What is the relationship between children's IQ and parents' talkativeness?
Recently, a new study by British scientists found that this mystery has been solved, and it has been confirmed that there is a "chatterbox" around, and the IQ and cognitive ability of infants and young children are indeed higher.
Sure enough, children's IQ is really related to their parents' talkativeness!
The survey found that the more babies communicate with their parents, the higher their IQ, the more words they hear and the stronger their expressive ability.
It can be seen that if parents talk to their children more from an early age, their children will be smarter.
It seems that it is better for parents to chat more with their children by buying the best school district, accumulating more money and attending more early education classes.
Parents talk to their children more, which is the first bucket of gold accumulated by their children in life, so that children can really win at the starting line.
Talking to a child will really affect his life.
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? Parents say that babies have a high sense of perception.
A study by the University of Kansas found that the more children hear from their parents before the age of 3, the higher their IQ and the better their grades after school.
And American scientist Todd? Leslie and Betty? Betty Hart also found that:
Children from rich families tend to have higher intelligence than children from poor families, because their parents talk more than children from poor families before their children are 3 years old.
Because speaking can develop the synaptic channels of babies, strengthen thinking and affect intelligence. Therefore, we must pay more attention to talking to children in infancy.
Some Indian "wolf children" may not know that two girls raised by wolves were found in the wolf's den.
Later, 2-year-old Amar died the following year, and kamala, who was about 7 years old, lived in an orphanage until she was 16 years old.
But after several years of education, she can learn 45 words, and her intelligence is only equivalent to that of a 3-year-old child.
Kamala, a 7-year-old "wolf child", is mentally retarded because he missed the best opportunity to learn a language, and he can't make up for it the day after tomorrow.
During the validity period, it will get twice the result with half the effort, and miss the golden period, just like time is gone forever.
Three years old is a lifetime, not groundless.
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Parents say children's growth is more powerful.
Liang Qichao is a hardcore father, and he is good at talking.
Liang Jia's nine sons are all very talented. It's not somebody else's ancestral grave. But Liang Qichao taught his children well.
The secret of his education is to have a good talk with his children.
It is this magic weapon that opens the second pulse of children's appointment and creates a legend that every family has its own hard-to-read classics.
Liang Qichao will comfort his daughter: "I am very satisfied with this achievement. Don't worry, just work hard. "
Liang Qichao will give children advice on learning: "All scholars should' cook with strong fire' and' stew with slow fire'. "
He will gently confess to the child: "Baby, I wander in the yard at night and miss you on the moon."
This is the secret of his education of excellent children: be gentle with children and talk well.
The more parents know how to talk to their children patiently, the children will not only be willing to accept it, but also be more easily conquered, worship their parents and inherit the precious family style.
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Parents should have the right way to open the dialogue.
Parents' "chatter" is not a simple sermon.
I was deeply impressed by a scene in the Singapore film Children Are Not Stupid.
As soon as Jerry and his brother come home from school, grandma will nag, "Don't go away, listen to me ..."
Mom will say, "Mom taught you so much for your own good, lest you take a detour ..."
The commentator expressed the children's feelings: adults often think that talking to us is communication. In fact, they are all talking to themselves and enjoying themselves, while we usually pretend to listen. Whether we listen or not, they don't care, just say it and forget it.
Parents' "nagging" is not your trivial thoughts, but your words can point out the direction for children's confused growth.
Since parents communicate with their children more, their thinking ability will be improved, so if they pay more attention to the following points, the effect will be better.
1, seize the critical period of 0 ~ 3 years old.
When it comes to grasping the critical period of children, the famous host Dany is the ultimate mother.
Dany adopted a daughter. Her mother once said: Some families can support ten children with her efforts. It can be seen that Dany's love for her daughter has been exhausted.
In order to let the children see the world more, she takes them with her every time she goes out.
At eight o'clock every night, take a bath regularly, eat milk and read bedtime stories.
For the golden age of 0-3 years old, Dany put her career on hold for the time being, just for her children to develop good habits and let her win at the starting line in the golden age.
Dany admits that what she lost is temporary, and the key three years of the child will never be bought back.
In fact, the three-year companionship in the critical period is that children have won the rhythm of their own lives. I have to boast about Dani! Every mother loves her children, but not every mother is willing to leave work to accompany her children for three years.
2. interact with children more.
Dany has her own way of raising children.
When netizens asked Dany how to cultivate her children's expressive ability?
Dani giggled and replied, "As long as there is a mother who loves talking to herself and enjoys it."
Alas! The host is good at talking and talking, which is somebody else's housekeeping skill. Even if Xiao Dan doesn't respond, Dani will input a lot, just like computer memory. The more you save, the more you output!
Interact with children, even if they don't understand, even if they ignore, just say it happily and wake up an elf!
3, entertaining.
The 4-year-old boy taught English by words and became an online celebrity. Now he can spell more than 2000 words.
He knows so many words, but he mastered them by playing.
All this is attributed to the high-quality companionship of parents, who play the role of children's students and speak English with children, so that children can master a lot of vocabulary in the game.
No child is born to be good at expression. Behind this expressive child, there are a pair of parents who play with him while learning.
Parents leave their children a golden mountain and a silver mountain, and they all have to be spent. From the first moment you see your child, what parents say will become a catalyst for your child to run all the way and an inexhaustible treasure for your child's life.
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