Parents' love for children is unconditional, unconditional and selfless. But many parents are not good at expressing their love. They turn love into discipline, scold and scold, and limit the role of love to giving orders. As a result, children alienate their parents year after year, and parents are worried about it: I love children so much, why are children indifferent to me? The child also suffered greatly, thinking that his parents didn't love him at all. Children should not doubt their parents' love for them, but they often test their parents in their own unique way: Do mom and dad love me? When parents take excessive actions, children also ask in their hearts: Mom and Dad, do you love me? Parental love is very important to children. Once children feel the love of their parents, they will cherish it very much. Parents' words and deeds can show love, and children will respond to their love: if they get real love, they will return it, and unreserved love will return it without reservation; And conditional love, the child's return is also conditional. Children's perception of their parents' love determines whether their psychological mood is happy, optimistic or withdrawn, timid, melancholy or other. Parents' love and education will help children grow up and be independent, so that children can treat others correctly and form a healthy psychology.