Children's disobedience depends on their innate nature. Some children are quiet and low-key, but not introverted. Such children are generally the most sensible children. If they have been disobedient recently, there must be a reason. There are also children who are introverted and soft-hearted. They don't like strangers, but they are stubborn. Other children are extroverted, lively and cheerful, and basically can't calm down, stumbling and making trouble. We should treat these personalities differently.
If your child belongs to the low-key kind, the child has always been sensible, obedient and clever, but recently he suddenly disobeyed. There is a reason for this. You can look at it, talk to him, see where the problem lies, what is the reason, whether it is psychological or external factors, and find a solution according to different reasons.
If your child is introverted, smart outside and noisy at home, this kind of person is generally docile on the surface and stubborn on the inside, and this kind of child is generally insecure and has no good face, then this kind of child can't just rely on reason to deal with it, let alone beat and scold. Let children have a sense of security, get out of the house and get in touch with society and positive energy, and gradually it will naturally develop in a good direction.
If your child is active, this kind of child has many ideas, lively thoughts and is easy to go astray, so parents should communicate more and understand more, and use some wrists when necessary, so parents should be prepared to play the bad COP.
Make rules with your child, so that the child has a rule understanding. For example, when a child is naughty or does something wrong, he can be kept away from reflection, and when the child realizes his mistake, the parents will give him some encouragement. Then understand and inform him not to make such mistakes again in the future, such as what punishment he will have if he makes them again.
My children should observe, analyze and communicate more.