Looking back on the whole process of childhood, I am very moved. I'll record it here for your reference.
Although he passed the computer exam, I never thought he was a bullfrog. If you have to have a name, "Zijiwa" may be more suitable for him.
My father and I are very busy at work, so Eva has been enrolled in the early education center since 18 months. From1August to now, his "report" time is completely consistent with the working hours of adults. Apart from national holidays, there are no winter and summer vacations, and he reports every day. He is used to such a learning lifestyle.
We have regarded learning as a reward for him since childhood. If you do well, you will be rewarded with some learning content. So he always thinks that learning is the supreme reward and likes learning very much. For example, once, I forgot that the official document at my door was due on Wednesday. As soon as he saw the door closed, he sat on the ground and cried, "I want to study, I want to study." No matter what I said, he was howling there, and many parents were watching. Finally, I had to "reward" him with two extra sets of homework before he gave up.
Once the kindergarten teacher called me to school urgently, saying that my baby was weak when he got off the school bus and asked me to take him home. As a result, he came home and swaggered. He said that he actually wanted to do his homework at home and then brush the questions crazily.
Every time the baby doesn't listen to me, I yell at him, and then there will be no learning. He immediately gave in, stopped eating and surrendered!
Therefore, he likes all kinds of studies and courses and does not exclude them. Besides, after I told him about the course, he chose it himself.
Eva is always clamoring for her love of learning. I want him to be admitted. If he can pass the best exam and fails, he has worked hard.
Before kindergarten, I began to study in Ruisi, just like staying in Ruisi for one day, then studying EF for a while, and then moving to Ruisi. I didn't give up until the last time I really went out. Kindergarten is bilingual, and foreign teachers spend half a day with their children in the classroom, so I think it is ok to have fewer chickens outside English.
The middle class began to participate in official mathematics, learning and thinking, and began a journey of four flowers a week. I remember the first time I reported a flower. Because I was late, I only reported two large classes and four small classes in the winter vacation. After telling the baby, he was confused for a while. He said, mom, you can't just study and work by yourself, regardless of my study. Say that you must pay attention next time, and don't be robbed of places by others. Therefore, some flowers are particularly active after my registration.
There are practical preschool classes and computer examination classes under the middle class. Pre-school classes have new concepts, such as youth edition, logical thinking and painting.
Coupled with my interest in Go and Lego, I have classes every day, especially on weekends. Eva likes taking so many classes, and other parents tell him that if he is too tired. He said that he was not tired at all, and he was very angry about it, fearing that people would brainwash me into underreporting.
Although it looks chicken on the surface, my father and I are only responsible for picking up and dropping off. As for the content of the class and the review after class, we do nothing but teach ourselves.
Once I went to the kindergarten to pick up my baby, and the baby said that the kindergarten students would not add and subtract within 20. I said you will be within 100, just a little more than others. As a result, the baby said in surprise, mom, do you really don't know what homework I am doing now? I now add or subtract within 1000. hum ...
My father and I were so busy during the big class that we hardly had time to care about his upbringing. March was almost free, and I began to watch his study and progress one after another. I found that a flower didn't do much homework and began to make up homework every night.
A few days later, I went to the guru to register. The mesh screen is more casual, and there is actually no experience. I feel that the screen is easier to succeed if I sign up for the computer test class.
Wa was the first to enter the computer test. He is very young, less than 120. When I watched him holding his father's big ipad and walking alone on the stairs, I was filled with emotion. The baby is so young that he will experience such a cruel game. I still have two pieces of paper with computer test A attached.
After doing well in the exam, the baby looked miserable. The first sentence is that he didn't finish, only did 307 questions. In the second sentence, he protected the ipad and did not break it.
After that, we were in a hurry to attend this private open day, so we didn't specifically ask questions about the computer test.
Because the interview was a failure and there was no successful experience to share, I could only share the failed experience with everyone, especially those parents who were bent on getting into reality.
The computer test is well prepared and the interview is hastily prepared.
As I said before, the learning of the middle class is actually oriented to computer exams. For the interview, although I also attended an interview class for Shanghai, I think these are far from enough.
Lost 10% mentally.
There are two days from the computer test competition to the notice of passing the computer test, which can actually make full preparations for the interview. Even if I fail the computer exam, what if I waste two days preparing? On the second day of the computer test, I took my baby to the movies and felt psychologically lost. Obviously, I didn't continue fighting.
It takes only half a day from the notification of the computer test to the interview. In fact, I didn't have time to prepare too much, so I was in a hurry to fill the vacancy.
Dislocation of reward mechanism
Perhaps our mentality is originally a one-day trip to the computer exam, not the kind that pursues reality wholeheartedly. Therefore, my father made a promise at the review stage of the computer test, and if he passed the computer test, he would be given a "big gift". As a result, after passing the computer test, he felt that he had got the gift and was unwilling to fight. I think the interview is just a walk.
Lack of literacy
Although there is a parent-child reading time every night, there is no special literacy process. Although we can teach some Chinese when we study and think, because we never care about his review, we often learn first, then forget, and don't consolidate. Eva said that during the interview, the teacher showed them a long story and asked them to repeat it. These babies will be defeated.
Practice writing too little.
I was lucky before, and I didn't let him practice calligraphy in particular. I think as long as I can write my name. Later, I asked Eva which part of the interview was the worst. He said that when he wrote, he found his name crooked, large and small, and other people's names were square and beautiful. After losing the election, Eva offered to add calligraphy classes.
I don't know enough about the normal school.
There is a "soul torture" on the online screen about truly understanding the topic, which is a "eye confirmation" for parents. Results During the interview, the teacher asked Eva what kind of primary school she liked. I haven't instilled practical teaching characteristics into my baby before. Eva finally said the name of a private primary school now. I guess the interview teacher must have collapsed and probably wrote the word "negative grading thickness" in his notebook.
Suddenly the distance was so close that it hit me hard after the failure. I have always been ashamed of my baby and didn't give him more educational support. I was depressed for two days, until I found myself in what Charles Munger called the "loss theory" in the psychological misunderstanding.
I feel ashamed to have only been involved for about two and a half months. Looking back on the process of growing up all the way, although we lost something, we gained more. Through the confrontation between real interview experts, Eva realized her own shortcomings and became more crazy. . . . .