Her mother said, "The child is too young to be sensible." .
He looked at my sister unhappily,
He said, "Did you hear that? I'm young, so what? Not a white skirt. "
Her mother said, "Leave if you have nothing to do, and the children will go to interest classes!" " "
I am one year younger than him.
My sister asked me to high-five.
I said, "What's the matter?"
My sister: "Just push."
I listened to my sister at that time, and it was another heavy slap in the face.
He cried in his mother's arms: "Mom! That kid hit me! , she is not a good boy [tears] "
Her mother said, "How can you hit someone?"
My sister said, "My sister is too young to be sensible. If it's not broken, we'll go home first! " "
His mother has nothing to say.
Take him away. . . . . .
This is a real experience for me.
I once had a winter vacation. A few days after the Chinese New Year, my elder sister-in-law and their children came to my house to play. They were quite quiet at first, but after sitting for more than ten minutes, they began to make trouble. They took out the cushions of my sofa and cut a hole in my sofa with scissors. At first, I didn't care. I thought he would cut the sofa, but he couldn't sit down. He couldn't sit down. It's okay.
Later, he went straight into my room and broke the graduation gift (made of Shuiyuebing) that my best friend gave me. I was very unhappy, and then I took him out of my room.
After seeing me carry her out of the room, my elder sister-in-law began to say to me, you are a girl, can't you be tolerant? He is only a few years old. What do you care about him?
Then I said at that time: don't come to my house, let alone my room, if you think I am intolerant.
Then I went to my room. I'm in my room. I can hear her say to my mother outside: Your little daughter is really something. Didn't she break her toy? What's she angry about!
My mother didn't tolerate her either, and directly retorted that it was given to her by her best friend, at least several thousand dollars. (In fact, it is not thousands. My best friend gave me a gift of about 130, because I was still a student and couldn't afford such an expensive one. I heard my mother talking in the room, and I was so happy in the room.
Then my elder sister-in-law gave a sigh.
Then at the end of lunch, my best friend asked me to go to her house for dinner, and then I went. When I went out, my mother asked me where I was going. I said I would go to my best friend's house for dinner, otherwise my mother would know, and then she didn't stop me.
When I came back from dinner, my mother was taking a nap with my elder sister-in-law. I thought the child had gone to take a nap with my elder sister-in-law. When he entered my room, the TM boy was in my room, cutting my doll into pieces and tearing all the data cables of my headphones. More importantly, he tore up the 2-meter-high brown bear my sister gave me for her birthday. I really was. Slapped him a few times and threw him into my aunt's sleeping room. My aunt heard the crying, got up and saw his child sitting on the ground crying, and knew it was me. He came straight to my room and slapped me. I couldn't stand it then. I also slapped him and said to her: Your child's accident happened in my room, and I haven't cleaned it up yet. I'm sure I want you to pay, but I'll also pay for the medical expenses. Remember, don't come to my house next time, or I will call you every time I see you.
He saw that my mother was still awake and left directly. When he left, he said: Remember your little girl film, and I will settle accounts with you.
Three years have passed, and I have never seen my elder sister-in-law and that child again. According to my mother, it seems that I went to Guangzhou, and I went to Guangzhou the next day after I came to my house.
10 2, my sister and I were on the bus, which was very crowded.
Then Xiong Haizi, who was about 20 years old, came over and stood next to me. Xiong Haizi's elbow was just in the position of my lower back. The two children kept fighting and elbowed my lower back from time to time.
I didn't say anything at first, but it really hurt, so I told them not to fight in public.
Their mother said how painful it would be for a child to hit you.
My sister stepped on her foot and hit her in the stomach with her elbow.
I think she will be angry. I preemptively said that the child was not sensible. How painful can it be for a child to hit you?
Then we arrived at a platform and got off. When we got off, my sister stepped on Xiong Haizi again.
Once walking in the street, I was vomited on by a Xiong Haizi. He was led by his parents at that time. He is about 4 years old. It happened. The parents of the child just casually said that it was not allowed, and his mother was still joking. There was no blame at all. She didn't apologize to me and took the child to continue walking! I was 20 years old, and the more I thought about it, the more angry I became. Then I ran back and spit in the child's face. As a result, the parents quit and quarreled with me. His mother always said that he was still a child and didn't understand, saying that I was narrow-minded or something! Finally, I couldn't hold back, beat my parents and ran away! Now that I think about it, I really don't think I did anything wrong! I have children now, but I still don't think children can forgive their mistakes. They must be educated until they know they are wrong.
Today, my daughter went to an early education class and was beaten by Xiong Haizi. I sat on my lap in class, and the child forced us to suddenly reach out and hit my daughter in the face. My daughter didn't respond either. She went on with her class, and it didn't hurt. After class, I gave that parent a serious lesson. Take care of your children. She said she was sorry, the child was still young, and she was sorry. I said, the child is small, and the mother of the child is not small. Educate your child well. If you don't educate yourself well, it's no use going to early education. What's the use of beating unruly children in class Do the work well first. I won't argue with your children if a mother doesn't educate her. Besides, I don't accept your apology and explanation. I just ask you to go home and educate your children. I will communicate with the teacher next class, and we will be alone. I can't see whether your children will be good or bad in the future. You can see for yourself. Not everything can be apologized, and not all apologies will be accepted.
Yesterday, I took my daughter to the balcony of the shopping mall to feed the pigeons. There are many children there. At that time, they were holding mobile phones with headphone cables in their trouser pockets and mobile phones in their hands. A child of six or seven suddenly rushed over and tugged at my rope. My mobile phone fell directly to the ground, and before I knew it, the child had run away and went directly to his parents. His parents have seen me taking my mobile phone and it fell to the ground. Looking at me from a distance ... without a word of apology ... isn't this a matter of parental education? Even if my daughter takes someone else's mobile phone, no matter how expensive it is, should I at least apologize? Then I'll see if I need to repair it. I don't even apologize ... actually, you are a child, and I won't let you fix it. Last time a kid from my hometown came to my house to play with his mobile phone. My mobile phone was charging, and suddenly it fell off the screen. I spent more than 400 yuan for it ... all of them belonged to my neighbors, and I didn't have the courage to let others lose money.
For more than ten years, I have deep hatred and psychological shadow for the sentence "He is just a child", and now I have deep feelings for this sentence.
I can remember when I was seven years old, so I have a clear impression on some things at that time and the expressions on the faces of people around me, which directly affected my psychological growth the day after tomorrow.
My younger brother is one year younger than me and always runs around with a group of children of the same age in the bride price. When I was eight years old, I was guessing stones with my friends under the longan tree in my yard when I suddenly heard my brother crying, which was very painful and almost tragic. When I found my brother, he was sitting on the ground crying. There is a pool of blood on the ground. I was a little dizzy at that time, and it took me a long time to realize that it was blood from my brother's feet, so I began to cry with my brother. Fortunately, an uncle in the village came to see what was going on, and then sent my brother to the village health station.
I don't know who informed my parents when my brother was bandaged at the health station. My parents and grandmother are here. My mother cried when she looked at my brother's ankle. The doctor said that my brother almost broke his hamstring. If it is broken, my brother will be disabled. My dad asked my brother why, because they didn't want to play with my brother, and then they cut my brother's foot with a knife when they drove him away. They cut their skin and hurt their hamstring with a knife.
My parents went to talk to them at that time. As a result, their parents said it was a fight between children and refused to apologize. When they were in a hurry, they said, "He is still a child. What do you want, I'll cut off my son's foot and make it up to you? What did he know when he was a child? "
My dad said, "Children don't understand, don't you adults understand?" What will you do in the future when you are so small and so hard? My request is not high, I want him to apologize, and your parents pay for medical expenses. "
As a result, his mother left a sentence: "Why should I pay for the fight between children?"
After all, people watching around also came to persuade my dad, because the other person is still a child, forget it, and so on. Anyway, when I was a child, I was angry and thought this reason was incredible, but everyone around me took it for granted.
Later my parents forbade me and my brother to play with them. Now 20 years have passed. My brother graduated from college, got a good job, married a good wife and gave birth to a lovely son. My parents don't work in the fields anymore, helping my brother take care of the children's cooking or something.
The child who hacked my brother is still in prison, because he fought and maimed others, and his wife ran away with others, leaving a two-year-old child with his parents. Before he went to prison, he was also a gangster. In his twenties, he goes home every day to get money to eat, drink and have fun, and sometimes he gambles. His wife was also a lazy Mi Chong, and later he ran away with someone else. His mother is almost 60 years old and has to carry her granddaughter to work in the fields. Her high-spirited face has long been replaced by fatigue.
This is not karma, this is consequences. His parents didn't teach their children well, and in the end they got the result that their children went astray. His children didn't teach well when they were young, but one day society will teach him how to be a man when they grow up.
What do netizens want to see most for such a problem?
Someone stood up and said, I met a Xiong Haizi one day, and then the child's parents kept saying, "He's just a child." Then I was shocked, rushed up and beat him up, and then ...
This shows that Xiong Haizi really provoked public anger.
Some time ago, a young man was upset because his work was not smooth. He threw a pupil over his shoulder on the bus and hit him on the head. This serious violence has been applauded by netizens on the Internet, which shows that many people are expecting a "hero" to repair Xiong Haizi, not himself.
First, Xiong Haizi and Xiong's parents are combined punches.
Xiong Haizi is not terrible, but his parents are terrible.
Think about it, if you are just a bear Haizi, the harm is not great, and you can deal with it with the IQ and strength of ordinary adults, but unfortunately, every bear Haizi has a backer.
Xiong Haizi and Xiong's parents are a couple.
Xiong Haizi was naughty and his parents made excuses for him, which made you angry, but there was nothing you could do.
Secondly, the stupidest thing is that you try to "verbally educate" a Xiong Haizi.
Experience tells us not to try to educate a Xiong Haizi orally, because it is absolutely boring.
Every Xiong Haizi's growth is not isolated. It is because of his parents that Xiong Haizi has room to grow up. Under normal circumstances, Xiong Haizi's parents must be unreasonable.
By educating Xiong Haizi, you are arguing with unreasonable parents. Of course, you will not succeed.
Even if you are smart and think what you say is very convincing, in the ears of bear's parents, as long as you say that his child is wrong, you are wrong and unreasonable.
Third, fighting poison with poison is not a smart choice, but it is the best way to vent your anger.
My wife goes to work far away. She takes the bus every morning. At this time, there are always some old people with their children. Shouting after getting on the bus, throwing chickens and dogs in the car, everyone looked askance, but the old people and children didn't feel anything, every day.
Suddenly one day, my wife came back with a big smile and said something.
That day in the car, a Xiong Haizi somehow became a strong man. This strong man is fierce in appearance and burly. He raised his fist on the spot and gave Xiong Haizi a fright. As a result, his grandmother came forward to help, and he was also scared by the villain holding a fist.
The child's grandmother was afraid and got off the bus with the child halfway.
On another occasion, the villain must be a character that everyone doesn't want to get close to, but that day was different. Many people in the car took the initiative to say hello to him, and others stood up and said to get off at once and give their seats to the villain.
Fourth, the smartest choice is to ignore it.
A little bit of ah q spirit, but it is true.
In life, parents often spoil their children, treat them well and cultivate Xiong Haizi. They are naughty all day. Although people are young and will not commit crimes, they are full of bad habits and even dogs are disgusted.
However, the trouble caused by such a Xiong Haizi is temporary at best. Who will be the biggest victim?
Xiong Haizi's parents, Xiong Haizi's parents, or grandparents!
When these bears grow up, they will no longer be naughty, but really grow crooked and become local ruffians and hooligans. At this time, of course, the biggest headache is the parents of the bear.
This is called karma!
Life will make bear parents understand a truth. If children are not educated when they are young, they will die when they grow up.
It really happened!
There was a business trip before. In order to save money to buy tickets, I took the ordinary train instead of the high-speed train. Because there are only two hours, there is no psychological burden.
There are not many people on the train. Sitting opposite me is a boy of about five or six years old, as well as his mother and grandmother.
Because my ticket just separated them, I took the initiative to change seats with them and let them sit together as soon as they mentioned it.
Everything was fine at first. I started watching TV series on my mobile phone. Xiong Haizi began to do it as soon as he slept. First, he wants to drink milk. His grandmother gave him a Yakult. He took a sip and threw it back into the bottle. His mother just smiled: "Do you think this dog is bad?" ! Forget it, mom, why don't you drink it? The doll's mouth is clean and there is nothing. "Grandma was spoiled, so she picked up Yakult and drank half a bottle of Yakult.
After a while, Xiong Haizi got bored and began to rub me, grabbing my hand and looking at my mobile phone screen. His mother said, "Let the children see you if they want to see you."
Because I watched "The Big Bang Theory", he probably felt too bored. After staring for a while, he began to rub it on my backpack.
I was already a little uneasy at this time, but the mother and grandmother of the child didn't see it at all.
Xiong Haizi has started rummaging through my bag. Mom and grandma haven't seen it yet.
I had a brainwave and said to Xiong Haizi, "Touch the box on this side of your schoolbag. There are interesting things in it."
Xiong Haizi immediately perked up and reached in and took out a condom. ...
Xiong Haizi held up the condom and shouted, "Mom, my uncle gave me a toy."
Mom's expression at this time is wonderful: "He is still a child, how can you give him this thing?"
I said, "Yes! He's still a child! So if you do something wrong, you can't let him go. "
This year, I worked as a summer job in the cinema. Two Xiong Haizi came running in the corridor. Their parents are watching a movie in the hall. Two children didn't know much about comedy and ran outside. Forget it. They will go in for a while and come out for a while. There are more than 40 people in the hall. Won't it affect others to watch movies if you go in and out of the light outside? The customer was late and the movie started. We basically open the door halfway to avoid too much light, which is good. They opened the door and then closed it.
Then 2D movies stick to 3D glasses. I said I didn't need glasses, so they came to grab them. My sister is fierce. She took my hand and said that my brother would get it soon. Hehe, it's amazing. When they found that they couldn't pull me, my sister tried to bite me, and I immediately pulled my hand back. I said angrily, "If you don't listen, I'll hit someone." Then I stared at her. She also called me an ugly and stupid pig. Two of them got away. Later, when I was away, I robbed two from my colleagues. I thought to myself, children, be naughty and ignore her. Who knows, they kept running in and out. I really can't stand it. She cried when her colleague closed the door and wouldn't let her in. I said let her in, but my colleagues cried, so I let them in. As a result, she particularly challenged me and said, "I'll do it again."
She went in. At that time, there was an evil fire in her heart, which made my colleagues and I very angry. I closed the door at once and accidentally caught her foot. She cried again, and her mother came out and beat her up. They stopped making trouble. After a while, I went in to see which girl was still crying. Everyone in the cinema is watching a movie. Where did you cry? I ha ha, and then the boy in front of the screen was the first.
Fortunately, I finally got that fucking girl to apologize to me, and I wasn't angry. If her mother asks me why I made my child cry, my colleagues and I will definitely be angry with her. It's really annoying I was born without teaching me to shoot Nima against the wall.
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