About independence 1 independence is the foundation for a person to embark on society, and it is most important to cultivate an independent heart. Only by learning to be independent can we stand in the ever-changing society and not be eliminated by society. -inscription
When we see the cactus in the desert struggling with drought and dust, our hearts will always be full of admiration and envy, and the strong green figure in the storm will always make people sigh. However, when we look back at the cactus in China, except for the thorns, the whole body is extremely weak and fragile. They enjoy a comfortable, quiet and safe life, learn to rely on, and gradually become weak, but forget to struggle and forget to be strong! When their owners stopped watering them often, they immediately collapsed, even the thorns fell off and were on the verge of death. If they are not remedied, they will wither completely. Cactus, losing its innate strength, is naturally fragile because of people's ubiquitous care, so that it can not be tempered by wind, frost, rain and snow.
Are only plants like this? Don't! So do people. Children who have lived in the arms of their parents since childhood are considered to be difficult and insurmountable without being honed and encountering difficulties. Isn't it because they don't have to bear anything that their parents have arranged everything? Some children, their parents only ask them to study hard and ignore anything. In this way, children have become veritable "learning machines", learning very well, but they are all thumbs and helpless in life. I once read a cartoon: a little girl looked at the smoking kettle on the living room floor in amazement and cried in panic: "Ah! Mom! Come on, don't drive! " And behind her, is a magnificent living room, countless awards. Is this just a funny cartoon? No, it tells us that no matter how good we study, life will not be independent. What's the use? What do you do when you meet a scene in a cartoon?
Independence is to help you win a place in the ever-changing society and cultivate an independent heart for yourself!
My name is Wang, and I am a student in Class 303 of Experimental Primary School. I am of medium height, with a pointed chin, watery eyes, long eyelashes and a long black big braid that many people envy. If you don't know me, you can recognize my big braid at a glance, haha ~
Because my parents have to work in small classes and are very playful. They are often away from home and sometimes come back very late at night. I have been alone at home since I was very young, and I learned to wash and sleep by myself at that time. But I'm not afraid. After school, I do my homework and read books by myself at home alone. I never asked my parents to come back to accompany me. My father often praises me for my independence in front of others.
Usually after I finish learning, I will take out my drawing paper and start to concentrate on painting.
And it's not bad. I often get praise from teachers when I attend special art classes.
I hope everyone likes me and we can all be good friends.
I tried to stand on my own feet. Although I made many mistakes, I didn't grow up without mistakes.
I went to the vegetable market downstairs, and I bargained like my father bargained. I said to a stall owner, "Uncle, how much is a catty of cabbage?" He said, "Three dollars." I said, "How about two dollars?" "impossible." Then I'm going to another booth. As soon as I lifted my leg, I heard the stall owner say, "Here's 2 yuan, little friend." I happily bought a Chinese cabbage and went home, thinking, "I must tell my father to praise me well!" " "
As soon as I entered the room, my father seemed to know my mind and asked me, "Is the cabbage you bought 3 yuan or 2 yuan?" I proudly said, "Two dollars." Dad praised me happily and said, "Hey! Nothing can stop you. " Then, I learned to wash vegetables. I first rubbed one side of the cabbage leaves with my hand and washed the other side patiently like my father washed vegetables. Then learn to cut vegetables, and finally the most exciting thing is to fry in the pot. Eating my own fried food, I feel more fragrant than my father's cooking. Although my hand was burned, it was my glorious mistake.
Since then, I have tried to do many things by myself again and again. Every time I try something new, I feel flattered. Although there are many mistakes, they are indispensable "mistakes"! I am gradually learning to stand on my own feet.
My name is Tong Hua, and I am 9 years old. I am a student of Dongfeng West Road Primary School in Guangzhou. I have big eyes and a high nose. Sometimes I am very naughty.
Now I can sleep, bathe, eat and do my homework alone. I can do the above four things independently.
When I was in kindergarten, I slept alone since kindergarten because I lived on campus. Later, I went to primary school, and I slept alone at home. I was a little scared when I slept alone in my room just now. I often wake up in the middle of the night and then sneak into my parents' bed to go back to sleep. Once I quietly walked to my parents' bed in the middle of the night and was about to go to bed. I woke up my mother and gave her a fright. Now I have learned to sleep by myself. I will not wake up in the middle of the night.
When I was a child, my mother helped me take a bath. Now that I am grown up, I have learned to take a bath by myself. At first, I thought it would be nice to take a shower by myself. Later, I will also use shower gel, which smells like milk and washes myself very well every day.
Speaking of eating, I have to feed my mother when I attend the early education class. When I arrived in kindergarten, I slowly learned to eat by myself. When I first started eating by myself, I often scattered rice grains on the ground. Now I can sit at the table and eat every day without dropping rice grains.
In the third grade of primary school, I couldn't do a lot of homework. I often call my mother to teach me to do my homework, especially English and Chinese. Some of them are too difficult for me to do. Now my learning ability is almost the same, and I can do many difficult problems by myself, so I will finish my homework independently.
In a word, I can do many things by myself now, so I don't have to ask my mother to help me all the time. I am an independent child!
I heard such a story: in a paradise, a man met an American boy. A person shuttles through it, full of curiosity about any project, and actively participates in everything. But when he was about to walk away, he suddenly found that the boy had no right foot!
After listening to this story, I thought a lot. Why didn't his mother come? Why didn't he go to his parents? Why is his right foot disabled? Countless reasons came to my mind, and while I answered them one by one in my mind, my condemnation of my mother also came to my mind. However, I thought about it and finally understood. It turns out that his mother did this to cultivate the independence of the little boy!
I thought of myself again. I don't have any disabilities. When my classmates laugh at me, I will secretly cry here and talk to my dog. My mother will choose clothes and cook at home. What am I doing? Eating, sleeping, watching TV, doing homework and reading books, compared with that little boy, how independent he is!
Starting today, I also want to be a self-reliant person.