Current location - Training Enrollment Network - Early education courses - Why don't modern people want to get married?
Why don't modern people want to get married?
More and more young people choose not to get married, and the overall marriage rate in China is decreasing. In fact, I think there are three main reasons why young people don't get married. First, the cost of marriage is too high for young people to get married. Secondly, young people who pursue independence and freedom don't want to get married. Finally, young people can't get married without a marriage partner.

1, the cost of marriage is too high to get married.

At present, the cost of a couple entering the marriage hall is really too high. According to the conventional calculation, you need to buy a house, a car, prepare a bride price or dowry, and take wedding photos before getting married.

After marriage, the young couple need to bear the daily expenses such as daily necessities, personal contacts between relatives, and the necessary filial piety of a pair of parents on the New Year's Eve.

After the wife is pregnant, she needs to buy nutritional products for pregnancy examination, as well as the cost of giving birth to a child. After the baby is born, she needs to buy milk powder diapers. When the child's clothes and toys are ill, she must take him to the doctor. As the child grows up, she has to pay for kindergarten classes and interest classes, as well as education expenses from kindergarten to university.

This is just the cost of a family with one child. With the liberalization of the national birth policy, many couples will have a second child and a third child, and the cost will increase exponentially. For young people, the accumulation of wealth has just begun, and the wealth base is very weak. Some even find it difficult to support themselves, let alone bear the burden. With such a high cost of marriage and childbirth, many young people will be scared to get married by such a high cost of marriage and childbirth.

2, the pursuit of independence and freedom, do not want to get married.

With the development of society, the marriage and love thoughts of a new generation of young people have changed greatly, and they like to chase after each other. Independent and free, I don't want to be bound, nor do I want to be bound by others.

Many young people are hesitant. They haven't had enough fun and enjoyed themselves. They don't want to be bound by marriage, and they don't want to give up the whole forest for a tree.

So many young people don't want to get married and want to live a few more years as single aristocrats.

In addition, some young people's parents have bad feelings or are divorced. Influenced by their family background, they don't believe in love or marriage, and they have an instinctive resistance to marriage. They would rather be an unmarried person.

3. You can't get married without a marriage partner.

At present, China has entered an aging society, and the aging population is decreasing the marriageable age population. The main force has decreased, resulting in some young people unable to find a marriage partner and unable to get married.

In addition, some young people can't find a lover because of their introversion and lack of love skills. Even blind dates are always rejected and become single.

There are also some young people who fail to make a positive result every time they fall in love, break up after falling in love for a while, and never walk into the marriage hall again. So many people can't get married without a marriage partner.

Marriage is a major event in life. Marriage leads to family. With marriage, society can be more stable. Only when human beings get married can they reproduce the next generation of human society, cherish each other from generation to generation and pass on human civilization from generation to generation.

Nowadays, many young people are afraid of getting married, don't want to get married, and can't get married. There are social reasons and some