In fact, this is because mothers misunderstand their children. Children don't laugh where no one is around, but parents don't see the fun that children see, so they don't know why children laugh. Babies always smile where no one is around. The reason behind these is that we should know the visual cognitive errors caused by different perspectives. Children's perspective is completely different from that of adults, but this is always ignored by adults. Once a child was standing in the shower. She said, Mom, the water is cold, but I feel the temperature of the water is just right.
So I think she is trying to get my attention on purpose. Later the child said that the water was too cold. I didn't feel it until I squatted down to help her apply shower gel. It turns out that the water is really cold. Because there is a gap, the child's height is low and the warm wind blows from top to bottom, so the child's water temperature is lower than mine. This incident tells us that it is easier said than done for parents to put themselves in other's shoes.
In the same way, the baby lies in bed every day, and the child's field of vision is limited. What children see is often not what parents see. For example, the child's vision is limited. She sees the pattern on the cupboard, but there is nothing in the parents' eyes. This is why this kind of visual cognition is misleading. It's not that children can't see it, but that adults can't understand children's jokes. The smile of a child after birth is unconscious. Because the nervous system is underdeveloped, the child's smile was unconscious two months ago and was not controlled by the brain, which means that facial nerve twitching was not controlled by the brain.
So the smile on the child's face is not beautiful. In fact, the child's brain is saying: I don't want to laugh. Mother didn't see what the baby was interested in. In "Child Psychology", the author Rudolf? Shafer, after the baby is born, it's not a blank sheet of paper. On the contrary, children can take the initiative to find what they are interested in.
Psychologists have found through repeated experiments that babies naturally like to look at patterned surfaces; Prefer three-dimensional to two-dimensional; Those who like sports are better than those who are still; I prefer an outline with a large contrast to an outline with a small contrast; Prefer radian to square; I prefer symmetry to asymmetry.
These experiments tell us that adults may not see what children like. For example, children look at the roof with unique but symmetrical lighting; Look at the dark lines on this cabinet; Even looking at the plasterboard with patterns on the roof is a visual stimulus for children, but in the eyes of parents, it is normal. This is because adults don't know what babies are interested in, so they don't know children.
Understand children's visual characteristics and make them smarter. Babies are born to explore the world, which means that children's visual experience comes from the stimulation given by others. The other part comes from independent exploration. Child psychologists believe that children can be found to actively explore the surrounding environment from a very young age, looking for things of interest with their eyes, thus providing visual stimulation for themselves. Because the baby's vision has developed in the womb, even in the dark, his eyes can still move. This exploration is not accidental, but regular.
1. If you are awake and alert and the ambient brightness is not too high, open your eyes;
2. If you are in the dark, you will conduct a rhythmic and detailed search;
3. If there is no shape in the bright field of vision, scan quickly to find the boundary of the object;
4. Once you find a boundary, stop scanning and stay near this boundary. Therefore, babies come to this world with special strategies to understand the world. We often say that the eyes are the windows to the soul. For infants, visual stimulation is related to the early development of children's brains. So what is the baby's favorite pattern?
In the British BBC documentary "The Fantasy World of the North Nose", scientists did an experiment and showed three things to the baby who was only 16 days old. It was found that the oxygen in the brain increased rapidly only when the child looked at the face, which proved that the child's brain was flowing rapidly. In other words, for all the patterns, the baby likes the face best.
Well-defined babies are too young for their brains to process the complex information of faces, so babies observe the surrounding visual stimuli from the outside to the inside in the first few weeks of their lives, while the inside is often ignored, and children are more accustomed to looking at the external edges. So show children more three-dimensional objects with obvious edges. Babies with complex and symmetrical patterns are naturally more interested in symmetrical and complicated patterns.
If you want to show children cards, look at some symmetrical and complicated patterns. Remember, babies prefer curved patterns to straight ones. Children's visual stimulation may be different from what parents think. If you want your baby to win at the starting line from the beginning and see children laughing where no one is around, don't take it lightly. Try to find children's interests and help them do early education.