The crow stands in the tree and does nothing all day. The rabbit saw the crow and asked it, "Can I stand like you and do nothing every day?" The crow said, "Of course, why not?" So the rabbit began to rest in the open space under the tree. Suddenly, a fox appeared. It jumped up, grabbed the rabbit and swallowed it-the second way of life: if you want to stand and do nothing, you must stand very high.
A bird flies to the south for the winter. It was so cold that the bird almost froze, so it flew to a large clearing. A cow passed by and pulled a pile of cow dung on the bird. The frozen bird lay in the dunghill, feeling so warm and waking up gradually. It lay warm and happy, and soon began to sing. A passing cat heard this song and sat down to see what happened. Following the song, the cat quickly found the bird in the dung heap and dragged it out to eat. The third way of life: not everyone who pulls your shit is your enemy; Not everyone who pulls you out of the dunghill is your friend. Also, when you are lying in the dunghill, you'd better keep your mouth shut.
4. Once upon a time, there was a story that a group of frogs were competing who could climb the tallest tower. The game has started. A large group of frogs looked at the tower and said, "This is too difficult! We'll never get to the top of the tower ... ","This tower is too high! We can't succeed! Hearing this, some frogs gave up. Looking at the frog that continued to climb, everyone continued to say, "This is too difficult! No one can climb to the top of the tower ... "In this way, more and more frogs quit the competition. But one frog climbed higher and higher, and finally, when all the other frogs couldn't go any further, he became the only player who reached the top. All the other frogs want to know, how did it do it? So he ran to ask, only to find that he was deaf!
Friend, do you know what this story tells you? Yes, the mouth belongs to others, but the life is your own! Although we don't have to be really deaf, we should always be hopeful and optimistic. Don't just listen to those negative and pessimistic words, because they will only throw cold water on others and ruin your perseverance. Always keep your energetic words in mind, because it will affect your later life. Mouth grows in other people's mouths, but you have to go your own way. In this realistic society, even if you are mercilessly ignored, criticized, denied or even rejected by others, it does not mean that you must lament and feel sorry for yourself. The only person who can deny you is yourself!
Therefore, we must not feel sad and painful or jump with anger because of a few criticisms or cold words from others, because that will only make us less confident in ourselves. Where there are people, there are right and wrong. As long as there is a mouth, there will be opinions and criticisms. Paying too much attention to other people's criticism will not only make you more miserable, but also lose your own opinion and persistence. In the end, even the meaning of life will be wandering and blinded. If it really comes to this, wouldn't it be sad to be a slave in the mouth of others? Other people's mouths can never help you through the road of life, whether it is smooth or bumpy, you can only go by yourself. In that case, if you get encouragement and support, you should always be grateful and help others in the same way; However, if you hear criticism and gossip, don't be too sad. Learn from frogs, keep moving forward, and be kind to your people?