The headmistress's name is Dai Yun. She is not only sweet-looking, but also very good at school. In the eyes of many people, she is like a woman who won at the starting line from the beginning.
Dai Yun's life is like an opening ceremony, which is very wonderful. Many people think that Dai Yun is very talented. In fact, if you look back on her growing experience, you will find that Dai Yun is no different from other children, even ordinary.
Dai Yun's parents have been busy with work and have no time to take care of her, so Dai Yun lived in her grandmother's house when she was very young and has been taken care of by her grandmother. Dai Yun's grandmother can't read, can't read, and doesn't know what education is. She only knows how to feed, clothe and grow up healthily. As a result, Dai Yun can't write her name when she is 4 years old.
Fortunately, Dai Yun's mother found this problem very early, and resolutely put down her work to teach her children to read. However, because she started late, her children showed little interest in learning, so it took a lot of effort to teach her to read.
Indeed, when children are 4 years old, they can already read or even recite Tang poems, but Dai Yun can't write his own name, and he was much later than other children from the beginning, which also made Dai Yun at a loss.
Many people may wonder, since she started so late, how can she surpass those geniuses and become the best in the school? She can't do this without her parents' education.
It turns out that when she began to educate her children at the age of 4, she kept all kinds of books at home and read them with her children every day. Although Dai Yun couldn't read at first, she was very interested in books full of color pictures, and even if she couldn't read, she was willing to read them. Dai Yun's mother took a fancy to this and guided her children to learn.
Gradually, Dai Yun actually learned a lot of words. Basically, she can read books at home by herself, and even tell her parents when she sees interesting places.
Before long, Dai Yun's mother sent Dai Yun to kindergarten. Although she is young, her mother's reason is simple: her sister has also entered school, and Dai Yun has no playmates at home, so she just sends them all to school.
In school, Dai Yun did not fall behind as everyone thought, but showed amazing talent. After going to school, Dai Yun quickly caught up with other children, and his Chinese scores were among the best in the city.
From the above story, we can see that Dai Yun is not a genius. The reason why she can make continuous progress like a singer is inseparable from her parents' education.
There is no need to be too deliberate about children's education. Nowadays, parents pay special attention to their children's education. In order to make their children get better grades, parents have enrolled their children in various make-up classes since childhood, trying to make their children better, but the results are often counterproductive.
Although children's ability has been improved, their interest in learning has been suppressed. The education of children must not be too rigid and deliberate. Dai Yun's mother had no time to educate Dai Yun since she was a child. Dai Yun has been living in an uneducated grandmother's house, but after the reunification, she only accompanied her children to read books, not forced them to read.
Parents who influence their children by setting an example will not force their children to do things, but subtly guide them, such as putting a lot of books at home to make them interested in books. When children become interested in books, they begin to take them with them, and gradually children will like reading. This behavior of setting an example has the greatest influence on children.
Let children learn spontaneously. After Dai Yun entered school, her mother didn't make up lessons for her children, let alone force them to learn things they didn't like. Instead, let the children learn and explore by themselves, and at the same time encourage them to try their own ideas and make him work hard towards his own goals, which also cultivated Dai Yun's good habit of active learning.
Books open a window for children, let her know the richness of the world, broaden their horizons and help them lay a good foundation for language and writing.