Watching the baby grow up day by day, becoming more and more lively and constantly exploring new things. This slow growth process has brought too many surprises to parents, but on the other hand, it is also out of control and at a loss!

At the age of 2, the baby entered the' bad' rebellious period ahead of schedule. The lovely angel who was once loved by everyone suddenly got angry and broke things, and rolled around crying without saying a word, so don't say it. I believe many young mothers are going through this test stage, but they can't help wondering why their little baby suddenly becomes so unreasonable.

So, what behaviors of the 2-year-old baby worry the mother? Summary has the following points:

1, I like to say "no" to everything, but I don't listen to the instructions of adults, and I have to go against my parents.

Don't ask for any of your requests and suggestions, even his favorite ones have been rejected. Take my little treasure for example. If he particularly likes an animated film, he must watch it. If you strongly recommend a movie he doesn't like, he will stubbornly say no.

It is also "no, no" to say that it is cold outside and put on more clothes. At dinner, he said he wanted to eat seaweed. You put the carrot in his mouth first. I'm embarrassed to say "no" until you put the seaweed in your mouth.

Brushing your teeth and washing your face is also extremely uncooperative, and they all chase after your ass. Unless he is in a good mood and calms down, he will take out his killer weapon and spend it with you in the end.

2. Hit people if you are unhappy.

The neighbor's 2-year-old baby is like this and is famous in the community. When the baby is unhappy outside, he will hit people, especially when his younger brother and sister grab his favorite toys, or when watching cartoons together, he is robbed by other friends, so he has to sit back and other friends won't let him.

Boy, he raised his paw and scratched the faces of other children. The little brother who was arrested did not dare to fight back, and his face was stunned, leaving a scratch. Because of this problem, neighbor Ma Bao was complained several times by people in the community. To this end, this precious mother has warned her children many times, but the baby still keeps teaching, which is a headache.

3. The' uncivilized' behavior of eating.

In fact, Bao Xiao can eat by himself at this time, but he won't. His small bowl is full of rice, holding a small spoon in his hand and circling in the rice pile. He just doesn't send it to his mouth when he is busy playing. Even knocking on the edge of the bowl with spoons and chopsticks will make you collapse.

At this stage, the baby eats by himself, which is especially easy to make the table messy, which is good. Sometimes he suddenly performs acrobatics for you and unexpectedly buckles a bowl covered with rice grains on his head.

The most terrible thing is that mom and dad found that if you forcibly correct some behaviors of your baby, he would not listen and even protest with some actions, such as throwing bowls, spoons, pushing rice directly and so on.

4. Powerful destructive power

Just look at the toy area at home. Toys are often scattered all over the floor Many times, when parents stop playing with their babies, they will carefully put them on the corresponding shelves and toy baskets. Before long, when the baby sees it, he will run to dig out all the toys one by one. What's more, he will open the drawers one by one and throw papers everywhere.

Then you can see how important it is to have a small drawer with a lock. Warm reminder, don't put important information files where your baby can easily get them! Especially graduation certificate, ID card, marriage certificate and so on.

And the baby has a hobby, which is tearing books and papers. If you throw away all the information, it will be easy to find. If you tear it, your parents won't be able to cry. No matter how many times you tell your children not to throw things like this, they seem to go in one ear and out the other, promise you nothing, and then turn around and throw the toys out of the window.

5, love to lose your temper, lie on the ground if you are not satisfied.

If you look closely, you will find that the 2-year-old baby is moody, laughing and crying in waves, which makes people laugh and cry. The slightest dissatisfaction will make a splash. For example, my little baby wants a toy and says to lend it to his brother for a while and return it to you later. I can't wait to start lying on the ground.

Why do you say leisurely? Because his little head has been knocked n times at the moment of lying down quickly, he later learned to be smart, found a good posture and lay down slowly with his hands. He thinks that adults are mainly.

If you find that your child has one of the above situations, you can say that your child has ushered in the first rebellious period in his life.

How should parents face the terrible two-year-old and guide them correctly?

1, don't over-constrain children's behavior.

In our definition of adults, we think that children are too young and there are many rules and regulations that need to be restricted for safety. But if parents keep forcing their children to do this, don't do it. For example, don't watch TV, but read books. Eat quickly, don't eat snacks ... but it is these' don't' that accelerate children's inner rebellion, make them more rebellious, or fear their parents, which affects their mental health. Usually, don't restrict children's behavior too much, but let them do what they want freely.

2. Spend more time with children and communicate with them.

When children throw toys and beat them for no reason, parents can hug them and ask why. Listen to children and respect them. In fact, it is better to help children get out of the bad stage of 2 years old.

Although children at this stage, if you reason with him, he will roll on the ground with you. Adults talk to him, but they can't understand it at once. Parents can give their children more choices, give them the right to choose, tell them what to do and what not to do, and tell them with an expression that children can understand, even if they don't understand, they will understand your intentions.

Don't spoil children too much, and draw a bottom line for their behavior.

Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang. Sometimes, when a child gets the result he wants by crying, he will feel that crying is a good way to solve his own needs. In this way, the next time he encounters something similar, he will throw himself on the ground and cry.

The expression of parents' love for their children needs a bottom line. For some principled issues, parents can't promise without a bottom line, giving time to communicate with their children calmly. Never touch dangerous knives or sockets. If there is a mistake, I would rather let him roll on the ground than coax him to stand up when he is bored. Then he will feel that the original set is not good, it is a bad behavior, so he is left out in the cold.

4. Explain picture book stories or interesting children's education videos to guide children's behavior.

Sometimes, babies are more willing to accept dynamic demonstrations. Of course, parents should also set an example in front of their children. If you have an early education machine at home, you can often play videos of safety education, living habits and other types to your children, or tell them some funny stories, and your children will change their behavior in a subtle way.

5. When children don't want to eat, create an atmosphere and make the dishes interesting.

When eating, the mother can take the initiative to let the children "order" and put on a saliva towel. Turn off the TV, stay away from toys and have some soft background music. In this environment, it is easy for the baby to calm down and know that it is time to eat.

Mom can also refer to the internet, put the food on a lovely and exquisite plate, Doraemon, bear and other cartoon images, or the food is more colorful, so I don't believe the baby won't like it.

6. Set an example with actions. If the baby behaves well, it should be rewarded appropriately.

For example, older children don't do their homework the first time after school and want to play outside. At this time, parents must not use the tone of choice, but should clearly point out that they must finish their homework before going out to play. Let your child know that you are a person who keeps your promise and has principles, and then he will gradually do as you ask.

The parents were anxious for a while because the child was disobedient. Only by mastering children's psychological characteristics and then adopting targeted solutions can children be more sensible. What else would you think? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area!