I was sick at home a while ago, so I couldn't turn my money around for a while. In particular, the money reimbursed by medical insurance is different from the money paid by the actual hospital. If you don't have enough money, you have to pay it yourself first, and then "refund more" when you finally settle the account. So, I really borrowed money from my relatives and friends, but different people have different reactions.

1 Didn't ask me how much I wanted, but gave me everything I could.

After I posted the news of borrowing money in the group, everyone knew the general situation, and then began to discuss how much money I could get.

A good relative, who belongs to brother and sister, paid 10 thousand yuan directly, not borrowed, but given. She said, anyway, my brother and sister don't have to say anything, just do it when they should, and if it's not enough, she will find a way.

In addition, the family itself is not rich, and there are not many jobs at ordinary times. Knowing that we all have to go to work and have no time to take care of patients, we will help directly. We don't have to worry about three meals a day, and we also know what to pay attention to in the process of patient care. During the diet and infusion treatment, she was helping.

For such a "friend in need is a friend indeed", I can only keep their kindness in mind and repay them with my heart.

I ask what's going on, and I can't give money until I know it clearly.

Some relatives and friends, knowing that the hospital is out of money, will stop taking drugs and stop checking, but in the name of "care", they are not concerned about the condition, not the progress of treatment, but how much the treatment will cost, what kind of danger it is and whether it can be cured. ...

Even told me to prepare for the worst in advance and not to waste money on treatment. ...

I don't know what it was like to meet such relatives and friends when your family signed the notice of serious illness, but I think for a moment, it felt like the sky was falling. ...

I feel more sad than when I can do nothing.

There are some people whose family finances are really more difficult than ours. But when I said I wanted to borrow money, he could only find as much money as possible.

Whose money is not hard earned, and whose money can be blown by strong winds? Moreover, there are some people who have big careers and heavier economic burdens than me. I just need to take care of myself. Some of them are old and young, and the financial burden of the whole family is on their shoulders. ...

But when I knew I needed money badly, I really helped myself to borrow it and give me change. ...

I can't get together, I can't give much money, and I'm more sad than myself ... As for the patient's illness, it's not clear because I don't even have money to worry that I can't face this situation. ...

But in any case, the money was finally collected, and no one could really do it.

Finally, the relatives were safely discharged from the hospital and nothing happened. We also thanked the friends who borrowed money according to the custom, and the borrowers also worked hard to make money and repay the money according to the agreed time.

Talking about money hurts feelings, but some feelings are really more important than money.