1. Wipe your mouth before drinking other people's water, instead of wiping the bottle mouth with paper.

If others help you, you should invite me to dinner, but don't treat this meal as a favor.

3. When a friend has a second child, visit him, buy gifts for the boss, interact with him and play together.

Before I started to remind you, I gave you a beautiful compliment.

No matter how good the relationship is, when you visit a friend's house, you won't leave empty-handed, but you will definitely bring some gifts.

6. Ask people to do things, make a phone call to briefly explain your purpose, and invite people to dinner for an interview instead of sending two words on WeChat: "Are you there?"

7. Have a clear understanding of yourself, don't pretend to be forced and don't make a fool of yourself.

8. People who boast about cooking before eating. Never complain about what you have enjoyed without contributing, just be grateful.

9. When giving gifts, someone gave you 500 last year and you gave him 666 this year. When people interact with each other, one party owes the other a little, so that they can play together for a long time.

10. If you dare to lose your temper, you will lose your temper. Talk to the intermediary customer politely. If the problem still can't be solved, there will be a big fight. For people with high emotional intelligence, losing temper is not to vent their emotions, but to solve problems.

1 1. Talk to each other to save face. Go shopping in the mall and swipe your credit card. I failed several times. The cashier didn't directly say that there was no money in this card, but asked, "There seems to be something wrong with the machine. Is it convenient for you to pay in cash? "

12. When some men play too many jokes on girls, change the subject and stop talking.

13. People who are not as good as themselves are also very polite. The last sentence to arrange work for subordinates is always "thank you". After cleaning, the cleaner always says thank you.

14. The real high emotional intelligence is self-respect and self-love, and it will not be wronged to please others. In the face of unreasonable demands from others, we will not agree just because we can't save face.

15. People with high emotional intelligence often have delicate minds. You can remember that once you didn't like chopped green onion for dinner, and you can always find small blessings in life with him, such as the surprise when you double-click the screen ~

16. It's better to reply immediately when you see the news, even if it's just an expression, than to pretend not to see it.

17. When someone coughs during dinner, immediately ask the waiter to add water, and always pay attention to whether the wine in the guest's glass is full.

18. Be able to accurately understand other people's emotional feelings and treat others unconditionally and without purpose.

19. When you find yourself doing something wrong, apologize immediately and try to remedy it, instead of simply saying sorry.

20. Never put others in an awkward position, such as asking, "Do you prefer mom or dad?" "Your mother and I both fell into the water. Who will you save first? "

2 1. You can remember other people's names once and call them out accurately next time.