Early education changes the baby's temper. In life, everyone has his own temper, and so do children. They can't manage their emotions, so don't let the child's temper attack when educating children. Let's share with you the early education that changes your baby's temper. Let's have a look.
Early education changes the baby's temper 1 1, and the baby should practice emotional expression.
As parents, we can help them through emotional experience exercises. For example, let children use language to describe feelings such as injustice, happiness and sadness. You can also ask your child "What do you think his mood is at the moment?" In the long run, children's language expression ability and way of thinking will be greatly improved.
At the same time, it is more effective for parents to let their children understand language expression through encouragement and suggestion than crying and losing their temper.
2. Learn to manage emotions
Some children are impatient, and losing their temper is an unconscious manifestation. Parents can first: record the child's temper or directly lead him to the mirror, let him see how terrible the state is when he loses his temper, and slowly cultivate the child's self-awareness and inspection awareness;
Then, when the child is quiet, tell him about your emotional therapy. Teach your baby to control his temper, and don't just lose it.
3. Make rules for your baby
Parents can set up a "cooling zone" at home. When the child loses his temper, he will take it to the area and leave, and ask him to think and reflect quietly within the specified time. Over time, not only can the child get rid of the bad habit of crying to meet his requirements, but he can also learn to think calmly when something goes wrong.
Mom, baby, remind:
It is impossible to correct bad temper overnight. In this process, parents should also set an example.
1. Parents should set an example and control their temper.
2, need to explain, don't cheat. Explaining problems in a way that children can understand is a good medicine for children to clean up their emotions.
Early education to change your baby's temper II. Ways to correct your baby's temper:
1. First of all, parents should find out the reasons why children are good at losing their temper, that is, their self-emotional adjustment ability is low, they lack self-control ability and poor expression ability, and they lose their temper at a little thing; Or the child lacks the ability to judge whether his request is reasonable.
2. Parents should check whether adults' attitudes towards children are consistent, especially when children lose their temper. Do people around them blindly protect him or teach him? If you protect him blindly, it will make him taste the sweetness, which is actually a negative reinforcement and will make him more fierce. The correct way is for parents to let their children know and remember a truth: it is useless to be noisy and lose your temper. This can make children understand that "crying and losing your temper as a weapon" is not feasible. After several times of such education, children's habit of losing their temper will change.
3. Parents should communicate with their children more, understand their needs and pay attention to the interaction between children. Parents can learn more about what other children are playing, thinking, having any requirements and so on. When children put forward their own requirements, parents can better understand their children's feelings, and then enlighten and patiently explain, which can eliminate or alleviate their anger.
4. Don't think that "children are born with a good temper", and even some parents will lose their temper when their children lose their temper. This emotional approach will never change the child's habit of losing his temper. Some mothers think that children are prone to lose their temper, but they can't beat him, so they push him to their father for discipline, which will make the children have a feeling that "mother can't help losing her temper with him", and then he will lose her temper in front of her more and more.
5. Pay attention to cultivate children's extensive interests and flexibility in doing things. There is a "critical period" for children's ability development, and painting should be at the age of 3-4; Learning music should be between the ages of 5 and 7. Therefore, the cultivation of interest should not be too early or too late. Children's interests are particularly easy to transfer. Don't just decide according to the opinions of parents, but listen to the opinions of professionals and children themselves.
6. Cultivate children's flexibility in doing things. When children play with toys, eat or dress, they should not just "fix" one way, method and appearance, but try to "diversify" from an early age to give them choices. Especially when one kind of thing, food and toy no longer exists, children should be guided to transfer to other things, food and toys in time. The better this adjustment ability, the better its flexibility. When a child's interest increases and his attitude towards difficulties and problems is flexible, his habit of losing his temper will be alleviated.