1. Provide a suitable spoon for children: Choose a spoon suitable for children's age and hand size, and ensure that the handle of the spoon is long enough for children to hold comfortably.

2. Demonstrate the correct grip: put the spoon in the palm of your hand, so that children can see the correct grip, that is, hold the spoon handle with index finger and thumb, and hold the middle finger and ring finger in the middle of the spoon handle.

3. Practice taking food and scooping food: Let children try to take a spoon and then scoop food from a bowl or cup. Encourage them to practice slowly and don't rush for success.

4. Give positive feedback: When the child holds the spoon correctly and successfully scoops the food, it should be affirmed and praised in time to enhance the child's self-confidence and interest.

5. Avoid overcorrection: If children don't master the correct grip at first, don't overemphasize or punish them, which may make them feel depressed and helpless. On the contrary, we should guide them patiently and help them correct their mistakes step by step.