It's just that TV plays beautify life. In real life, you may not meet an enlightened ex-husband. Only the little boy who still tells you the truth in your eyes may not meet Neptune. Maybe the other person only has a broken fishing net, and you can't be too dirty when you are still tossing in the small pool. Of course, you can't live to be Gu Jia, your daughter, mother, wife, best friend, wife, crisis publicist, neighbor, comrade-in-arms, boss, leader and neighbor.
Here, I don't think about this movie. I like it very much. The content is a bit exaggerated, but it is very real. The actor's sense of substitution is also particularly strong, feeling that both the protagonist and the supporting role have been engraved with what the characters in the play should look like. This is a good play with a conscience, which is worth pondering.
It's just that when we turn off the TV and return to reality, we are trapped in life and work again and again or in dark silence.
We go to work with our eyes open every day, doing helpless work every day, and want to change, but because of various reasons such as great changes in the environment, sharp increase in age, and oppression of survival. We continue to bow our heads again and again and convince ourselves to go to work, get off work, get off work and get off work again and again. ...
We want to talk to friends, but friends also have their daily necessities and anxieties, so we can't have the leisure to solve your problems as before.
You may have talked about a tepid boyfriend because of family pressure, or you may have had an affair with your husband who has been exhausted in the rough. Two people are more like roommates than lovers, or you have withstood the pressure of being forced to get married for 30 years, survived the loneliness that only you have not solved the major events in life, and shouldered one important moment after another. You are sure that you don't need that person anymore, but you dare not think about it.
Only thirty, yes, only thirty. Although staying up late is also very tiring, mental and physical strength will collapse, but a sleep can revive qi and blood. If you can't do it after a sleep, sleep again, but you can't. Rub a hot pot, have a barbecue and sing a big K. If you don't admit defeat in your bones, you won't be willing to cut through difficulties and climb mountains and mountains, giving you the courage to start over, believing in yourself and the motivation of life.
Thirty-five years later, however, it's not just time. After experiencing the contempt chain of "35-year-old workplace" and "unmarried and childless" in the online biography, there will be no "reinvention". To make a living, work as long as you can; . Emotionally, after seeing all kinds of marriages around me, friends around me are no longer in love or newly married, but tired of sending their babies to various early education classes or exams. So I began to get used to and even indulge in the tune of "One person smells good". If I want to come, I must thank the city where I live. Express delivery and take-out have developed so fast in recent years, reducing the loneliness of eating without company and shopping without travel. Occasionally, I feel that I can be less confused, read books, exercise and cook by myself, but the memory of failure proves my age again and again, and my diet and weight that I try to control will always fail again and again after eating a comforting meal.
This is my first article, which is a bit sad. I am really sad these days ... but I will cheer for myself, continue to eat well, treat my middle-aged body well, control my weight, study hard, and don't expect to be a shining self, but I shouldn't let myself down!