1, and most importantly, lack of masculinity. To put it bluntly, it is a question of money. Is your women's "masculinity" towards us men measured by money? This is not quite the same as the definition I understood since I was a child. Has the world really changed? It is agreed that two people will share the rent, and then you are secretly unhappy that your husband has not fully borne it, so just say it. Maybe your husband is a hero in this respect, but you don't give him a chance to show it. Maybe people are afraid that if they take all the responsibility, do you still call them male chauvinism? As for the bride price, since this kind of thing is actually a clearly marked business now, is there a problem with bargaining? Aunt bargained for a few dollars' food in the morning market. It's not good for you to be a little low in front of me, even worse for you, but it's a little difficult for him to find a way to balance himself. It seems that Ximen Qing's "Pan Donkey Deng Xiaoxian" won't work in your place at least. 3, slow temper, nothing is urgent, no pursuit. If you think this is inappropriate, I understand. People's lives, family habits and lifestyles are really different. Generally, this kind of thing needs understanding, tolerance, mutual learning and common progress between husband and wife. Just like playing games, what's the point of smooth sailing at the beginning of the first level? But you don't seem to agree with this, and you indirectly expressed your dissatisfaction with his family. But there is nothing wrong with this, only the question answers what I mentioned at the beginning: what did you do in your early days? The wife doesn't like her husband's performance 1. She doesn't like to get along with you, and always looks for various reasons to stay away from you. Husband and wife, who doesn't want to get along? Even if it is a hard life, we should try our best to overcome it. If she is not interested in sharing a room with you, it means that her heart is far away from you. 2. Don't do housework There is an idiom in the book called "Love my house and my dog", because I love a house and I love crows on the roof. It is a metaphor for loving a person and caring about people or things related to him. It shows that one person's concern for another person (or thing) has reached the level of blind enthusiasm. 3. Silence. Maybe you had an argument, but it was all about building a beautiful family, and it was all based on sharing a beautiful life with * * *. Many times, quarreling actually contains a kind of love for each other, quarreling because of love, quarreling because of love, because she also hopes to achieve the purpose of * * * through quarreling. 4. The income is confidential. She no longer tells you her salary and income, nor does she ask you to disclose and hand over your income to her. Generally speaking, a couple who want to live a good life, want to take care of the family together, and will have some consideration about the plan of economic income and expenditure. Revealing her income and expenditure plan to you means telling you that she wants to live a good life. 5, don't listen to advice When a woman no longer listens to your advice, let alone some of your requirements. A woman who wants to live will listen to her husband's advice more or less. For example, she used to have too much contact with some irresponsible men, and you advised her to change her way of communication. If she doesn't want to leave you, then she will be restrained, agree with your suggestion and slowly change her friend-making behavior. What if you really don't like your husband? 2 0 1. List the reasons why I don't like him. If love is romantic and divorced from reality, then marriage is just the opposite. It's very common and vulgar, and daily chores are the essence of married life. When the sweetness of love collides with the truth of marriage, you will sadly find that apart from the aura of love, marriage only tests each other's endurance and endurance, and gradually you will find him more and more. He doesn't pay attention to cleaning, doesn't wash his hair for a few days, doesn't like changing clothes, and smokes more and more. Every day, in addition to going to work, after dinner, my hands are spread out, I don't play with my mobile phone, or Ge You is lying down, and my children don't help me with it or housework. What a greasy uncle! He doesn't remember your birthday and wedding anniversary at all, let alone romantic candlelight dinners, flowers, small gifts and other surprises. If you complain occasionally, he will be lazy. By the way, it's an old couple. This is a festival for teenagers. You are reluctant to part with your new cosmetic bag. He said that these things are flashy and useless, and natural beauty is the real beauty. It is more practical to bring shopping bags. When you put on your newly bought skirt, he sneered and said, regardless of your figure, your waist is like a bucket, so you have to change it with a depressed face, full of grievances and indignation. And your girlfriends, friends, colleagues, their husbands are all managers, directors and factory directors, but your husband has always been a small clerk, and there is no hope of promotion. The children can't eat and wear as well as others, and they don't have to hurry to live an idle life. It's really hopeless All of the above make your heart gradually cool down! ! Sadness, disappointment and sadness have been piling up. How can this not stop you from not liking your husband? The more I watch it, the more I hate it. I want to divorce directly. Forget it! If you are another person, are you sure you won't dislike him or want to divorce him? If he is promoted quickly and earns more and more, he will meet all your material needs and send you romantic flowers and gifts on birthdays and anniversaries, but relatively speaking, he has to socialize, he needs to communicate with various customers and often comes back drunk in the middle of the night. Many times, he just leaves you alone in an empty room, facing the cold and cheerless. In this way, he is glamorous and exquisite, because he often deals with all kinds of people and develops a sweet mouth. He will praise you from time to time, but you should also understand that since he can say these things to you, he will naturally say the same things to other women, or even worse. Maybe if he is not careful, there will be many flowers and plants outside. Then, because of these flowers and grass, I had to fight them to defend my position as the queen of the palace. Over time, I was exhausted, exhausted and even divorced to get rid of it. By then, will you still think that such a husband is what you want? Conclusion: Generally speaking, we have to admit a truth in marriage, that is, no matter who we marry, women will regret it. Most of us are just mortals, with worldly desires, joys and sorrows. Everyone wants to find a romantic, gentle and rich Gao Fushuai, and a good man who is loyal to himself! But from a man's point of view, why don't they want to find a virtuous woman, beautiful, gentle and generous, and only infatuated with themselves? Therefore, we should recognize the reality. There is no such thing as having your cake and eat it. Even if there is, it won't be such an ordinary and insignificant person. A man you don't like blindly may be a treasure in the eyes of other women. He may be tired and lazy, and won't give you romantic gifts and sweet words, but he will always accompany you, cook a good dish, make your favorite soup and drag you to run. After all, marriage should be achieved in an ordinary way. Living is just a meal and a dish. There is someone you can rely on, and the smell of fireworks is the truth you can grasp and see! When you figure all this out, you will find that the man around you is not too bad, at least he will be willing to be an "ear rake" at your disposal, so what else can you be picky about? I hope you can adjust your mentality. Happy people are actually around you! What if I don't like my husband in my heart? I am disgusted with my husband. 1. Find out the root of your bad temper. Since when do you feel that you have changed and are angry? Generally speaking, if it is not before, if it is now, it may be that there are some unsatisfactory places in your previous life that have been suppressed, which will lead you to feel that everything you see is not suitable for you. If something bad happens, you will be very angry. After finding out the reason, think for yourself whether it is worthwhile to do so now and discuss it with people close to you. You need someone to untie the bell and someone to tie it. After the one in my heart has not been untied. Make up your mind to get rid of this bad habit slowly, that is, something goes wrong. When you want to get angry, you must restrain yourself and postpone the process. This is very important. You can also write down the reason for your anger, and you will feel better when you go to see it in a calm evening. It may take some time to get better. 3. When anger is about to erupt, control yourself with consciousness, remind yourself to be rational, and hint to yourself: "Don't be angry, it will hurt your body". A cultured person can generally control it. On the other hand, you can count silently every time you feel angry, from 1 to 100, or longer, until your anger disappears. 4. Admit yourself and dare to admit that you have a bad temper in order to get help from others. If people around you constantly remind and supervise you, then your goal will be achieved. 5, everything should be calm, practical, if any modest, you can stand on the other side of the problem, then, in many cases, you have no reason to take it out on others, and your anger will naturally disappear. If you really hate your husband, you might as well get divorced, otherwise it will only hurt two families. What if I don't like my husband more and more? Women should never care too much about your man. The more you care about him, the less he takes you seriously. Never forget that the pursuit of beauty is a woman's lifelong career. Men are always visual animals. Never doubt the attraction of beautiful women to him. Either divorce and find a husband you don't dislike, but others may dislike you. Either think more about your husband's goodness and change your opinion of him. Otherwise, the family will be unhappy and unhappy for life. Why do women hate their husbands more and more after having children? 1, after having children, life pressure increases and there are many contradictions. In the past, when they had no children, they could make out and drink enough, as long as they were happy, without considering so many realities. However, after having children, the children's milk powder, diapers, early education classes, future education expenditure, etc. are all mountains on the parents' heads. Both of them should have a lot of plans for their lives, and there may be contradictions and differences, whether it is to open up sources or cut costs. Coupled with the pressure of life, it is difficult for them to sit down and communicate well, so there will always be quarrels and contradictions. The mother takes care of the children day and night, and the man still lives his own life. Unlike women who have children, they can immediately assume the responsibility of motherhood. It seems that it is difficult for most men to enter the role of father as soon as possible and still live their own lives. When mothers take care of their children day and night. When tired and out of breath, a man can't be a mother's right-hand man to help her lighten the burden of taking care of her children and family. It will only make accusations, add chaos to my mother and make my mother work harder. Being busy and not being understood will make a woman's temper more and more difficult to control, and will gradually be chilling to her husband. 3. After having children, women shift their life focus to the children's life. After having children, many women will unconsciously focus on the children, immerse themselves in the role of mothers and ignore the communication with their husbands. When my husband can't do anything well, he will have a very annoying mood. Even because her husband is in the way, she will have resistance to her husband. This annoying feeling will get worse and worse because of her concern for children and her estrangement from her husband.