2. When I first went to kindergarten, my child was crying from the time he got up to the time he went out.

No matter how I comforted her, she wouldn't listen. Because she knows that she will leave her parents this time, she must learn to face the teachers and children around her independently.

Later, she was sent to a child care center, and she was taken to the teacher. The teacher patiently comforted the child and hugged the child to calm down.

As parents, we will also see how much separation anxiety our children will have when they enter a strange new environment.

Every time school starts, many children cry when they see their parents say goodbye.

First of all, we need to know what separation anxiety is. Separation anxiety is a kind of anxiety caused by separation from close family members. Proper separation of anxiety is an important part of brain safety system. So it is normal for children to be nervous when they meet strangers, which just shows that children are healthy, because TA can distinguish acquaintances from strangers.

So, what should we do as parents?

First: children cry when they say goodbye, usually because of normal separation anxiety. Children who are more than 8 months old in infancy will gradually get better at about 18 months.

Second: Parents should not leave their children secretly, because this will increase the frequency and consequences of children's separation anxiety.

Third: parents should do some preparatory work in advance. For example: know and be familiar with new caregivers; Establish a sense of psychological preparation and ritual for children.

Fourth: When saying goodbye to the child, give the child a hug sincerely, leave immediately after a short farewell, and let the new caregiver divert the child's attention.

Finally, parents should never be called back by their children's cries.

1. Help children prepare for entering the park.

For children who go to kindergarten for the first time, parents do some pre-kindergarten work for their children. Let children ease their separation anxiety.

Take children to contact with the world outside the family, such as taking them to visit and play in kindergartens before school starts, so as to familiarize them with the kindergarten environment. Get in touch with some children who have already gone to kindergarten and listen to what the children say in kindergarten.

Parents and children usually play "kindergarten" games. Encourage children to go out more. Especially playing with friends of the same age to cultivate their communication and social skills.

2. Actively cooperate

If the child cries badly after entering the park. Parents can spend more time with their children and leave when they are happy in the game. In addition, parents can arrange their children's living habits according to the kindergarten's work and rest system, so that the children's biological clock can match the kindergarten's work and rest time.

Usually cultivate children's basic self-care ability. For example: eat by yourself, go to the toilet by yourself, etc. Let children better adapt to the collective life of kindergarten.

3. Influence children with positive words and deeds

As the saying goes, "lead by example". Parents, especially grandparents, may feel uneasy about their children going to kindergarten, and show it consciously or unconsciously in their words and deeds. Children are sensitive, and he will feel from the attitude of adults that kindergartens are not interesting and safe places. Causes children to be afraid of kindergarten and refuse to enter kindergarten.

Therefore, parents should not let their anxiety affect their children.

Going to kindergarten is an important step for children to go to society and has many benefits for their growth. Parents encourage their children with positive words and deeds.

For example, "tell your children that there are many interesting games in kindergarten and the teachers love you very much." This helps children to have a good impression and trust in their teachers.

Children are actually very adaptable. As long as we as parents give our children proper help, it is a happy thing to go to kindergarten.

4. Send the children to the park on time

For children who are attending kindergarten for the first time, parents should not refuse to send their children to kindergarten because their children are temporarily "soft-hearted" or have no special reasons. In this way, children's strangeness to kindergarten grows for a long time, which leads to children's inability to adapt to the collective life of kindergarten quickly.

In addition, to pick up and drop off children on time, children should not be allowed to leave their parents for a long time a few days before entering the park, which will cause anxiety and fear for kindergartens and refuse to enter the park.

It is never easy for children to enter the park, but it is also the first time for children and parents. Your mood is also experienced by thousands of mothers in Qian Qian. Smiling, facing the baby's progress one after another, watching him grow up in laughter and tears. # Human cubs enter the park #

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