The elders educate the children, but the children always don't listen. How to handle the generation gap of child care skillfully? The elders educate the children, but the children always don't listen. How to handle the generation gap of child care skillfully? But no matter how old the child is, parents should not judge the child by whether he is "obedient". In addition, why do children have to be "obedient"? For example, children don't like radishes. You said radish is very nutritious, so you must give it to your children, or you will be disobedient. After supper, the children concentrate on reading. You must ask the child to do his homework, or he will be disobedient. The children said they wanted to play with toys before doing their homework. If you say "no, write now", you will be disobedient ... Parents often pretend to be the "head of the family" and hope that their children will do as their parents say. This is a very old concept of family education.

In terms of children's education, parents should communicate with their children more, and let them love you, not "fear" you or even "hate" you with a negotiated tone, a peaceful attitude and gentle expression! Parents should now stand on the side of their children and deal with their children's "problems" together, instead of standing on the side of the problems and blaming and reprimanding them at will, which will only make them farther and farther away from you. Moreover, when the child enters the rebellious period, you will feel even more powerless. This is not an alarmist!

First of all, I don't think children should be given to the elderly unless they have to, mainly living separately. No matter how enlightened the elderly are, it is inevitable that most of them will exist. Secondly, if we really live together, we must tolerate each other, adjust our living habits and educational concepts, and find a win-win solution. Third, the elderly should respect the upbringing of young people. After all, the child is theirs. They should keep pace with the times and learn to raise children scientifically. Finally, young parents should be grateful. It's really not easy for old people to take care of their children. They should be considerate of the elderly, try not to talk about them, and communicate well.