1, material aspect

Many people think that children eat well. Having money here doesn't mean that the more money you give, the better. Instead, we should try our best to meet the needs of children within the acceptable range of parents.

This is because when children are young, they don't know much about money and don't have a specific concept of wealth. For these children, anything that can bring them happiness is good. In the eyes of children, there may be no difference between cheap things and more expensive things. So if the child wants something at this time, but the parents don't buy it, it is likely to make the child feel that the parents don't love him very much, which will also have some influence on the child's psychology.

Therefore, in order for children to eat well, it is not necessary to meet all the follow-up requirements of children, as long as things within their own tolerance can be met. Of course, children can be easily spoiled. Maybe they think what they want is what they want, so parents must get this degree well. They can set some goals for their children and give them some rewards when they finish.

2. Spiritual aspect

Everyone is happiest only in childhood, so at this time, we should try our best to make our children live well, at least not to let them be inferior to others from the beginning. At the same time, it doesn't have to be used in material things, but also in spirit. You can buy more books or an educational toy for your children. Of course, you can often take your children to places like libraries or science museums, at least to broaden their horizons. This is of great use to children's spiritual enrichment.

Raising children in poverty

There are also many people who think that children should grow up in poverty. This is because when children have an understanding of money, it is easy for them to become extravagant, do not know how to save, and may even increase their vanity. Therefore, they think that children should be restrained materially, of course, not in necessary aspects, but in some unnecessary expenses, so that children can know that they can get something through hard work.

Generally speaking, it is reasonable that poor children will be independent earlier. If children want to spend in other ways, they have to rely on their own efforts, which also makes their responsibilities more independent and knows how to rely on themselves to get what they want.

We can see that both rich and poor children have their own advantages and disadvantages. For example, rich children may be more generous and broaden their horizons, but Ken may be extravagant and can't stand setbacks. Poor children may be more independent and know how to save, but if they are not well controlled, they will easily feel stingy. Therefore, when choosing the way to educate children, we should first consider our own economic conditions, and then decide the way to educate children according to our own conditions.

At the same time, no matter what kind of education method, the most fundamental thing is to cultivate children. Therefore, after deciding the method of educating children, we must guide them to the good side of this method and try to avoid them from going to the bad side of these methods. Therefore, parents play a very important role in this, not only parents, but also people who guide their children with good deeds, so no matter how busy they are, they should care about their children. After all, parents can directly influence them when they are young.