First, parents should not make excessive arrangements and let their children learn to do their own things. Because parents feel that their children are still young, there is no need to let them experience too many setbacks. However, in Bian Xiao's view, overprotection of children is actually unnecessary. If you think too much, your children will become more and more lazy. Have you ever heard the saying that a child is too lazy to think? If you don't want to explore, you will become more and more stupid and get used to relying on your parents. Everything is covered with clothes. Don't make all kinds of arrangements for your child before he speaks. When I grow up, I will leave my parents' wings. At that time, they were not interested in the people and things around them. He wanted others to take care of him, but he didn't.
Second, don't be too harsh. Of course, as parents, don't always be too harsh. Don't think that a dutiful son is born under the stick. You want your child to appear in the future and educate him correctly, but there is no need to educate such a child with a stick. They may be used to looking at other people's faces and dare not speak their own thoughts and opinions, for fear of being punished, children are likely to become dual personalities and lack self-confidence. He is timid and has no courage to accept some new challenges. Don't ignore him in the process of early education. These will make children's spiritual needs and life needs ignored, and children will have no sense of belonging and lack self-awareness.