Introduce yourself, an ordinary family in a small county. After graduation, I worked as a personnel officer in an R&D company in the current city. My husband is a local. When I got married, my mother-in-law bought a house near her in-laws in full. That's not the point. The key is that we can only ask my husband to pay the house money after we get the certificate, which is equal to our married property.
Although my family has married a car and decorated furniture, it is still not as good as my husband's family. At least I don't treat my daughter-in-law as an outsider. After we got married, we didn't know where to pay for the water, electricity, gas and heating in our small family. There are always fresh vegetables, fruits, milk, chicken, duck and fish in the refrigerator, which are arranged by our in-laws.
When I come home from work, the dishes and soup are ready-made, the hygiene is cleaned and the dirty clothes are washed. My father-in-law is a good cook. I have been gaining weight since my husband and I got married.
Regarding pregnancy, many female colleagues around me said that how to treat it after pregnancy has become better. I've never. Before and after pregnancy, my in-laws were also very kind, comfortable and took good care of me.
My daughter has been taken care of by my grandparents since she was born. Our in-laws came to work during the day. In the evening, they always clean up after supper. Basically, I'm not allowed to do anything except work. My daughter is four years old now, and she is closest to her grandparents. She is smart and cute, thanks to her grandparents.
Since the girl was born, my grandparents have saved money to buy insurance for her on time every year. My grandparents paid for all kinds of early education classes and training classes in kindergarten. Don't ask me why I didn't pay, because I can't get it. Even though I have paid my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law often says, "My money will be yours sooner or later."
I said it was too dry and I wanted to drink soup. When I get home at night, I will drink chicken soup. I get hungry easily if I say I have to work overtime. When I got home at night, my mother-in-law bought me a big bag of snacks and asked me to take it to work. Because I am her daughter-in-law, my parents, grandparents and relatives also take care of me.
My father was diagnosed with lung cancer in 12 and came to my city for surgery. In-laws cook nutritious meals once a day and go to the hospital by bike. Knowing that my father eats sea cucumbers well, my father-in-law sends fresh sea cucumbers from his hometown along the coast every once in a while, and gives them to my father after processing them himself.
I was brought up by my grandmother and have deep feelings for her. Before she died of illness, her in-laws went to visit her, and grandpa came to my city to be caring and attentive. My family and relatives always give thumbs up when they mention my in-laws.
If I want to talk about my feelings, I think I must treat them like my parents, take care of them like my daughter, and let them enjoy their old age.