First, psychological preparation Many prospective fathers are actually not psychologically prepared for having children. For many years, a person and a young couple lived without pressure and constraints. If you want to get together, you don't need to have a psychological burden, and you don't need to be responsible to anyone.
Once the baby is born, you need to realize clearly that you can't play any more. This is my child, my flesh and blood. I need to be responsible for him (her), provide her with enough care and care, provide adequate material security, provide good education and medical care, shelter her from the wind and rain, and let her grow up happily.
To inherit, we must begin to understand the meaning of these two words.
Second, physical preparation 1, establish a regular schedule, because you have to help your child establish a regular schedule in the future. You need to eat, study with your parents, take a bath, go to kindergarten, sleep and get up. All these habits you want your children to establish need to start from themselves first;
2. Try to give up the bad habit of smoking? Drinking? Stay up late? Playing cards? Swearing? Spitting and littering? Husband and wife quarrel? It's best to quit all of them. Parents are the best teachers for children. If you don't want your child to get into bad habits, please start from yourself.
3, exercise, taking care of children, especially newborns and children before the age of 2 or 3, is a very hard physical activity. I often get up in the middle of the night to change diapers, make milk powder, clean up vomit, and take my children across most cities in the middle of the night to go to the hospital to see the emergency, and take them to run games. Without a good figure, you will fall into despair;
Third, knowledge preparation to take care of children is not something you take for granted. Scientific parenting is not your call. Children's physical health, knowledge of maternal and infant health, symptoms and precautions of common diseases of infants and young children, skills of large-scale sports and fine motor training, the connotation and operation principle of Montessori education and Hua Fu system, and things that children need to pay attention to and guide in their personality and spiritual growth are all things that you need to learn a lot to apply.
Fourth, material preparation is best understood. In the process of growing up, children need to invest a lot of money and materials, a good living environment, a warm children's room, enough high-quality milk powder, diapers and wet tissues, warm and comfortable cotton-padded clothes, balanced food supplements, all kinds of toys with reliable and safe quality, investment in early childhood education and moderate parent-child travel. You need to be prepared both materially and financially.
Upgrading to be a father is a very happy thing. Although it will be very hard, the joy of being a father for the first time and the gains of growing up with children are enough to make you feel that all the efforts are worth it. I wish every father a wonderful parent-child relationship and long-term memories. The prospective father plays a great auxiliary role in the whole pregnancy period of pregnant mothers. Especially in the third trimester, pregnant mothers will be more nervous, so it is necessary for prospective fathers to enlighten, encourage, communicate with their wives and tell jokes to distract pregnant mothers from their nervousness.
In the third trimester, expectant mothers will become more and more clumsy and inconvenient to move. Prospective fathers should take more care of pregnant mothers, and it is best not to let their wives stay at home, especially at night. When you are free, you can accompany your wife around the pregnant and baby shop and buy some supplies for labor. In short, the most important thing is to make pregnant mothers happy, not to make pregnant mothers angry, and to spend more time with pregnant mothers. At this time, it is very important for pregnant mothers to be accompanied by prospective fathers.