Selected questions and answers 1
My son is 5 years old, and attending kindergarten in his hometown and countryside is also very lively. Recently, I was taken to school in the city for work reasons. After a week in kindergarten, he doesn't like talking to children. When the teacher asked any questions, he cried. How to guide children! If you go to kindergarten after school, it's like you're not alone!
The crooked rabbit parenting teacher replied:
Analysis:
In fact, everyone will feel strange in a new environment, not only children but also adults. Imagine that if you go to a new working environment and don't know your colleagues and friends, you may feel shy, not to mention being a child in a small class. So we need to give our children an adaptation process.
Suggestion:
1, communicate with kindergarten teachers about the situation at home and deeply understand the reasons why children are unhappy.
2, the mother should always take the initiative to communicate with the teacher, the situation of the baby at home, so that the teacher can also understand the situation of the baby at home. At the same time, mothers and teachers should analyze the differences between the two sides in educating their babies, seek common ground while reserving differences, and give them a unified educational environment.
3. Respect children and allow them to express their ideas. This kind of emotional venting will keep the child psychologically balanced. The mother should be a listener, tolerate and understand the child with a gentle attitude, and then analyze the matter with the child after the child's emotions have calmed down.
4. You can invite children to get together at home on weekends, get familiar with them in a safe environment and establish friendship.
5, patient guidance, no compulsion, and timely praise for good behavior.
6. Story guidance, such as "The crooked rabbit is loved by everyone", the second picture book of adversity quotient education series, "The crooked rabbit social picture book, the good goat and her doll".
Selected questions and answers II
My son is 3 years and 9 months old. He is usually a sensible little boy. Sometimes his children are emotionally unstable and lack self-control. As long as his father is at the scene, he often picks up a stick and waves it in the air, threatening the child: I will hit you if you cry again! Of course, the child cried badly and the father really hit the child. Every time, it is wrong to take a taxi to educate children about setbacks! We quarreled and said, "A boy can't make a weapon without fighting. If you don't take it now, the dutiful son will grow up! " ! Ask the teacher to teach me some "why can't I teach my children the truth by hitting them? What will happen after hitting them?" Come and talk to dad, thank you, teacher! "
The crooked rabbit parenting teacher replied:
1, the so-called frustration education refers to letting children suffer setbacks in the process of education, thus stimulating their potential, which has nothing to do with hitting children. If the child makes a mistake, you can make the child bear the consequences of the mistake: if the child buckles the bowl on the ground, let him clean the floor; If you steal other children's toys, ask them to exchange them and apologize. Children should be punished in a causal way, so that children can personally understand where they are wrong.
2. Adults can only beat children by their own strength, not by other reasons, and it will greatly undermine children's trust in their parents. This is a double abuse of children's body and mind. It is conceivable that when children grow up, they have no affection for their parents, only hostility. At this time, the parents are old and weak, and the children are already in their prime. How will he treat his parents?
Everyone is an independent individual from birth. As a parent, he has more social experience and can only be a guide for children. Therefore, at this stage, parents should use rich life experience to guide their children and tell them why some things can't be done, instead of simply and rudely "doing so will get beaten."
4. The child is less than four years old. What he needs first is that his parents accept his emotions unconditionally. Parents can give him a hug when he is angry and sad, let him cry for a while, and wait until he calms down before making sense (of course, if there are unfair demands, they still can't be satisfied). Parents also need to bring him to know emotions, knowing that any emotion is normal and needs to be treated differently in order to restore calm.
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