Many parents immediately objected to this parent's question. It's 2020, and their thinking is still so backward. Foreign sex education began in kindergarten, teaching children gender differences and self-protection. China people are bound by traditional ethics. Sex? Education is always shy. In our time, there was no physical health class until the third grade of junior high school. Moreover, when it comes to sexual knowledge, teachers often skip it and let students learn by themselves. As a result, many junior high school girls don't even know their menarche, so they are ashamed to talk about it. In case of sexual assault, they are also ignorant and submit to humiliation.
Sex? In the eyes of China people, it has always been a very private matter, especially to avoid talking about sexual knowledge in front of children. Children's understanding of sexual knowledge can only be? Can only understand, can't express? Since the Enlightenment. Sex education has always been a blind spot in primary and secondary education. A scholar once said that if we only take sex as an adult topic and dare not answer children's related questions, we may face three consequences, the most serious of which is that children are ignorant and don't know how to say no when facing sexual assault. Such a child is the target that criminals like to start.
The child is nine years old, why not use the opportunity of education to carry out gender education? How did it become? What a mess. It doesn't matter if parents don't understand education, but they can't question teachers' educational methods casually, let alone command professionals by amateurs and threaten to complain at every turn.
Some parents still understand and support the teacher's practice and think that the teacher is responsible for the children, and there is no problem. For example, when my daughter was in kindergarten, because she was cute, there were always little boys hugging and kissing her. After returning home, she taught her children to say no to this kind of behavior, and suggested that teachers strengthen gender education and tell them that men and women are different. Since then, similar behaviors have been much less.
Some parents also said that in the face of children's doubts about where they came from, let them see the scars on their stomachs and tell them that their father put a seed in his stomach and slowly grew into you. When I grow up, my stomach can't hold it, so I come out of my mother's stomach. After listening, the child understood, touched the scar and said, mom must have been in pain at that time. Isn't this kind of education much better than charging your mobile phone and picking it up from the trash can?
A book about? Girl protection? Research data show that among the more than 200 million children in China, as many as 20 million may have been molested and abused, and the youngest is only a few months. Not only girls, but sometimes even boys can't escape. Seeing such data, parents will still think that sex education for their children is? What a mess. Things?
At this stage, sex education in our school is not too much, but too little, not too early but too late! Sex education is not only shaping children's gender, but also cultivating children's awareness of self-protection and letting them know that men and women are different and what others can't see.
For the healthy growth of children, don't let sex education be absent in primary and secondary schools. Parents should not dictate the normal sex education conducted by schools and teachers to students, and amateurs should direct experts!