First, breaking the ice: introduce yourself, please feel free to label!
Shuoyang: I am a veteran of the book club, and my hobbies are too wide. I think I have to talk about it all day! Love reading, which is the same hobby as everyone else. I am very happy to be with friends who love reading. I like sports, fitness, music, movies and travel.
Xu Juan: Vice President of the book club, who likes to cook good food, has developed into a sideline. I like running, but I can't do anything without doing it. Like music and travel.
Gong Xue, this is my first time to participate in this activity. I am a big fan of Zhou Wei and Shuoyang. I met them in the gym and came to this activity as soon as I knew about it.
Rebecca: I'm Shuoyang's sister. I hope to make more friends and make my life colorful. Zhou Yao, I like writing, reading, sports, eating, drinking and having fun. I hope to share progress, progress and life with you in this good atmosphere in the future.
Zhang Xinyuan, I like sports. Recently, I am reading Chinese classics.
Yang Xue: I also met the book club through a tour group. I have always wanted to run, but I can't. Now I exercise at home for half an hour and study for half an hour every morning and evening. The popularity and spirituality of sports are very good. I like to eat lightly, that is, to wash it a little. The secret we are going to tell today is that this magnetic field attracts everyone together.
Dong Yan: I heard about this book club for the first time. I feel that life is a little boring recently. I want to raise myself to a new height, so I want to see more, learn more and make more friends.
Zhang Xiaomei, I prefer reading Zhouyi and Mencius. It would be better if there could be a Chinese community or a Chinese community in Kashgar. I also hope that everyone will wear Hanfu to participate. Because my uncle is a Chinese medicine practitioner, I have been influenced by this since I was a child.
Huang: I know our reading club is because I met a senior in the driving school recently. He took me on a tour group. I like reading and playing the violin. Nice to meet you.
Zhang Ting: I am pregnant now. I learned about this book club from the WeChat circle of friends, so I want to know about you and this group. I brought a flower to my cousin on Monday. She is in Grade One.
Chen Congying: I'm not 15 years old, but I will soon. I am a student party working hard in grade three. I don't like sports very much. I like travel movies and cartoons. I usually watch TV and movies at home.
Wenshan: I like Hanfu very much, too. I hope I can make more friends here and find like-minded friends.
Wang Guifeng: Nice to meet you, a beautiful, knowledgeable and connotative woman. I like running, singing and reading.
Hu Jianlin: I used to like playing games, eating and drinking, and playing sports. Recently, I gave up everything because I was obsessed with accompanying my children. I fell in love with him and was loved by him. As long as I am in the room, I have to stay with her. So my biggest hobby at present is looking after children.
Lv Yuan: I am an old member. I like reading, eating, drinking and playing. The goal of growing taller is to make money. I can't give up my children either. My parents took care of it for me before, so I always felt very indebted to my children. After she went to kindergarten, I went to pick them up and bring them myself. Recently, I am studying education and parenting. I participated in the reading clock last month and read four books. I'm reading Laughter on Hard Days and Minimalist Life recently. I find that I am not good at sorting, and I hope I can learn something in this area through communication with you.
Zhou Wei: My label is: Ma Bao, a newly resigned civil servant and an entrepreneur. My hobbies are sports, nutrition and language. I'm glad to meet you and sit here with you through the platform of reading club. Our reading serves our life. When we encounter problems, we will look for answers in books. Just like when we encounter problems in life or work, we will ask our predecessors for advice. Reading is also an easier way to solve our doubts.
The latest book I read is Exercise Physiology, which is no longer a pastime, but because I need to read it. There is also reading "Whale Riding Journey", swimming in the sea of books with children and traveling with them. I hope one day he will give it back to me like a little whale.
Zhou Wei concluded: There will be various changes in our life. We can get to know more people and learn more experiences through this platform, thus enriching our lives. From your introduction, I think we can do many things together in the future: for example, the exchange and borrowing of books; Buy picture books or toys at the flea market, and donate them to the Little Hand Volunteers Association if no one buys them; The exchange activities of parenting education and so on. Next, please ask Yang Xue to share with us her gains and inspirations from reading the Secret series of books.
Second, sharing: the gains and enlightenment from reading The Secret Series
Yang Xue: Secret is a well-known law of attraction, which continues in everyone's life. Your joys and sorrows, your sorrows and joys, are all attracted by yourself.
Six years ago, I was working on a project and I just fell in love. I want a man who can wait for me at home, cook for me and love me. Then my husband showed up. I gradually found that my friends around me were attracted by themselves. Just like when you meet a red light, you are very unhappy, and then it may be a red light all the way. Because your fidgety mood is distributed to the universe, all the feedback from the universe is red light. Let's tell the universe what we want. If you tell the universe that you want money, you will get richer and richer.
At this moment, you can choose to be happy or unhappy. If you choose to be happy, the universe will make you happy. Get out of your present environment, get out of your life and think about what you really want. This is a very amazing thing. If you are unhappy, there is a complaint message about the universe in your heart, which will attract a lot of unhappy emotions.
If you want to change your life, you should first think of this picture in your mind, focus on this picture, and you will really see this picture and realize it. This is the dream version. Now you can write down a few things you want, imagine them at will, show them in pictures, pay attention to them every day, and never think that they will come true one day.
After the bestseller Secret, many people were affected. No matter what we do, we must focus on the good and happy things. Growth is more important than success. As long as you grow up, success will come naturally. You will be happy only if you work happily in a happy atmosphere. If you just complain and worry, you will never develop and be unhappy.
Our future road is at every moment. As long as we live every moment well, you will have a bright future. I am also starting my own business, and I have experienced many ups and downs on this road. The greatest achievement in life is cultivation. I often meditate. I find that people's lives are different, and I will live better. I pay attention to what I want, and I will get these things.
I used to be very busy and wanted to make money, so the information I gave to the universe was not good. Once I was troubled by debt. When I didn't pay attention to the money and this matter, my credit card was returned unconsciously. Expect, give up first.
Everything around you is spiritual and will bring you a magnetic field, good or bad. I am wearing a grateful stone. Although it is not a very precious stone, I cherish it very much. I touch this stone before going to bed every day, thanking people and things in my life. The more you give thanks, the more you get.
Zhou: I first read this book in 2009. Many people feel lucky when they encounter good things, and unlucky when they encounter bad things. Yang Xue just said that when we don't want something, it will come. I want to add that we are conscious and unconscious. Let them communicate and talk deeply, and don't let them fight with each other. For example, in our marriage and love life, you like this boy, but you have set up many frameworks. This shows that you don't like this boy subconsciously, and your thoughts will make you do something unconsciously and push him away.
You must talk to the universe very carefully and place an order with the universe very clearly. Tell the universe clearly and in detail what you want. For example, if you want a house, if you think about the pattern you want, your consciousness will attract such a house. One day you will really find this house, and you will say, this is what I want. Character determines fate, action affects your character, and your actions are dominated by your thinking. The gap between people lies in the mind, and the mind will rise to your thinking. Values also determine people's thinking and personality.
Hu Jianlin: I think of something about myself. It's about whether to have a second child. After I gave birth to my first child, I insisted on not having a second one. I feel that I gave birth to a child, so hard, then the ligation should be done by the man. I think I stand on the moral high ground. Two people have twisted together. Until one day I finally figured it out that it was my own business not to want children, and I shouldn't ask him to have a vasectomy. You can't do everything at once. Before, my period was always wrong. My period has been normal since I wanted to do this. Really realized such a magical thing. When you meet something, you should make it clear whose business it is, and don't ask others because of your own ideas.
Shuo Yang: People who haven't read The Secret will think that we are talking about idealism. I have been studying science from high school to college. At that time, I didn't have much understanding of life, and I felt a little idealistic when I read it. As I grow up, I find that it has something to do with science. Li Xinpin's book mentions quantum mechanics. For example, when we look at a microscope, we can see the movement of molecules. When we see the movement of particles under a high-density microscope, the observer's thinking will affect the movement of particles, and then affect the observer's thinking. Everything comes from life, and if it can be linked with your life in the end, you can benefit, which is the most important thing.
"Secret" is actually a secret about getting what you want. But why do so many people watch "The Secret" and still have some dissatisfaction with life? Everyone has a dream. How to achieve it? All your actions should serve this dream. If you just think about it, without action and action, your dream will not come true.
For example, I am starting a business now, and everything I do and pay attention to every day is in this direction. When I met many difficulties, I thought I couldn't solve them at first, but because my whole heart was working, my every move was aimed at promoting the progress of this matter, so that there would be a turning point, or with personal help, this difficult thing would be realized.
Zhou: Shuo Yang said that the behavior of the observed will also affect the behavior of the observer. Mutual influence, there is a saying that the attitude of others towards you is your own attitude. Before we place an order with the universe, we should achieve a high degree of unity between the subconscious and the conscious, that is, we look the same as we know. We must make a practical list and do it every day, so that the accumulation of quantitative changes will be qualitatively changed. After doing it for a while, it was put down, and the signal received by the universe was very weak. Action depends on dribs and drabs, perseverance, service for dreams and efforts.
I always knew that I wouldn't buy a big house even if I had financial resources. I must have a single apartment. Shangri-La Community is the earliest community with single apartments in Kashgar. A rough house had just been built. After I went in, I knew this was what I always wanted. I stood in that rough room, thinking about what it would look like after the transformation. Everything goes well when the energy is high, and I don't know what I want to do when the energy is low. Empty your heart and ask yourself what you really want.
In the future, my focus will be on a tall and grounded goal, that is, wealth accumulation. I think (two words are omitted here), this is my dream. My life really began after I was 30 years old. Many people have entered an ordinary life since the age of 30, but I don't take an ordinary road myself. My family is very open, and my parents let me make my own decisions.
About my dream, I will give myself a few years to accumulate slowly until I can realize this wish. When you want something, you should believe that you already have it, and let yourself live in this atmosphere.
Shuo Yang: Everyone talked about making money. That's great. As early as a long time ago, founder Wendy Wang said: The money you earn is the applause of this society.
Yang Xue: I have one more thing to say, and that is: everything should be explored inward. I participated in a training in 2006, when the teacher asked us to make a dream version, some of which was for public welfare. Then the law of attraction came into play. I met many non-profit organizations in 2006.
Third, sharing: time management-the secret of getting up early?
Four: discuss freely and take a group photo as a souvenir.