Every parent, especially mother, wants to give their children the best education and material conditions, although the economic conditions of each household are different. Therefore, each of us is working hard for the next generation.
Good wishes, but you can't fly around like a headless fly. There is no feasible plan. As far as my personal experience is concerned, I think that raising children needs to be prepared in these aspects: material and education.
First, the material aspect. Of course, it is to earn money and save money, strive for better career development, create better material conditions for children, and of course have better educational resources. For example, give children better milk powder and food and supplement enough nutrition. For example, let children go to better kindergartens and schools, and ask better tutors to help children with their homework. In addition, every year, I have the opportunity to take my children to other places or even abroad to broaden my horizons and increase my knowledge.
I suggest that parents divide the money into three parts, one is for normal living expenses, the other is for emergency (preferably current), and the last is for buying a house after their children get married. When children grow up, they need financial support from their parents to get married and have children, especially families with boys, and they need to plan to buy a house for their children. These are all supported by material conditions, so I suggest that parents put the money left for their children to get married and have children in a separate account and put part of their salary into it every month. If you have a better financial management method, you can also use this part of the money to do financial management.
In short, one purpose is to force myself to save money for my children every month, and finally the money can help them. The rest of the money is used to meet the normal needs of life and deal with emergencies.
The second aspect is education. This is more important than material things, which determines your child's future character and ability development. Everyone knows that it is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. However, when it comes to doing things, it is easy for parents to form bad characters and habits, whether for convenience or worrying about their children. Parents are children's first teachers, and all aspects of you will affect their growth. Don't expect school children to educate your children. Teachers can only teach them knowledge. Material and education also have a good relationship. It is not necessary to give children better material conditions, so as to educate them well. There is no fundamental connection between the two, the key depends on parents.
Therefore, parents need to attend more lectures or trainings in this field and accept better educational concepts.
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