Make friends with children first. Although children are willful, we should not underestimate them. Children also have accounts in their hearts, and who is good to them is very clear! Therefore, we should not treat them as children, but treat them as good friends, and they will listen to us! Too much criticism and interference in the gameplay will make them rebellious and unwilling to talk to us, let alone listen!
So encourage, praise and care more, and children will trust us, rely on us and listen to us! My child is 5 years old now and is introverted. He is afraid to speak when he meets strangers, and always hides behind adults. It gives me a headache. Finally, after I pick him up from kindergarten every day, I let him go to the supermarket to buy his favorite snacks, and give him just enough money to communicate with the clerk. Over time, he became generous. I hope this method will inspire you! Children's personality, personality and congenital genetic factors account for 30%, and acquired education accounts for 70%. Children's education has always been a problem that puzzles parents. Not giving freedom is not conducive to the development of children's own personality. If you give too much freedom, you are afraid of adding many problems and delaying your study. So I introduce you to a good book, a good boy and a bad boy, hoping to inspire your tender dog. The brief introduction is as follows: "At the beginning of life, human nature is good". Whose fault is it that children get worse while growing up? Are they all caused by children's "lack of ambition"?
Children are innocent by nature, and their deterioration is largely influenced by improper educational methods, which come from parents, schools and society. ...
When you lament that children are not doing well in school, have you thought of the reasons?
When you can't do anything about your child's poor study, do you want to find a solution?
This book will take you into the inner world of bad children, understand the reasons for their deterioration, give you the correct direction and method of future education, and believe that bad children will be changed in your hands!
A wise dictionary for good parents to educate their children and a classic reader to interpret their psychological behavior. I often hear parents complain that their children have shortcomings in this respect and in that respect. In their eyes, their children are disobedient and downright bad children. So as a parent, have you ever thought about the causes of this situation in your spare time, and why it is all their fault that children don't study well?
Yes, parents want their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed. When a child makes a little mistake, they conclude that "this child is too stupid to succeed" and so on. At this time, we have to ask, don't parents have the slightest responsibility? Is your education method completely correct? Have you ever asked children what they think? Do you know what kind of people children associate with? When children stand at the crossroads of life, have you ever cared? Do you only blame your child when he is in a bad state, and never think about the reasons for this situation? Are these all the children's faults? Of course, maybe you will use "I am very busy and don't have much free time" as an excuse, but since the child has come to this world, you should educate him well and don't complain about his "various misdeeds"!