Don't let children lose at the starting line, which is the slogan of many makeup platforms now. I don't know that parents are the best teachers for children. Parents must learn how to be a good parent first if they want their children not to lose at the starting line.

When pregnant, parents should read more books on parenting experience, create a good family atmosphere for the baby, make the baby polite during the baby's growth, cultivate the baby's emotional intelligence, and let the baby grow up in a loving family. Jasper in Where's Dad Going recently is a good example.

In the program, Jasper will still praise the king with good voice and worthy of the name after the village chief knocks on the door. When encountering problems, he will express his thoughts, comfort his younger brother, communicate with his father and express his feelings, which are inseparable from his growing up in a loving family.

Don't let your baby lose at the starting line, not only materially, academically, but also in the environment where the baby grew up, so let yourself be a qualified parent and the baby should also be at the starting line.

With the increasingly fierce competition in today's society, parents begin to make plans for their children's future, such as training from an early age, attending classes, giving face-to-face tutoring, and participating in intellectual activities. Just to make their children no worse than other children and experience more than other children. But sometimes they are eager for quick success and instant benefit, blindly implementing and not learning knowledge, which not only affects children's physical and mental health. Personally, I think parents should make plans to create a beautiful and comfortable childhood for their children. I think parents can cultivate their children from the following points.

1. Cultivate children's language ability over 1 year old. They can learn Mandarin, English and other languages. Because at this time, children's ability to accept is very strong, and the language learning speed is particularly fast, so at this time, we should appropriately increase some language vocabulary, but don't instill too much. After all, their absorption capacity is limited, so as not to be counterproductive. At this stage, children's interests can also be cultivated, because they are still a blank sheet of paper and do not have too much judgment. At this time, parents should learn some useful activities and interests for their children and cultivate them from an early age.

2. When children are 3 years old, they also have a certain language ability. They can be taught to write properly, and write some Arabic numerals or some simple Chinese characters. At this stage, they also have some interests, and parents can cultivate them according to their hobbies.

3. After the child is 5 years old, his interest is basically cultivated, so he should continue to cultivate according to this interest, but he must not be forced to do something he doesn't like. They must cultivate their hobbies and make themselves interested in doing them, instead of their parents chasing after them. Lay a good foundation for your future study and cultivate a healthy learning style. This will pave the way for children's development.

Simply put, it is to throw money at children.

Let him from snacks to the best milk powder. I believe that the best milk powder can make your children smarter. Use the best diapers, the best is always the best. Give him the best toys, let him learn to read picture books from the moment he can sit up, and send him to the aristocratic nursery class when he can walk, where all foreigners teach, so that your child's first language is English.

Go to the aristocratic kindergarten, where there are three or four languages spoken by foreigners. Let your children learn several languages in the kindergarten, attend the best primary school, attend the best cram school, and make up any physical things in advance. Give your child an interest class in piano, dance and painting on Saturday and Sunday, so that he can do everything.

In this way, your children should not lose at the starting line. As long as you are willing to spend money on the best for your child from the birth, then your child has won at the starting line.

But Xiao Ke really wants to know, what kind of children do you think lost at the starting line? Can't dance, draw or play the piano or lose at the starting line? Are grades generally true? Lose at the starting line if you can't speak English?

Indeed, children in big cities may start learning English as a second language at a very young age, or they may attend more classes than go to work every day. They can play piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and they even know several languages. They can do math and learn many things that others can't. Will such a child win at the starting line?

Did they really win? Have you ever seen such a child? They are very fragile. Have you seen many extreme children? Have you ever seen such a child? They are very utilitarian. They lost their innocence. They have no idea what childhood is.

They only know how to get a good ranking. They only know that they are better than others. They have learned to be enterprising since childhood. Besides knowing that they are parents, they have much warm time for their parents.

Did you push your child so hard since childhood to prevent him from losing at the starting line? He won at the beginning, so will he win in the end?