Of course, more parents want their children to win at the starting line, so they may send their babies under three years old to the so-called early education classes. But is this really good for children? In this way, can children really "win at the starting line"?
Kindergarten will have some advanced teaching, which is good for children who should be carefree and happy to play, and even will bring harm to their future. 1, lack of fatherly love and maternal love
A kindergarten teacher made a surprising remark: nowadays, when children go to kindergarten, the most common sentence they say every day is "I want to go home", and those children who call their parents "Auntie" are even more sad.
Leaving their parents at such a young age has to face a group of strangers of the same age, but what is even more frightening is that for a long time, these children will definitely lack fatherly love and maternal love, which may have a bad influence on their character. Parents should know that fatherly love and maternal love cannot be replaced by the feelings of teachers and classmates!
The correct way:
Children should be with their parents at birth. Even if you can't spare too much time with your children, think about them when you have time. For example, you can play games with your children during the break, and you can watch cartoons with your children when you get home from work. In fact, your children seldom need company. Maybe you can tell him a fairy tale when you come in the evening, so that your child can grow up healthily. The first is the company of parents.
2, imprison children's imagination.
No matter which educator, everyone knows that children's nature is "playing". You'd better play with your children if you want them to learn knowledge. Today's kindergartens are all about instilling knowledge into children, and they are all fixed answers. After a long time, children's thoughts will naturally be imprisoned.
The American Institute of Psychology has done a similar study: let a group of children who have received advanced learning in kindergarten and another group of children who have not received advanced learning draw pictures according to language descriptions at the same time. It is found that children who have received advanced education draw almost the same things on the same topic, while children who have not received advanced learning draw a variety of things, which are very imaginative and creative. It can be seen that learning in advance can really imprison children's imagination.
The correct way:
For children, playing is the happiest and most natural thing. Adults should not deprive their children of the freedom to play freely because of their "selfish" ideas, such as wanting their children to succeed and win early.
It is reasonable to worry about the safety of children. Therefore, when children are playing, adults can play with them. This can not only ensure the safety of children, but also experience childlike innocence. Finally, children's intelligence and imagination can be developed to make them healthier. Why not?
3. The harm of learning ahead actually started from the second grade.
Many parents may think that even if studying in advance has these hazards, it will only have an impact when the children are older, so there is no hurry. Actually, it's not. Psychologists have done experiments, and studying in advance will imprison children's imagination, which will be reflected in the second grade of primary school.
In other words, if early knowledge enters a child's playful childlike heart, then maybe after a year or two, you will get a child who has lost interest in learning. This kind of injury is fatal in education, and interest is the driving force of learning.