Dear teachers and parents,
Hello everyone! As new parents, because of work, we really lack such opportunities to communicate with each other. So through this learning experience, I also calm down and think about my children. Everyone learns from each other.
I. Progress and growth
1. After more than a month of kindergarten life, the baby has basically adapted to kindergarten life. All-day courses and life can now be followed more completely. You can also take the initiative to say hello to the teacher when you enter or leave the park. I can get along well with children and remember many children's names and characteristics.
2. The law of life. Maybe many children are like this. They all slept very late before entering the park, especially in summer 1 1 and 12. My baby is the same, but after going to kindergarten, he has developed a good habit of going to bed early and getting up early. You can also eat a ration when you eat.
3. Learn to do your own thing. Originally, I also encouraged children to do what they could. Now, I have learned more in kindergarten, and I am more motivated. Take chopsticks before meals, put them in the sink after meals, wipe the table, and wash your socks and underwear at night.
Babies spend more time reading and drawing than before entering the park. Especially the books she learned on the day of kindergarten, she will go home and take them out page by page and tell us again in the tone of the teacher. Some simple words are also encountered by the baby. In painting, because the teacher taught the children very novel and interesting painting methods, the baby's interest was greatly stimulated, especially once he painted with vegetables, and the baby liked it very much. When he comes home, he always paints all kinds of vegetables.
My baby likes to speak English now, especially when we discuss something with her. She always says "no ~ no ~ no ~" when she disagrees. Babies learn English in the same color. She often points to what she sees and says the corresponding color.
Two. Problems and difficulties
1. Because the baby's recent kindergarten attendance is discontinuous (there are trips and sick leave in between). Children sometimes get up in the morning and have a little resistance to going to kindergarten. I totally understand why I reason with her. Before going to bed at night, I was looking forward to making sure there was no problem in kindergarten the next day, but I was unhappy when I came together in the morning. What should we parents do to make our children adapt as soon as possible?
2. The biggest obstacle to the baby's kindergarten life now is also the reason for her conflict with the kindergarten, that is, "taking a nap", either simply not sleeping, or sleeping for a while, and having to sleep with Miss Li. She kept saying "I want to sleep with Miss Li at noon" when she got up in the morning. When I was a child, baby at noon.
Sleeping has always been a companion. Now let her sleep by herself. She feels insecure. How can she help her children overcome it?
3. Impatience and modesty. When explaining to the baby, she listened and was eager to do it herself. Sometimes when I think of talking about my baby, I am eager to show it and want to be recognized and praised by teachers and parents. But sometimes she is just not modest and impatient. How can we help her get rid of this problem?
3. Experience
1. I educate my baby to be more open and make her more free, relaxed and sunny. Because I study preschool education, my baby didn't go to preschool education. I always took her with me and my grandmother helped her. My method of educating my baby is self-summarized as "point education". Starting from the child's nature, she is very curious about what I said, and answering the child's questions more can be profound and shallow. Sometimes the baby will add questions if he doesn't understand, and I will tell her again. Of course, this premise is to take children out more, let them go out to see more and communicate with different people. I often take my children to provincial libraries, science museums and museums. Go a few times more, and she will have new problems, new discoveries and new gains every time. Therefore, I personally think that at present, the child's curiosity and thirst for knowledge are enough for her to learn. There is no need to let her rush to learn in a narrow sense, but to stimulate her enthusiasm for knowledge and cultivate her current interest.
2. Educate and guide children according to their growth laws. For example, the baby is now 3 years old and 7 months old, and now she has something she loves that she won't share with us. Sometimes when you talk and quarrel, you will swear, and when you are in a hurry, you will hit people. You tell her to go east, and she goes west. In fact, these species are the sensitive period of her age. Sensitive period of real right consciousness, sensitive period of mouth, hands and feet, and stubborn sensitive period. For these situations, I think the simplest and most effective way is to deal with them. Never strengthen them, especially don't directly say "this is not good" or criticize them, but tell him "how to become better" later.
3. Tell your child more encouraging words. In fact, this is a kind of self-suggestion, just like adults, but children don't know much about self-suggestion, so parents should help their children realize it. I learned this from books. Tell your child the truth in advance, such as an injection. Tell her truthfully that it will hurt, but the time is short and the pain can be tolerated. Of course, you can cry five times if you want, and you can cry three times next time. . . So. For example, the baby stopped crying when he was vaccinated before he was 2 years old. Most of the children cried when they took blood from their ears before entering the park. She didn't cry. The doctor praised her and said that the little girl was really brave. I even took pictures of her. Seeing the photo, she proudly said that she was a "China woman paper".
These are my feelings about my baby's one and a half months' kindergarten life and my humble opinion on parenting. I hope you can give me more valuable opinions and suggestions. Nowadays, children are the treasures of the family. Everyone wants their children to grow up happily and healthily. Parents' words and deeds and the hard work of kindergarten teachers are very important for children's growth. Home alliance is the best way. Therefore, there should be more communication between parents and between parents and teachers, so that children can grow up better.
Finally, thank the kindergarten for making the baby's life colorful, and thank the teachers for their concern and training!
When the baby goes to kindergarten, the mother learns two things. Soon, many children will start a brand-new kindergarten life. In what ways do children feel uncomfortable when they suddenly leave home and enter a strange environment? What can parents do to help their children effectively? Wang Zhengyan, deputy director of the Department of Psychology of Capital Normal University, and Yang Qinghai, administrative director of Xiaojinxing International Kindergarten, said in an interview with Life Times that parents should pay attention to four things at this time:
You have to cry for a week or two when you enter the park.
Beibei has just been in kindergarten for a few days. Every morning, as soon as she arrived at the kindergarten gate, she began to cry reflexively. Mother saw Beibei's little face full of tears and shed tears.
In fact, for children who just went to kindergarten, crying is a normal performance, and parents need not worry too much. The most concentrated time for children to cry is when they enter the garden in the morning. Many children will cry loudly like Beibei. At this time, parents have only one thing to do: let go of their children, say goodbye to them, and then leave quickly. If parents cry with them, or stay late, they can only extend the time for children to cry. Parents should trust kindergarten teachers, who will take various measures to quickly divert their children's attention and make them stop crying as soon as possible.
Under normal circumstances, it is normal for children to cry within two weeks of entering the park. With the gradual familiarity with the new environment and new teachers, children will gradually like kindergarten, and the crying situation will be significantly improved after one month.
Sleep with a doll.
The most difficult thing for children who have just entered kindergarten is to take a nap. It may seem easier for parents to get their children into the habit of taking a nap at noon 12 in advance. If you don't form this habit, you can take some measures. For example, for crying children, teachers can hug them one by one and put them to sleep; Some children have special attachment items at home, such as dolls and small pillows, which can be taken to kindergarten for him to sleep in.
When some parents pick up their children, as soon as they hear the teacher say that they didn't take a nap today, they want him to make up for it immediately when they go home. Actually, this is unscientific. If you sleep at five or six o'clock in the afternoon, you will definitely stay up late at night, which is not conducive to developing regular work and rest habits. If you don't sleep at noon, parents can let their children go to bed one hour in advance at night. At the same time, remind parents that children should still take a nap at home on weekends 12 noon, otherwise they will go to kindergarten next week, and taking a nap will become a problem again.
You can't give snacks when you go home
When a child just goes to kindergarten, it is inevitable that he will be nervous at first and will not eat well. At this time, parents should not care too much about how much their children eat. Instead, I have to ask what I ate today when I pick up my children every day. If he doesn't eat much, let him eat with his family when he gets home.
Note that at this time, try to let children drink more fish soup, bone soup, or porridge. Never give them two things to eat: one is snacks. Once you get into the habit of not eating well in kindergarten and waiting for snacks at home, it is difficult to correct it; Second, big fish and big meat, too greasy to eat at night, easy to indigestion. In addition, children's breakfast is also very important. Usually I go to kindergarten to have breakfast, but the children who just entered kindergarten have great mood swings in the morning, which may affect breakfast. So in the first two weeks, parents can make some simple breakfasts at home and let their children eat a little before going to kindergarten.
Companionship is the best reward.
It is a growing process for children to go to kindergarten, and it is also a growing process for parents. Parents should spend more time with their children after they go to kindergarten. Especially after taking him home every day, take him to play outdoors, laugh together and relax completely.
Before going to bed at night, it is best to lie in bed with your child and tell him an interesting story book. Some parents love their children very much and give them delicious food or toys when they go home. In this regard, experts believe that material rewards are easy for children to develop bad habits, and parents should not blindly feel distressed because their children go to kindergarten. There is no better reward than parents spending more time with their children.
Last week, the kindergarten organized all parents to go to the kindergarten for a parent-teacher conference. Through meetings and exchanges, parents gained more understanding and support for the work of kindergartens and teachers, which benefited us a lot.
As parents, we usually pay more attention to the details of life such as whether children eat well, sleep well enough and get sick. In fact, parenting is promising. After listening to teacher Paopao, teacher Dingding and teacher Lele, I feel that children's education is meticulous, starting from dribs and drabs, from queuing to buy water, hanging towels and greeting teachers, to learning to adjust emotions, communicate with people, and learn to listen, etc., all of which need repeated guidance and demonstration over time to achieve results and internalize them into a behavior habit of children. In addition, no one is perfect, and any child will have shortcomings in one way or another, but we can't yell at them or even fly into a rage. After all, they are still a group of children with unclear concepts of right and wrong. What we need to do is patiently persuade, practice, encourage imitation and praise in due course. Our good boy is boasting, not scolding. I know this very well. As a mother, I am always patient and kind to other children, but as soon as I see what the child has done wrong, I immediately fly into a rage and yell at him. This will not only have no corrective effect, but will increase children's rebellious mentality, turn a deaf ear to their parents' words, and even feel inferior. Aware of the seriousness of the problem, I tried to use the teacher's encouragement education method to find the bright spots of children and encourage and praise them in time. I give my children positive psychological hints and let them know what is right and what is wrong. In this way, children not only have a stronger sense of right and wrong, but also have enough self-confidence.
In fact, as long as children really fall in love with kindergarten, all kinds of headaches will be solved, because there are so many interesting toys and books waiting for them, attracting children's attention. How can they not like kindergarten? Of course, "appreciation education" should be moderate, timely and appropriate. Blind praise will also make children feel complacent and further widen the gap and distance with children. My children are disobedient, inattentive in class, and love to make small moves. I hope the teacher will take more pains and we will actively cooperate. Let our baby in Haihong Kindergarten grow sturdily!
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