After all, how happy it is to have two children at a time. But for people whose families are not very rich, two children mean two economic pressures, and besides joy, there will be many troubles.

The twins were separated after birth and reunited five years later.

In a family, if a woman is pregnant with twins, it is very exciting, but there is such a family because there will be many problems after being pregnant with twins.

Finally, the two children were separated. Five years later, the two children were able to meet, and the scene after the meeting made the mother feel unbearable and even shed tears.

MengMeng's husband met at work. Both of them are of marriageable age. After talking for a while, they decided to get married. Because their hometown is not a place, they decided to settle in the city where they work.

The city where MengMeng and her husband work is Beijing, and the consumption is very high. It is also difficult to raise a child, but MengMeng's mother-in-law has been giving birth.

MengMeng thought that she was going to have a baby anyway, so she sent the child back to the countryside directly while she was young, which saved him the trouble. Unexpectedly, MengMeng was pregnant with twins.

The whole family was very happy, but MengMeng was at a loss. Mother-in-law is not in good health. One person takes care of two children. If anything happens to the child, the responsibility will still rest with Meng Meng and his wife.

Even if the discussion during pregnancy didn't produce any results, MengMeng didn't want to rock the boat, just wanted to wait until the baby was born.

In a blink of an eye, the pregnancy passed in October and the child was finally born. Two daughters. After taking care of her mother-in-law in Beijing for five months, there are many contradictions, small space and high consumption. The mother-in-law suggested that the two children should be raised in the countryside in the future.

MengMeng didn't want to take her two children to the countryside, but she couldn't take them to Beijing alone, so she decided to take her eldest brother to the countryside to support her grandmother and support herself in Beijing.

After discussion, the whole family agreed. During this period, MengMeng only went home to see his eldest daughter two or three times, because the round-trip fare was too expensive.

Five years later, MengMeng and his wife worked steadily before returning to their hometown, ready to bring their eldest daughter to Beijing to live together.

But when he got home, MengMeng was stunned. Her second daughter is wearing a very beautiful princess dress, a hair band on her head and princess shoes and stockings on her feet.

Eldest brother is playing with mud in the country, hanging around with a group of boys, all dirty. The moment MengMeng called her eldest daughter, her daughter didn't dare to promise and looked at her mother from a distance.

At that moment, MengMeng was sad. MengMeng knew that his guilt for his eldest daughter was irreparable for life, and then he cried.

No mother wants to be separated from her children. However, there are always some realistic pressures that force parents to breathe, which is unfair to the children and will never erase the guilt for the mother.

What's the difference between a child bringing it to grandma and a child bringing it to mom?

Nowadays, most young people give their children to their grandmothers after giving birth. Maybe young people are stressed, and there may be various reasons.

The difference between grandma and mom will be great, and the influence on children may be lifelong.

1, three views are different

Grandmothers tend to spoil their children when they take care of them. For example, if a child accidentally falls down, the first thing the old man does is to coax the child to hit the floor.

This behavior of blaming the other party for the mistake will make the child an irresponsible person.

On the contrary, when taking care of children, mothers tend to give them popular science and seek truth from facts, report their children to early classes to learn knowledge, take them to the zoo and travel. Increasing children's knowledge, vision and pattern are completely different.

2. Different aesthetics

When children are young, the old people don't pay attention to dressing up at all. Almost all of them wear leftovers from other children, and sometimes they buy clothes and shoes for their children, which are especially big.

Children are not suitable at all, and they are particularly ugly. In the long run, educated children often have no aesthetic ability.

On the contrary, the children brought out by mothers will choose the most comfortable fabrics and the most beautiful styles for their children. Under such influence, children will also have their own aesthetic sense, and even choose matching accessories, which have their own unique aesthetics.

3. Different physical qualities

In terms of physical fitness, the children brought by the elderly will be stronger. Old people like to take their children out to pick fruits, climb mountains and even catch shrimps in the river. Frequent contact with soil is beneficial to improve children's immunity.

However, mothers and children are often in the city, spoiled and often stay in their rooms. The air is not circulating. They are often ill and have weak resistance.

In short, children born by themselves should be raised by themselves, especially before they are three years old. Children who are with their mothers will be more attached to their parents and have deeper feelings for their parents in the future. Parents will also have a deeper understanding of their children.

No matter what the situation is, you must think carefully before giving birth, and be responsible for yourself and the child.