A few days ago, I saw my mother's sharing under an article about sleeping, and I remembered the scene of sleeping with my baby. It's really in distress situation.
This way of sleeping is too expensive. Not only should you keep talking in your mouth, but your body should also do squats to coax your baby.
What's more, a mother said interactively, "We can only die and fall asleep at a trot"! I just want to ask this baby, are you really your own? Do this to your mother.
However, although you can be coaxed when you are tired, it is still good. The hardest thing is: the baby is obviously sleepy but desperately resists being coaxed to sleep. What kind of singing is this? I am really worried about my parents!
I believe that "this situation" has been encountered by many novice parents, but as for why it may not be completely clear, how to do it is also "ambiguous" or "completely unknown".
In fact, in this case, parents should first be clear: Why does this happen to babies? Analysis shows that there are basically several reasons.
The "discomfort" here is mainly caused by external factors, such as being too cold, too hot, too noisy and too bright at home, which will affect the baby's sleep and sleep state.
Experienced parents know that it is difficult to quickly cultivate and destroy the baby in the normal development stage.
For example, if you are ill once, you may "upset" the habit of breastfeeding and sleeping that you developed before, and you have to start training again.
Ma Jing's trick:
If this is the case, most parents can realize that adults feel too cold or too hot, or that the house is too noisy. At this time, it is good to make corresponding adjustments.
The sleeping environment makes the baby feel very comfortable, so he won't make any noise and can fall asleep practically.
After the baby is born, there will be different degrees of insecurity, which requires more companionship and care from parents, especially mothers, because most babies are attached to their mothers since childhood.
Sometimes the mother can't take care of the baby and let the father or family sleep, and the baby will make trouble, especially after 4 months, this situation is more likely to happen.
Ma Jing's trick:
The baby's sense of security needs long-term cultivation. There is no other way but to spend more time with him, talk to him more, make eye contact and comfort him in time when he cries.
But these are not all done by mothers, and father's love is indispensable. Therefore, dad should also play with the baby more, which also helps to alleviate the baby's stickiness to his mother.
When the baby is sleepy, but mom and dad don't go to bed in time, the baby is too sleepy and will make a fuss and lose his temper.
In fact, like us adults, we can't sleep and rest in time. It's normal to have emotions, but the baby can't talk. We can only express "you make this baby unhappy" by crying and resisting.
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This is more important to prevent, that is, to sleep in time every time.
First of all, you should be able to recognize the signal that "the baby is going to sleep".
Careful parents, often observing the baby, will find that if the baby starts rubbing his eyes, his eyes are blurred, yawning, he doesn't care about everything around him, or even starts to be in a daze, it is sleepy and going to bed. At this time, you should put the baby to bed quickly.
Secondly, "deliberately dragging the baby to sleep late" is a misunderstanding.
There are also some inexperienced parents who are worried that their babies will go to bed early and get up early, wait for breastfeeding, or temporarily don't want to sleep for other reasons. Obviously already sleepy, but deliberately procrastinating. This is not correct.
Because it will increase the difficulty of falling asleep again, if the baby wants to sleep, you won't let him sleep, and then cry. If the baby stays up late, the parents will be very tired and upset.
In short, a principle: when you see the baby sleepy and want to sleep, you are ready to start sleeping.
Babies are really difficult to raise, and any habits have to be cultivated slowly.
These will also affect the baby's sleep, and even wake up frequently after falling asleep, and will take action after falling asleep, "disrupting" the baby's work and rest rules.
Ma Jing's trick:
Many mothers may have explored the law of raising their babies: try to take care of their babies in the same environment, at the same pace of life and at the same schedule every day, which will be more worry-free.
Therefore, small-month-old babies should try to arrange a regular life for their babies, reduce these external disturbances, and don't play exciting games with them before going to bed.
If you change to a new environment, try to follow the baby's feeding and sleeping habits before, and don't bother easily.
The "discomfort" here refers to physical discomfort, but for Xiao Baobao, physical discomfort is physical discomfort and pathological.
Physical discomfort, such as flatulence (colic), growth pain, etc.
Because small-month-old babies are not fully developed after birth, there are often phenomena such as skyrocketing, flatulence, spitting milk and burping. Otherwise, there will be growth pains.
Ma Jing's trick:
Most of these are normal phenomena, so parents need not worry too much. As the baby grows up, it will gradually ease and will not appear for a long time, but don't take it seriously and do a good job in prevention and response.
Pathological discomfort, that is, cold, fever, diarrhea and so on. Parents should not be careless about these sick conditions.
Ma Jing Zhao Zhi
First of all, we should do maintenance and prevention at ordinary times. Feed the baby correctly, pay attention to hygiene, work and rest rules, ensure adequate sleep, and avoid overheating and colds; In the newborn stage, you can also take your baby's temperature every day.
Secondly, you should pay more attention to observation at ordinary times. If you feel that your baby is not in the same state as before, or you have a fever, don't eat milk or have diarrhea, you should go to the hospital in time and don't give your baby medicine.
Many parents think it is too difficult to raise a baby. In fact, it's not that difficult to raise a baby at a young age. It is important to learn more about parenting knowledge, understand the baby's developmental characteristics and possible problems in different months, so that when taking care of the baby, you will have a bottom in your heart, be less prone to mistakes, deal with problems in time, have a general direction and reduce pits.
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