The best way of education is to set an example.

The best family education is: love+trust.

When my son was in the first grade of primary school, he was very depressed and ran back to me and said, "Mom, I am stupid." I asked him why he said this, and he said, "I don't understand what the teacher said, but all the other students do." I told him that it was because other children had basically attended various preschool classes, already knew many English words, could add, subtract, multiply and divide in mathematics, and knew hundreds of smaller words. And you have learned nothing. Yes, before he went to primary school, other children had already got a bunch of certificates, and he still happily held his dinosaur and car, rode a small bike and practiced drifting around the community every day.

When my son doesn't speak fluently and makes mistakes when counting from one to ten, he is more stupid than those children his age who can read newspapers, add, subtract, multiply and divide. No one, including my parents, has great hopes for him.

In the first grade of primary school, he ranked first from the bottom in his class. In the second grade, I hunched forward; Grade three, ranking at the middle level; Fourth grade, ranked in the top ten; In the fifth grade, except for composition, math and English are excellent; In the sixth grade, I was among the top students in the whole grade. I was admitted to Class 0 of junior high school one semester in advance and admitted to the best local private school for free. In these six years, I am not in a hurry. The worst time was when I came home and took out a zero test paper. I didn't beat and scold him. Since childhood, he has been under no pressure in the exam, because he knows that even if he doesn't do well in the exam, his parents will not be angry when he comes home. The only thing I do is to encourage and trust. It doesn't matter. Take your time.

Looking back now, unconsciously, he won most of the children with early childhood education around him.

Life is a long run. Don't think that the sooner you run, the stronger you will be. If you push too hard, you may give up halfway.

Most people's lives are bitter. Why not let children be simple and happy for a few years at an early age? Before I was six years old, I learned about the world by playing. My son also said that the happiest day is kindergarten.