However, in the face of a beautiful and fearful childhood, what is the midlife crisis? There is an education called "Youben".
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Recently, a neighbor who runs a mahjong room is uncharacteristically closed early every night. You know, in the past, their library was fighting day and night. Why did it suddenly close at night? The reason is to accompany their grandson who is less than 3 years old to attend early education classes such as night school English.
Not losing at the starting line, parents' anxiety and pressure all reflect the increasingly younger education problems.
According to Wuhan Evening News, Dongdong, a 2-and-a-half-year-old boy who lives in Shanghai with his parents, was diagnosed as alopecia areata by the hospital. The doctor asked and found that the chief culprit of children's hair loss was actually the pressure of applying for a well-known kindergarten, and parents reported five excellent classes to their children.
Because the competition in Shanghai's slightly better kindergartens is fierce, you need an exam to enter the park. In order that Dongdong can be admitted to a famous kindergarten in Shanghai next year, my mother dare not slack off. She was afraid that her children would lose at the starting line, so she reported five excellent classes to her children along the general trend. Usually I often say to Dongdong, "You must work hard to get into the exam next year." The mental stress that my mother invisibly passed on to my child actually made my two-and-a-half-year-old child suffer from alopecia areata.
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The netizen commented that the parents gave a two-and-a-half-year-old boy five excellent lessons in one breath, which was to let the child give the parents "medicine" to relieve the parents' unconfident anxiety and the pressure of nowhere to release and lose.
Some netizens criticized that it is "cruel" for parents to report so many classes to their children.
Some netizens scolded: "I can't fly. It's a tragedy to lay an egg and let it fly!" "
Are parents fully responsible for being "extremely smart" and alopecia areata?
It is not surprising that kindergartens need exams to enter the park. Parents are forced by the early education pressure of their peers' children to enroll in too many classes. Although absurd, parents must love their children with good intentions. Because of some differences in educational concepts, children have alopecia areata. After this incident, parents will probably reflect and change.
But now all kinds of early education institutions are mixed. If there is no early education institution, parents will not rush to let their children learn too early. I hope to introduce relevant policies to solve the problems in the education market, including early education.
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Don't let children lose at the starting line, let alone let children participate in various training courses in advance. A child's first teacher is a parent, not an educational institution. No matter how good an educational institution is, it can't replace the first lesson parents give their children.
The competition at the starting line is related to many factors, not only the competition of children, but also the competition of parents. The influence and support of the family are crucial factors.
Some time ago, the papers written by the primary school students attached to Tsinghua were screened on the Internet, and the interest, concentration and professionalism were amazing. It can be seen that children's excellent education and study not only benefit from the school, but also benefit from the good learning atmosphere created by their excellent parents and families.
The real competition is not to compare who signed up for the excellent training course, who has more property, nor to rush to tell them what should be what. But who can grow up with children?
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The fundamental purpose of early education is to make children develop and grow healthily. Paying attention to children's education is a good thing, but early education needs to be moderate. Children's growth and learning vary from person to person, and the methods should be appropriate.
Two and a half years old are still learning to walk and run. It should be an age of laughter. Letting children participate in various training courses may not have any effect, but it will disturb the development of children's nature.
To cultivate children, we should not rush to let them transcend Tao, or even force or disrupt the process of their natural growth. Regardless of children's interests, regardless of whether children can accept it or not, blindly following the trend to enroll children in various training courses and instilling all kinds of knowledge in children will only encourage signs and backfire.
Interest is the best teacher. First-class parents, patiently waiting for their children to find their own interests; Second-rate parents guide their children to find interests. It takes time for children to grow up. Let them do what they are interested in, work hard consciously, and spontaneously want to become stronger, so that children can have a future.
Learning is not the whole of children's life. When children are young, it is more important to learn to know the world and accept the love of their parents.