Yan Zhitui's thoughts on family education mainly include the following aspects: (1) Early childhood education. He believes that family education should be carried out as soon as possible, and prenatal education should be carried out before the child is born. (2) dignified and kind. He asked parents to treat their children with dignity, kindness, kindness and strictness, and no love and no education, which is undoubtedly correct. However, his admiration for stick education is obviously not desirable. (3) all love is not eccentric. He believes that partiality should be avoided in family education, and whether children are smart or not, their care and education should be treated with the same standard.