Let the children do it themselves. China's parents like to plan their children. Set goals for everything they do. When children grow up, they always feel that they live for their parents, not for themselves. The child's rebellious behavior is actually his inner struggle. From birth, children like to imitate and learn. Apart from sleeping, what he sees, hears, does and thinks about is learning and never stops. When children begin to want to learn, adults should learn to let go and let children finish their studies according to their own interests and progress.

Letting children do manual work is the best way to train their hands-on ability. We must make the children do more physical labor. Including color painting, origami, etc. Through this kind of imitation training, their practical ability can be greatly improved. For example, teach children to learn origami or cut stickers. Teach children to hold scissors. Learn to cut paper strips first, and then learn to cut graphics. You can stick a piece of paper into a chain, or put a square piece of paper into a flower basket. Parents can help their children do all kinds of manual labor to develop their manual skills.

Let the children learn to take care of themselves. After the children learn to walk. The scope of activities has obviously expanded a lot. Children are willing to do something. However, their hand-foot coordination ability is not perfect, and they are often clumsy. Parents should never give their children the opportunity to study and work. Parents can patiently and repeatedly demonstrate to their children, let them imitate, let them gradually change from unskilled to skilled, and finally use them freely. For example, teach children to pick up toys, clean rooms and wash small things. In daily life, parents should deliberately train their children to pour water and eat with chopsticks.

I can clean the table and sweep the floor, and I can arrange toy handkerchiefs. It can not only cultivate hand skills, but also cultivate children's self-care ability. Be good at praising children's efforts, especially when children do well, parents should immediately praise and encourage them, mobilize their enthusiasm and enhance their self-esteem and self-confidence. If the child's hands-on ability is not strong, don't often dig at the child, let alone criticize the child, encourage and praise the child more, so that the child's enthusiasm can be improved and the hands-on ability can be continuously improved.