I used to attach great importance to salary, and I would be grateful if it exceeded three or five hundred yuan, because salary had a far-reaching impact on my quality of life. And those children of rich families never consider small money such as houses and cars. When they enter an industry, they can completely follow their own hearts and have full freedom of choice. They have a long-term vision and will never let the small interests in front of them bind their hands and feet. They think more about the experience of the industry, accumulate effective contacts, learn the rules of the industry, and start a business when the time is ripe. In high school, I had a female classmate. My father runs a factory and there are several shops at home. His family is very superior.
I like to draw ink painting, and I also study philosophy, so I can't find a job major. When I graduated from college, I didn't go to a foreign company or a civil servant like we crowded the wooden bridge, but I took orders to draw pictures, and my daily income was only two or three hundred. We always thought that she would go on like this forever until a few years later, when the time was right, she set up her own studio. Due to long-term accumulation, the annual profit soon exceeded one million. Even though I knew I might succeed, I didn't have the courage to wait like this rich girl, because poor children can't afford to lose. The more people you have, the less afraid you are of losing. ? Children from poor families have no chance to wait patiently, and the pressure of life makes them think more about immediate interests. A while ago, the entrepreneurial tide made many post-90 s entrepreneurs. I don't know if you have studied these post-90 s parents carefully. Anyway, the mother of edamame studied them carefully: their fathers, without exception, were all born after 60, with a high level of education, and struggled for certain wealth in the early days of reform and opening up. These post-60s are now the pillars of China society. They have enough ability to provide their children with a good material living environment and educational conditions. It is the good economic foundation laid by their parents that makes these newborn calves after 90 not afraid of tigers and have the confidence to let go: anyway, business is losing money, and there are wealth management benefits at home, so they will not starve to death.
In contrast, the migrant workers who went out to work 20 years ago, their children stayed at home. As parents, they didn't have the time and energy to take care of their children, and they didn't have enough resources to improve their children. They just live hard. However, their children born in 1980s and 1990s still drop out of middle school at will, and then set foot on the old road of their parents going to work in cities, and then they are still squeezed on the edge of the bustling city. A few of these people are still determined to change their lives, but only a small part. Children from rural areas, even in the face of opportunities, it is difficult to stick to it. What a naked reality it is that it is difficult for poor families to have expensive children.
Do you think the rich really only have money? Wealth is only an appearance, and more importantly, it is the possession of social resources and high-quality contacts. Through the contact of parents, the children of rich people have much broader horizons, contacts and resources than the children of poor families, and it is difficult for children of poor families to get these resources. A man in Zhihu said it was realistic. Is standing on the shoulders of giants the same as standing on a firewood pile? ? Why did Liu Chuanzhi's daughter Liu Qing graduate from Harvard and become the president of Didi, and her niece Liu Zhen was also an executive of Uber in China? Simple: create the second generation of resource transfer.
Take the difference between me and dad's edamame for example. My family is ordinary, and my parents hold the stereotype of "earning a dead salary". Never dare to take risks and don't know how to mobilize resources. Dad, the edamame family did business. He knew the process of doing business from an early age and saw things closer to the essence of business. On the same question, dad edamame's thinking is much more flexible than mine, and his ability to use resources is much higher than mine. I need to work hard to make up for these gaps, which is the result of the influence of family vision.
The rich and the poor also have differences in mentality. Sometimes, the poor are more willing to complain about society, hate their lack of connections, and make excuses for their failure when they are not doing well. The rich, on the other hand, complain less, find reasons from themselves and seize the next opportunity to work hard silently. When I was a child, I lived in a shabby neighborhood with many poor people. Twenty years later, I found that many children inherited their parents' complaints and hostility to society and their parents' poverty. And I have seen many rich people lose their wealth in an instant, but they don't cry or complain, and they come back 20 years later. These advantages are also subtly given to their children. Therefore, it is not so much money as that many rich second generations have inherited this mentality!