At the parent-teacher meeting, the teacher asked parents to pay attention to their children's family psychological education, which is appropriate. The teacher reminds parents to be rational, to keep up with the education of children at home, to look at the children and their inner world, and to guide their inner thoughts correctly. As an office worker, I have no time to keep up after work. I can't give up my children's psychological education because of my busy work. Parents will think about how my child should live his life. It is also necessary for society to cultivate him into a sound person and do something he likes and is good at. But they forget the most crucial point, the material foundation is the premise of spiritual freedom. The material foundation may partly come from the wealth accumulation of parents, and sometimes it is frugal, but more importantly, it is created by children themselves. Because only through his own hands can he know what "happiness" is and gain more people's respect. Making money since childhood, he can understand the society. According to the textbook "Burke's Psychology of Lifelong Development" of Ivy League University in the United States, children are 2-6 years old. In the pre-operation stage, they mainly learn about the world through books and pretend games.
6- 12 years old, children enter primary school and begin to get in touch with society slowly. This time is also the best time to travel around the world, learn history and understand the customs of various countries. Know what the world should be like, and know what people's hearts are like. Trump's daughter started trading stocks at the age of 6 and has been performing on the stage since she was a child (small model). The Trump family is very luxurious, but the cultivation of children really encourages them to stand on their own feet from an early age. Contact with all kinds of celebrities, but also understand the world from an early age. Economic self-reliance is the premise of self-reliance. Children's independence is not to let them dress independently or even cook independently. These are just things that three-year-olds should do, the minimum viability. Try some social practice from an early age, and have a certain material foundation, so that children can have more independent decision-making space and achieve self-reliance faster. Buffett was born in Omaha, a midwestern city in the United States. At the beginning of May every year, tens of thousands of people come to this small town with less than 6.5438+0 million people to attend the shareholders' meeting of Berkshire Hathaway. He was born into a businessman's family and helped the family in the grocery store since he was a child. Munger also recently helped Buffett's grocery store. When he was five years old, Buffett set up a stall in the hallway outside his home, selling chewing gum. 12 years old, helping at the grocery store. I feel that social welfare and other expenses are annoying. 13 years old, worked as a newspaper deliveryman in Washington Post. Selling Coca-Cola/KLOC-When he was 0/5 years old, he took out his accumulated $ KLOC-0/200 and invested it in a 40-acre farm in Nebraska. The year is 1945. /kloc-started a business at the age of 0/6, pinball company. Self-reliant children know how to be grateful. It's hard for parents to make money. Parents and children understand each other and have a better parent-child relationship. In the process of making money, there is cooperation with children and gratitude to strangers. Only by providing value to others can we realize our own value. I once had an intern, a rich second generation in Jinhua, Zhejiang. My parents are both in business, and there are many villas and luxury cars at home. Before I went to college, interns had no worries about food and clothing. I didn't know how hard my mother worked until I went abroad to study in the United States alone, so I studied hard, and after returning home, I started from a simple job and gradually accumulated wealth by myself. I hope my answer can help you.