According to scientific research, children's IQ is mainly cultivated by their parents' inheritance and upbringing. As the saying goes, "look big at the age of three." Parents can tell whether their children are smart from their childhood, especially by observing their hands.
Li Meijin is a famous professor of criminal psychology in China, and I believe all parents know her to some extent, because Li Meijin not only studies juvenile psychological crimes, but also has unique views on parenting. She has given many lectures on family education on the Internet, which has been recognized by most parents. Professor Li Meijin believes that children are not smart, you can see from his "hands" that you don't have to wait for them to grow up!
We often say idioms such as "ingenious" and "handy", which mean that the hand and the brain are connected, and the movement of the hand is the driving force for the evolution of the brain. Let children often exercise their hands and let their brains think better.
According to research, there are many nerves on people's fingers, and each nerve will cause brain reaction, so every movement of children needs brain control. The more flexible and faster the hand movements, the easier it is for the brain motor center to develop well, thus making children smarter.
1, strong hands-on ability
Some children have strong hands-on ability and especially like to "sabotage". I like to open everything I can get, especially toys and remote controls. Many parents may think that the child is deliberately making trouble, and sometimes criticize him. In fact, they didn't deliberately make trouble, which is actually a manifestation of children's strong hands-on ability. The stronger the child's hands-on ability, the better the brain development.
Children's strong hands-on ability shows that they are creative and imaginative. They always want to take things apart and put them back together. In this process, it not only exercises the child's brain, but also enhances the child's logical thinking ability. Therefore, parents should not blindly stop it, which may make their children lose this talent.
Children like to draw pictures everywhere.
There is a "Xiong Haizi" at home, and my parents really have a headache. They especially like to scribble on weekdays. If parents buy colored brushes for their children, they usually use them on the white walls at home. As long as parents are not careful, children may paint the white wall beyond recognition and leave their own creations on it. Usually when parents encounter this situation, their first reaction is to educate their children and stop this behavior.
However, parents should be happy that their children like graffiti, because their brains develop faster than their peers, especially when they are about 3 years old. Because I am curious about colors, I often scribble with my little hands. In fact, this is a manifestation of children's imagination and creativity. If parents can train them well, your child may become a painter in the future.
The child's fingers are flexible.
According to the concept of sensitive period of children put forward by Montessori, an early education expert, we can find that the hands of zero-year-old children are very sensitive. During this period, children's hands will become very flexible, like touching, grasping, pinching, pulling, hitting, throwing, picking and other hand movements. Through these actions, children will also feel the difference of everything in the world. At first, they will think that the building blocks are hard, the cloth is soft and the snow is ice.
Children have the desire to perceive the world, the brain sends instructions, the instructions are transmitted to the hands, and the feelings touched by the hands are transmitted to the brain. They perceive the characteristics of things in this world and let the brain form cognition and understand what is dangerous and what is safe. Under this stimulus, the child's brain will be in an active stage of development, intelligence can be effectively developed and utilized, and IQ will be improved.
Some parents are strict with their children and will prevent them from doing so. Some parents release their children's childlike innocence and think that children should play, let them play freely and let them grow up healthily and happily. Parents only need to observe the safety of their children from the sidelines, and do not need to discipline their children's behavior too severely.