When my daughter was very old, my mother gave birth to a younger brother, and all my friends congratulated her. Relatives said, "How happy it is to have a younger brother." My sister said coldly, "This is very happy, not me, I just got back." Go away. "In recent years, the couple spent a lot of money, and the 5-year-old daughter's English level and self-care ability have improved, but her daughter seems to be an outsider and her speech is neither too cold nor too hot. They don't have any intimate interaction, and they come back to hide in your own room on weekends, outside the busy grid. Does the popularity of young children lead to insecurity? Favorable analysis, parents are more important.
The advantages and disadvantages of kindergartens in the whole class are generally divided into half-class and full-time, half-day, day, night and weekend; Tote Tote is a working day in kindergarten and goes home on weekends. In addition to kindergartens, there are full-time early education centers specially designed for children, usually from a few months to three years old. The total cost is not cheap, why do parents still send their children? In fact, all Tibet is beneficial, so let's analyze it today. All Tibetans are taking care of their children and fighting for their lives. If parents are busy, no old people can help their children and no one can solve them. In the earthen altar, you can exercise your self-strength. Now children at home are like "the center of the universe". The whole family will turn around. Children rarely have the opportunity to give their hands and their mothers clothes, eat grandma's feed and have the ability to take care of themselves. Everything has to be done. Can exercise children's self-care ability. Nowadays, many children are only children, and there are no peers at home. The peers are all at the age of Tutorbane. Children can develop their skills and solve their conflicts.
Educators believe that early social interaction and emotional experience are the key to children's intellectual development. There is a special person who has a unified timetable for taking care of children, diet, nutrition and collective life. When I get up, when I play, and when I arrange it are beneficial to children's living habits. Top-level courses will introduce international popular parenting concepts, such as "knight education", cultivate children's exploration spirit, let children of different ages follow older children and take care of them, and let children learn independently in a relaxed and happy environment through specially made Montmartre. The form of handbag is beneficial for teachers to implement teaching results. The whole workplace is full of toys and interests, and children run better in a single environment than at home.
Disadvantages of the complete table 0-6 years ago, the parent-child relationship was established at the critical stage between the child and the parents, and the parents had no love for the child, which constituted the child's sense of security. When children need their parents, when they are not there, there will be emotional space between them. Not only children, but also parents. Without children's investment in parenting, it is difficult for parents to have feelings for their children. Early education is to teach and teach others, you can teach yourself, and others are optional; You teach loans yourself, and others teach flowers.
Although teachers can take care of children, they are different from their own hearts for work. There are so many children in the classroom that it is difficult for one child. There are contradictions between children. As long as there is no trauma, it is difficult for teachers as parents to pay attention to their children's hearts. And there are many children and few teachers. In order to attract the teacher's attention, children must learn to understand the appearance of colors at an early age, which is not good for their growth. The total price is expensive, and you can do what it can do. Parents take their children to play, go to nature to breathe fresh air, go to the community to find other children to play, go to museums to grow up, and go to gymnasiums to keep fit.
Children's sense of security is a kind of self-feeling, which refers to inner confirmation. It is a stable and fearless feeling. The growth of children needs the love of their parents. Sending a child to practice "independence" in the whole picture, the child is the age of parents, and not being loved by parents will cause children's safety. In cultivating children's sense of security, Dr. Greensburg pointed out that security is a state and feeling, which is not only reflected in children's hearts, but also in their relationships with parents, siblings and more families.
Newborns have no ability to protect themselves and need 24-hour care and care from their parents. Once "crying immunity" is achieved, "delayed gratification training method" is very popular in the United States. It advocates that babies "cry, don't cry, don't cry". Although she seldom cries, which worries her mother, honey, after the "crying immunity" training, children have many psychological problems and slight sleep disorders in adulthood, which is a serious torture. Man is not a cold ice machine, but an advanced creature. Now people advocate "caring for children" and "feeding on demand". When children are hungry, they should eat as much as possible and establish safety from an early age.
A child with a sense of security is like a strong heart, you can be direct, even in the face of adversity, you will not be lost, because they know that their families love them, they will never struggle, and they are a little behind them. Fairy tales with a sense of security are more likely to have an optimistic attitude and good interpersonal relationships, and are more likely to become happy. Austrian psychologist Avrad Adler said: "Fortunately, life is dominated by childhood; Unfortunate people live in childhood. " If children lack enough love and attention in childhood, it will lead to a sense of insecurity. They are fragile, and they will act in behavior.
Some children listen to their mothers' children, or they become embarrassed when they are young. If the mother accuses the child of being stingy, it will further hurt the child's mind. He is embarrassed because he has no self-confidence and is not recognized enough. With the love from his parents, he is insecure and afraid that his parents will love others, not himself. Some children are happy at home, but they insist on their mother. They don't want to play with other children. They don't love others, because the unfamiliar environment has lost the familiar sense of security and changed my obedience. I can only take my mother. With enough children in my heart, I can adapt to a strange environment quickly. If there are not enough children, it will become embarrassing.
Insecurity, like the security of love, brings you something to calm down. In the popular variety "My Daughter", Fuyuan Wan Hui went home, still training, and there was a red cloth strip. Dad gave her a towel called "Touch". Fu Yuanhui likes to touch towels, but she still needs to feel safe at all times. Cultivate children's sense of security and independence. Leave the child in Tibet, hoping that the child can cultivate moral character. This is the expression of parents' "lazy Poland". Cultivating children is long-term and needs to be done thoroughly. This is a loving and patient parent. Great project, no one can replace parents.
Bill Gates revealed that every parent's education for children will accompany your child's life, educate the children who need it most, and provide a rich sense of security. It does not conflict with the child's sense of security and the independent spirit cultivated by the child, and parents can take care of it. 1. Respect children's wishes and don't force them to pay for history. Every child is different. Some children are outside and like to play with other children. Some children are bound. Like themselves, parents also need to analyze according to their children. If children have resistance, don't force them to attend classes, don't work on excuses, don't teach, and give up their education. Professor Li proposed "to lay a solid foundation for education". The process of promoting children is the process of accumulating educational capital. Only when it is difficult to raise children can we let them control them. After educating them, they will listen to you.
In family education, cultivating safe and independent family education is the foundation of all education, and the companionship of parents is the beginning of family education. Former US President Barack Obama, even if I am busy at work, I have to accompany my children to dinner. He thinks the positive significance of accompanying children is very important. In the process of high-quality casual children, parents can bring a sense of security and cultivate children's independence in this process. First, observe children's behavior and find out their problems. In the documentary Super Baby Nurses, baby nurses go to different families to help solve the children's children. On the first day, he was a bystander, watching his family search normally. Parents first observe their children's daily behavior as bystanders and find that some children need to increase, not children, and do everything.
There is a target director. When children are young, it is mainly to cultivate their self-care ability. Parents should let go and give it to their children. Opportunity. Children are interested in eating themselves. Parents should not be afraid of being dirty and let their children eat by themselves; When a child sees that his parents want a mop, he might as well give him a dry mop to play with and cultivate his work consciousness. Children want to wear their own clothes, guide them to wear their own clothes, practice more, and tell them that they must do their own things. When the child is older, pay attention to cultivating his independent thinking ability. Tell him this story, encourage him to retell it in his own words, give him a different ending of the story, and let him ask his own story. Children's independence is like a spark, and parents will guide them, which will eventually become the original trend. Think of trouble, but time to establish close relationship with children, parents should cherish precious parent-child time, give their children enough sense of security, and let their families soar alone after they plug in their wings.