Psychologically speaking, I think it should be said that this is a kind of pre-marital phobia, which is a kind of heart disease that many urbanites have now. Generally speaking, the fear of marriage mainly comes from these aspects:

1, I have a strong sense of insecurity.

I believe that women are eager for a sense of security in marriage. It can be said that the sense of security allows women to enter marriage. However, due to all kinds of bad news such as high divorce rate and marital infidelity, many people are disappointed with marriage. This disappointment makes more newcomers face a kind of worry when they are getting married, so they will feel afraid.

2, the pursuit of perfection mentality

In fact, many people are not completely confident about entering marriage. As the besieged city said, unmarried people want to come in and married people want to go out. Marriage itself is a complex system, love is pure, but the social attribute of marriage is stronger. Therefore, for many women, ideological maturity is not necessarily completely accurate. They are afraid to face the new environment, and even more afraid of losing their former free life. On the one hand, they are independent, on the other hand, they are with the other half.

3. Many people feel that they are children and have a vague understanding of the role of marriage.

The arrival of marriage means the change of role, but in fact, many people have not done a good job in this role change, so they will be afraid before getting married, fearing that they can't bear this role, especially in dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future. I suggest that you can communicate well with your lover and win the support of your lover. Maybe you will be more calm.

You should know that all marriage fears can actually be disintegrated in the face of love. If two people love each other enough, then I still suggest getting married.