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As the saying goes, "family is the first school for children, parents are the first teachers for children, and they are also role models for children to learn when they grow up." Therefore, good family education plays a vital role in children's life. When children were born, I attached great importance to their family education. Of course, I don't just teach my children to recite a few Tang poems, read a few children's songs and know a few Chinese characters, but teach them the truth and skills of dealing with people, so that they can develop a person with healthy mind and sound personality. Of course, for children who are only over two years old, vague teaching of abstruse truth can't make him understand the meaning, and children naturally won't accept it, so they need to start from bit by bit in life.
First, create a good family environment.
Family harmony is very important for children's growth. Love between family members will help children learn tolerance, understanding, love, love others and love themselves. Without the care of family, children will become more and more indifferent and selfish. I have seen many cases, such as children's depravity, numbness and so on, all because the family lacks love. Imagine a child who doesn't even love his parents and family, will he still care about strangers? Therefore, we must create a warm and harmonious family life for our children and let them live a happy and worry-free life.
Second, parents should set an example.
In family education, parents are role models for children, and their words and deeds will have a great influence on children inadvertently. Therefore, when parents ask their children to be polite and respect others, can they think about whether they have done so? I remember once, when the child made a mistake, I severely reprimanded him and said some harsh words, saying that if you do this again, I will hit you. I didn't think there was a problem at first, but later he actually learned this sentence and kept saying that I hit you. This makes me regret and feel sad. I regret that I shouldn't have said this to my children before. Sadly, my child said this to his mother. Therefore, when children can still correct, we parents must be cautious and think twice about our every move. No matter how angry you are, think about what effect I will have on the children.
Third, rewards and punishments are moderate, seeking truth from facts, and children lose their temper.
If the child is right, we should praise him positively. If the child is wrong, we should correct him in time. Reward and punishment should be measured, and enough is enough. Although education experts now advocate praising children more, I think this is another matter because I have personal experience. Children play with building blocks when they are over one year old. It was a mistake, but I think he praised and encouraged him the first time he played. I tried to promote his progress, but it backfired. Instead, he made mistakes every time he went on stage and became particularly stubborn. No matter what I say, he won't accept it. This reminds me that if I corrected him when he played for the first time, maybe this wouldn't happen. Therefore, I insist that parents should seek truth from facts when praising their children, and should not praise them blindly. Of course, the criticism is more moderate. If you criticize too much, or even hit your child, your child will gradually become rebellious. The child did something wrong, but still insisted on using reason to persuade him that he could not turn over the old account. The most important thing is that what you say can make children understand and listen. I will tell my child a lot of truth when he did something wrong before. As a result, he still went his own way. Later, I listened to the expert's advice to make what you said more acceptable to children, and don't say some vague truth. And when the child loses his temper willfully, he won't listen to anything you say, so my approach is to treat it coldly and let the child make trouble by himself. Parents can look on coldly. When the child feels that crying is meaningless, when he calms down, we will try to reason with him again, which will make him more acceptable. If we continue to tell him this and that when he loses his temper, it will only aggravate the situation. If the crying continues, then we can only take him away from the scene and distract the child, which may be better.
Fourth, let children learn to respect others.
Let children learn to respect others. First of all, parents should learn to respect their children. This is my consistent insistence. When the child is very young, I can squat down and listen to his advice. Some people may say what such a young child can think, but it is not. Although the child is young, he is still an individual. He has thoughts, and we should respect him more. For example, children bring toys every time they go out. At first, his grandfather always stopped him from bringing toys, but after a long time, he didn't go out. Although the toy is put down, he will still cry for a long time. Now think about it, crying at that time may be because of dissatisfaction with the disrespect of adults. Later, I discussed with the children. At first, I discussed with him what toys to take out. Gradually, he took the initiative to discuss with me and became obedient. Even outside, when the child gets along with the child, I will teach him to respect others. For example, if he sees other children's toys and wants to play with them, I will teach him to discuss with them. "When you are not playing, you can give me the toy for a while, ok?" When other children want his toys, I will teach him, "Give the toy to this child for a while, will you?" Everything depends on the child's own wishes, and the wishes of adults cannot be imposed. I've made such a mistake before. When I was playing with my friend's children, I saw my friend's children crying for toys. I always grabbed their toys for other children without thinking. So later, the child developed the habit of holding the toy and crying as soon as he took it off while sleeping. I feel that I hurt his self-esteem, and my disrespect for him has caused him serious consequences. Although with the passage of time, the children gradually recovered.
Fifth, let children learn their own things as soon as possible, do it themselves, and cultivate their labor habits.
When the child just learned to sit, we put him on a stool to eat with his family. Although he couldn't eat by himself at that time, we insisted that he see how adults eat, so the child slowly learned to eat by himself and learned to eat with chopsticks very early. As long as he can do things at home, he insists on doing them himself, such as sweeping the floor, washing vegetables, taking chopsticks, moving stools and so on. Many parents think that what children can do at such a young age is getting busier and busier. In fact, it is certain that he can't do well, but as long as he participates, if you always stop him from working, he will feel that his mother doesn't need me, and over time he will no longer be willing to do it. Moreover, the cultivation of work habits will make him cherish the fruits of other people's labor more, such as not littering toys, littering and so on.
Sixth, create a learning environment for children and cultivate their study habits.
At one time, the family watched more TV, and the children watched more TV. Then I thought I couldn't do this anymore. So now my family has learned to read, and even if they don't read, children have learned to read. Although the time will not be long, the habit is gradually formed, and it will be better to accumulate bit by bit. As the saying goes, it is better to go to Wan Li Road than to study in thousands of books, so I will take my children out for a walk whenever I have time. Learning knowledge in nature is more acceptable to my children. Although education experts don't recommend children to learn ancient poems of Tang poetry at such a young age, I think reading these poems can cultivate children's aesthetic feeling and sense of rhythm, although children still don't understand them. As for children's songs and music, it is certainly beneficial to watch and listen more. The point is that children love it. I think it is most important to cultivate interest.
Seven, cultivate children's masculinity, don't spoil children.
The child's father is often in other places, and the child can't see his father several times a year, so as a mother, I should be a good father as well as a good mother. Therefore, I always intentionally or unintentionally want to cultivate the child's manhood and don't spoil him very much. For example, if a child falls, I never help him up. I always encourage him to fall and get up, and then pat the dirty things on his body. If it's broken, even if it hurts, it won't show. Just tell him it's okay. So now that the child has fallen, as long as it is not serious, he basically doesn't cry. Instead, he comforted me and said, "Mom, I'm fine!" " Although it seems that I am cold-blooded, I think I did the right thing, especially for a boy, we must cultivate his strong character and not be cowardly.
The above is my family education experience. Again, every child is an independent individual, so every child has his own unique personality. There is no universal education, only every parent keeps exploring and practicing in family education. Some people say that children are the second life of parents, and parents grow up in the process of children's growth. Let's grow up with them!
Home-school collaboration has been a teacher for decades, and the baby is five and a half years old in a blink of an eye. I have kept a baby diary for more than six years. Always want to share too many feelings. Success or failure is a person's word. The theory of teaching children also needs to be practiced, and more importantly, it is explored and summarized. Of course, the law of education should follow the individual differences of children, and all successful tutoring experiences are not exactly the same. Therefore, parents who want to care about their children's growth should participate in topic exchanges and discuss success more. Let our next generation grow up healthily (physically and psychologically) and steadily!
Walking into the door of education, I hope I can integrate and spread my educational thoughts one day. Although I am a drop in the ocean, I hope to give full play to my weak light and heat for education. Therefore, I will integrate my educational experience and sentiment into my classroom in time, so that children can feel the new educational atmosphere every day and fully enjoy the excitement and pleasure brought by new ideas.
Early education at the age of 0 and preschool has always been an important topic discussed by many knowledge families. We should do our best in early education. Some even spend a lot of money to send their children to better kindergartens, sacrificing their careers and jobs. Parents are great, we should cheer for ourselves! However, many people in preschool education are confused, and chatting with friends is more difficult for education. I think everyone feels the same way, so do I. When I use some theories to guide the practice of preschool education, I also fall into deep contradictions and self-blame, because it is not suitable for children! I began to think about new courses.
Children are motivated, smart, clever, kind, often help others, care about others, and are especially considerate. When others have contradictions, they will always comfort others in a reasonable way, just like a little adult! I went to kindergarten this year, and the repetition of knowledge made me feel a little wasted. I think I should guide and improve his learning ability in time during this critical period of learning. Having been engaged in Chinese teaching for many years, I feel that what Chinese cares most is the accumulation of basic knowledge. Memorizing words, reading comprehension and conversational writing are the cornerstones of language learning, so I decided to start with reading.
My children have learned pinyin in primary school, but they are not very skilled. I decided to show him a story book with pinyin and illustrations. I was a little stiff at first, but my child was influenced by my father's habits and was interested in reading since he was a child. Let's cultivate interest. We read our own books, but the children enjoy them with their little knowledge. After a summer vacation, children still have time to sit there and read. At first, he made a noise, and then he was silent.
One day, my son had a whim and told his story. It turned out that he memorized all the stories he had read, and some descriptive words, four-character words and idioms even blurted out. We were stunned! It was really unintentional!
I can read books, read story books fluently without pinyin, and make comments!
Then while cultivating children's reading habits, guide them to write early. Diary is a compulsory course for children every night. Since he didn't know how to write, he insisted on writing every day, which made his mind go through a rapid mature process: …… I am a man! ..... I'm brave! ..... I'm strong! ..... self-evaluation and self-awakening immediately appear in the diary, which we didn't expect!
Home-school cooperation and mutual evaluation of love 3 The birth of a child means the beginning of education. Education is divided into family education, social education and school education. Parents can't just care about their children's intellectual development and academic performance. In my opinion, parents should pay attention to: children's physical and mental health education; Emotional education; Social morality; The education of non-intellectual factors such as will quality is family education. With the growth of children, knowledge transfer and intellectual development must be completed by professional teachers, that is, school education. Even if parents know this knowledge, they don't necessarily know how to solve the problem, and even contradict the methods of professional teachers. Therefore, as parents, doing a good job in family education is the support for teachers' work. Next, I'll talk about my experience on my daughter's education.
First, the word "strict" comes first, and we must never go to "spoil" or "spoil"
Now there are more only children, family conditions are better, and there are many phenomena of discipline from generation to generation, and even people discipline children. All these phenomena can easily lead to "wrong love", "doting", "doting", "selfish" and "self-centered" to children. Ask grandparents to do what they should have done. For example, among the students in the second and third grades I teach, there have been incidents in which parents send meals to their children. We should never think that this is a trivial matter. I call it an "event" because such children have no sympathy, no self-care ability and no will to overcome difficulties. It is easy for children to make mistakes when they grow up. Parents should be strict with themselves, help him overcome his shortcomings, and at the same time strictly ask their children to maintain good behavior habits. For example, I ask my children to be polite to others instead of bullying the small. I am strict with my children, not autocratic. The autocratic system forces children to receive education. Strict discipline must pay attention to reason to convince people. In the education of my daughter, I respect her correct views and will not hurt her. I will tell her something she can understand without hurting her self-esteem.
Second, always pay attention to proper praise.
Children, like adults, may also face many troubles, such as: sometimes they can't do their homework, have no friends and are afraid of writing. We can't ignore these problems at the beginning and then try our best to help solve them. At this time, it is particularly important for parents to encourage and enlighten in time. Under normal circumstances, I will carefully ask her to tell me the reasons for her troubles, and then there will always be a sentence: "You can do it, you can solve your own problems, and mom believes in you." Children need encouragement and praise. "Kua" not only shows the confidence of parents, but also strengthens the confidence of children. I know many such parents. They are arrogant and lack due respect for their children, which is unfair to them. Children will respond in their own unique way. They are either crying or willful, or doing some "bad things" in return. "Praise" should pay attention to both skills and methods. When children's test scores are average or poor, don't give them the feeling of the end of the world, help them find out more reasons. The key is to find out what shines on the child and praise him. Never let them lose heart.
Third, try to cultivate good habits.
Habits can be divided into study habits and various behavior habits. Nowadays, children have high IQ, and most of them have poor learning because of bad habits. For example, eat while watching TV, talk while doing homework, or ask adults to accompany you with your homework. What is particularly frightening is that some children dally with things since childhood, and even if they study well now, they will be very troublesome in their later studies. So I advocate finishing my homework in the shortest time, and of course doing it well. The purpose of doing this is to cultivate children's concentration, agility and dexterity and improve learning efficiency. Otherwise, children are likely to be tired of learning because of long study time, loss of interest in learning and passive learning.
Parents are children's first teachers, and our words and deeds have a subtle influence on children. Children are not things in our hands. She is a complicated person with thoughts and feelings. If you can't understand her and communicate with her since childhood, and only rely on what your parents call "strength" to subdue him, then when he goes to junior high school and high school, his academic performance will plummet. Because he can't find pleasure in his study, he will learn to lie, concentrate on making friends and indulge in games. I often hear some parents say, "My son is not afraid of us, but of the teacher." There are actually two mistakes in this kind of parents' concept: first, they are unwilling to take the responsibility of disciplining their children, and want to transfer the responsibility to the teachers, hoping that the teachers will take care of their children and wait for the fruits to be picked; The second is that I don't know how to manage children at all.
Family education is the foundation and foundation of education. Without good family education, it is difficult to establish a good school education. Of course, school education in turn affects family education. Children spend a long time in school, and the interaction of classmates and the encouragement of teachers will affect the growth of children throughout their lives.
Home-school cooperation and peer evaluation 4 Primary education is the earliest formal education that a person receives in his life, which plays an important role in cultivating lofty moral character and good quality for children from an early age. As the saying goes, "everything is difficult to switch", and primary education is the "head" of life education. How to make a good start is very important. It can sometimes decide what kind of road a person will take in this life and what kind of personality he will take in the future.
It is the wish of parents all over the world to "look forward to the success of children and the success of women". Regrettably, as far as some parents are concerned, it is difficult to realize their children's desire to become talents. The following methods may help you!
First, love children, respect children and be their bosom friends.
In life, we should respect children, treat them equally, establish a relationship of mutual trust with them and be their bosom friends. Only in this way can we win their trust. This will make children naturally feel the love given by their parents, and also enhance her trust in their parents, so all our parents should use love to cultivate their children's good behavior habits. I think it is very important to cultivate children's character. Listening is an art as well as a kind of learning.
Second, cultivate children's adaptability.
In today's era of rapid changes and fierce competition in human society, people need stronger adaptability. Whoever has strong adaptability will survive, develop better and move towards the other side of success.
Praise is the best way to shape a good character.
The deepest desire of human nature is to gain the appreciation of others, and children are no exception. Praise from parents will arouse children's inner sense of self-worth and dignity, and urge them to further strengthen good behavior until they develop a good character.
Fourth, learn tolerance and patience.
Tolerance is a beautiful scenery. A person who can tolerate and tolerate the shortcomings and mistakes of others is indeed a noble person. Such a person is a beautiful scenery on earth. Tolerance is an ability. Only by constantly filling our hearts with love and nourishing our hearts with care can hatred have no place. Tolerance requires not only a broad mind, but also a high degree of wisdom.
5. Be good at discovering and cultivating children's interests.
"Interested teachers" can only make children love to learn from their interests, so I hope parents can capture their children's interests from their daily lives and learn and guide them, so as to achieve more results.
In short, primary school students' family education should learn to communicate with their children attentively, that is, be patient and meticulous, and be flexible and diverse. As long as we all become good friends of our children, are we afraid that we can't teach well?
Home-school cooperation and peer evaluation 5 When it comes to children's education, every parent has a lot to say. Although the family situation is different and the education methods are different, the purpose is to hope that their children can grow up happily and healthily. As parents, how should we educate our children? I have bought many books, bought many CDs and consulted many colleagues. Children grow up day by day, and their grades are gradually stable, but I still dare not relax.
It is very necessary to develop good study habits, which should be reflected in the details of life. Everyone in our family has the habit of reading books. When a child was young, he cultivated and exercised his literacy ability early, which laid a very good foundation for his future study. When the child is older, we will help him form the habit of reading and let him spare some time to read every day. In our family, we can often see pictures of a family of three reading books. Moreover, I will buy all kinds of books for him from the bookstore whenever I have the chance. Gifts for Children's Day and Spring Festival are all kinds of interesting or beneficial books. After a long time, children like reading. I have also developed good reading habits. It also played a great role in promoting learning.
From the time my child goes to school, I pay attention to cultivating his study habits and finish the homework left by the teacher after going home every day. Preview the rest before learning the new lesson. Communicate with his teacher in time to help children develop good study habits.
In family life, always pay attention to the formation of habits, pack up the toys you have played, wash your face and brush your teeth before going to bed at night. Sometimes, if a child wants to be lazy, tell him the truth and tell him that it is impossible. Slowly, he recognized this behavior, and the habit naturally formed.
To educate children, our generation of parents need to learn and inherit the traditional wisdom of the Chinese nation. I used to feel very uneasy, that is, I didn't establish a stable and reliable overall value system to educate my children. During this period, in the process of intermittent contact with traditional enlightenment classics, I reflected on my own behavior ethics and the various manifestations of children's growth. I think I have found the clue and direction to educate my children. I need to study tradition with my children.
Don't ask too much of your child, give him some room for free development, observe his advantages and disadvantages, and then give guidance. I think we have all been children and should know what children like. Too much preaching is better than guiding children with our own actions. What children are asked to do, adults must first do it themselves. For example, when my son was watching TV, he unconsciously walked in front of the TV as soon as he saw the wonderful part. I corrected him, and he immediately reprimanded and said, "You always surf the Internet every day, and your eyes will be broken if you play for a long time." In the face of children's doubts, I have to correct myself first and influence my children with my own behavior. I said to my child, "Look, mom has corrected it, and it's only been online for a while, so you should correct it!" " At this time, the child will readily accept your suggestion.
In order to broaden our horizons and cultivate children's various interests. In his spare time, he signed up for a calligraphy class. He has been studying for several years now, and he is very interested and his grades are good.
Children like to make by hand, and I will provide them with materials and help them as much as possible. Sometimes, watching him make a "work" that is not very wonderful and show it to us smugly, his expression is full of pride. I feel gratified from the bottom of my heart to see that children dare to do things and get happiness from the process of hand-making.
In addition, we also like to let our children take part in some physical exercises. If a child loves to run and jump, let him exercise more, which will not only strengthen his body, but also make him happy. Why not?
In short, we hope that the child is not only a child who is immersed in his studies, but also hopes that he can have his own fun while studying hard and is a person who loves life.
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